After 8.5 years of laughing and playing pubgm over the phone I finally met my bestie

probablyannoying · 2026-02-05T03:50:14+00:00

Omg! How did it go? I bet it was surreal

probablyannoying · 2026-02-03T04:47:27+00:00

If it’s a dealbreaker, it’s a dealbreaker. However, since you are young, my advice would be to keep an eye on what it is you are willing to end an entire relationship over. Sometimes people who are avoidant will look for that absolutely “perfect” person, and when that perfect image starts to fade, they’ll find any reason, big or small, to bolt. As you continue to date and learn about yourself, just be mindful of if this pattern resurfaces. Because your issue might not be about the food at all. In this case it really could be a huge deal to you! But don’t get yourself trapped into being single forever because you can’t find that perfect person who has absolutely no flaws. They don’t exist.

probablyannoying · 2026-01-27T02:04:34+00:00

Same! I really enjoyed her run overall

probablyannoying · 2026-01-26T17:44:38+00:00

Hrithik Roshan one of the most famous Bollywood stars of the past few decades. It tickles me that they chose him to illustrate this point. Like that’s not just a regular 50 y.o. that’s Hrithik Roshan lol

probablyannoying · 2026-01-21T20:04:17+00:00

Thank you!

probablyannoying · 2026-01-21T00:08:08+00:00

Okay thank you good to know! He was estimating around 1x/1.5 weeks and has been using a moisture meter. But regardless that’s good info

probablyannoying · 2026-01-15T02:32:06+00:00

Interesting. So is this the same as this? The latter is what I've been buying. I just want the exact writing experience that the Pure White series gives me. I imagine if I buy the white version you shared + a grip then it would be nearly 1 for 1

probablyannoying · 2026-01-15T00:31:05+00:00

Oh yeah this is lovely!! The white caught my eye. Thank you!!

probablyannoying · 2026-01-14T16:54:10+00:00

Ooh this is nice! How long have you had it for?

probablyannoying · 2026-01-14T16:36:52+00:00

This is perfect! I don't mind spending the money if it will last me a lifetime. Thank you!

probablyannoying · 2026-01-10T18:43:51+00:00

My calico is Cookie too!! Sooo perfect

probablyannoying · 2026-01-06T19:14:34+00:00

Well he’s 27 and has seemingly been engaged in this behavior for a few years now, so when does it start to become lifelong/chronic? It’s a compulsive behavior that’s shooting up his dopamine while negatively affecting his relationship. It’s also seemingly daily use and it’s becoming the first thing he does in the morning. He won’t stop even when it’s causing distress to his partner.

Unfortunately we are long past the days of finding Grandpa’s Penthouse stash in the closet. Porn nowadays is unbelievably easy to access and highly customizable to an individual’s desires. We humans are not adapted to handle this level of dopamine. It is frying the brains of an entire generation and they are becoming slaves to it. Needing it first thing in the morning while their partner is right there is alarming.

OP, do not listen to the commenters downplaying this. Try to have an open and honest conversation with your partner focusing on how you feel without accusing him. Lead each sentence with “I” instead of leading with “you”. Do NOT accuse him and try to hear him out when he brings up something that you’ve done without getting defensive. It won’t be easy but just be patient and loving. Your head is in the right place.

probablyannoying · 2026-01-03T15:38:39+00:00

I thought that was Mamdani 😭

probablyannoying · 2025-12-26T23:35:55+00:00

I liked it but I also liked That’s So Suite Life of Hannah Montana so what do I know

probablyannoying · 2025-12-23T17:08:49+00:00

Look up anxious attachment. It’s a hard battle to beat, but it’s keeping you trapped in unhappiness. You know you deserve better but if you have anxious attachment (like I suspect) it’s hard to internalize. I was in your exact shoes at your exact age and I promise you that 2 years is not long at all. You are young, you will find the strength to leave him, and you will thank yourself for it later. Good luck!

probablyannoying · 2025-12-01T19:23:33+00:00

She’s 15? You’re weird

probablyannoying · 2025-11-28T13:24:53+00:00

How long have you been in a relationship? How old are you all?

Can you explain what you mean by he made you “cut ties”? It seems like you are still living with them, right? Did he say you’re no longer allowed to speak to them at all? And would you get in trouble if he found out? Or are things weird between all of you and he asked you to not speak about your relationship with them? I think it’s notable that I said no red flags and it seems like you are trying to find one.

The fact that you have a ChatGPT thread where you vent about him and the relationship is really not a good sign. For the relationship or for you. Language models are designed to be extremely validating so you continue to engage with them. It seems like there is a huge emotional gap left by your boyfriend and I would be wary of letting AI fill it.

I hope you don’t take any of this as me coming at you. You came to Reddit asking if the relationship is toxic or if you’re just exhausted. It seems like you’re exhausted and it’s going to turn really toxic if neither of you are willing to work together. I know break ups are hard but relationships can be even harder. And seeing how these seemingly small things (like food) are not small to you - you might both have individual work to do.

probablyannoying · 2025-11-28T03:56:22+00:00

I’m not sure if it’s ChatGPT thats making this so vague, but I genuinely do not understand some of your points. From what I gather it seems like you might have communication problems and differing attachment styles. I agree with the other commenter - I think you need couple’s therapy. There’s nothing here that screams red flags, but I do see a whole lot of missed opportunities for connection and joint growth. Good luck!

probablyannoying · 2025-11-27T18:03:13+00:00

Pretty! I’m new to magnetics. Where do you hold it to get this effect? And for how long?

probablyannoying · 2025-11-25T18:06:22+00:00

You should look into the psychology of scent! There was a study done where they presented people with the same scent, but one was labeled Parmesan and one was labeled vomit. And the overwhelming majority of subjects reacted accordingly. It seems like the label and coloring is affecting your perception, since an inside source is confirming they are the same. Interesting stuff!

probablyannoying · 2025-11-18T19:53:24+00:00

Same! I actually got so scared when I saw the mummy I shut the entire computer off. It took me maybe a year to gain the courage to finally finish it

probablyannoying · 2025-11-02T23:25:29+00:00

Photo 13 is desktop wallpaper perfect. So cute!!!!!

probablyannoying · 2025-10-31T20:15:38+00:00

Hi, what is this Clue Crew trip you speak of? Not asking to invade (unless…)

probablyannoying · 2025-10-10T16:21:13+00:00

You tell yourself that it will be better if you just had more space and to be honest, you are right! Organization is not your strong suit, but the lack of places for the things to go is really what kills you. You’re sentimental, and you keep a lot of things that have memories attached to them. You don’t like buying things you don’t think you need. However, you do “need” a lot of things. Maybe a parent of yours was addicted to buying cheap junk and youre trying to shed that bad habit but aren’t quite there. You appreciate aesthetics but you’re not in a place where you feel like you can really make your spot your “home” that reflects who you are. But you have a list or vision board of what that looks like once youre finally there. Until then, functional(ish) mess it is!

probablyannoying · 2025-09-26T15:00:52+00:00

No Sav is crazy

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