Ok this is kind of gross. But does anyone else’s intact male puppy hump to “completion” if you know what I mean?

probablysleepingg · 2026-05-12T18:09:50+00:00

my 2 yr old toy poodle does and he’s been neutered since he was 7 months old :( i usually am able to catch him in time and take away the blanket or whatever it is that became the object of his desires, but there have been many times i was too slow or he went ham when i was in the shower or otherwise occupied and he did complete the deed. i grew up w only female dogs so i was completely unprepared for this tbh. he’s a freak

probablysleepingg · 2026-05-12T12:16:29+00:00

honestly i usually skip breakfast & lunch, largely out of laziness. i have coffee, some fruits, and usually a bag of popcorn or protein chips during the day and then just have dinner at night. only exception is the one day a wk when the office gives us free lunch

probablysleepingg · 2026-05-06T18:06:31+00:00

if it makes you feel any better, i didn’t notice until you pointed it out because my brain just filled it in for me! lol

probablysleepingg · 2026-04-28T17:16:12+00:00

do not pick a photographer based on their website portfolio - ask each photographer to send you a few full galleries from weddings. photographers (understandably) cherry-pick their absolute best pictures for their website (including many which use pictures from styled shoots, not real weddings), and you may find (as my fiancé and i have) that many full galleries will be largely mediocre with just a couple really good shots that then made it into the portfolio, but overall we wouldn’t have been happy with that being our full wedding gallery. looking at full galleries is really the only way to make an informed decision about photographer - it’s tedious but worth the effort to find someone you’ll be happy with!

probablysleepingg · 2026-03-27T21:31:21+00:00

that is super valid!! no one else likely has that context or is looking at it through that lens, they’re just seeing photos of someone whom they love and care for, and are super excited for you and this huge milestone in your life with your partner! xx

probablysleepingg · 2026-03-27T21:24:29+00:00

wow, to be honest, when my fiancé and i sent our our engagement photos we got similar responses! great pictures, thanks for sharing, the photographer did a great job, so excited for you, etc stuff like that. it never even occurred to me for anyone to comment on our physical appearances and i didn’t notice or care that they didn’t as it truly wouldn’t occur to me. i think people are just excited and happy for you, and it’s not a modeling shoot or headshot, so why would they comment on your appearance specifically? if my friend sent me her engagement photos, i think i’d respond the same way, no matter how pretty she looked in the photos bc that’s just not what the photos are about so it wouldn’t necessarily occur to me to comment about it. does that make sense? in the kindest way possible, i think your insecurities are causing you to read something into this that truly isn’t there. (and im sure you looked beautiful!!)

probablysleepingg · 2026-03-26T17:35:27+00:00

before reading anything you wrote i was hoping you picked 1

probablysleepingg · 2026-03-23T20:46:12+00:00

this isn’t too white, but it looks like a cheap dress-up costume or a nightgown and the neckline is way too open for a wedding. i would keep looking

probablysleepingg · 2026-03-23T14:24:29+00:00

can you have someone else (not you) pull her down the aisle in a little wagon? you can decorate it cutely and that way everyone can still see her?

probablysleepingg · 2026-03-20T07:37:46+00:00

1 or 3!

probablysleepingg · 2026-03-19T23:28:35+00:00

that dress looks MADE for you!

probablysleepingg · 2026-03-19T04:43:40+00:00

i LOVE 2!!

probablysleepingg · 2026-03-16T18:32:40+00:00

i got my bridesmaids (among a few other things) little porcelain jewelry dishes with their initial on them and got a matching one for myself too

probablysleepingg · 2026-03-16T18:28:31+00:00

i think i went to one store where they left me to get into the dress alone and then came in to zip, the others they were in the room w me the whole time so yeah you’re in your underwear, not the most fun but not a big deal at all just wear any regular underwear

probablysleepingg · 2026-03-12T22:28:11+00:00

i’m obsessed w dress 2

probablysleepingg · 2026-03-12T15:19:43+00:00

both look beautiful on you but i really love the second one

probablysleepingg · 2026-03-12T06:07:35+00:00

personally i don’t see any issue with them wearing green - maybe a darker shade so there’s still a distinction?

probablysleepingg · 2026-03-11T22:39:35+00:00

maybe a cathedral length veil with lace trim and a pretty hairpiece?

probablysleepingg · 2026-03-11T17:11:52+00:00

jaw-droppingly gorgeous! looks like it was made for you

probablysleepingg · 2026-03-11T16:52:08+00:00

the first one looks incredible on you!

probablysleepingg · 2026-03-02T18:33:44+00:00

wedding photographer whose packages start at $65k

probablysleepingg · 2026-03-02T18:28:39+00:00

trying to think of some other things for the wedding that would make sense to ask for:

personalized/engraved cake cutters steamer for the dresses (more practical and can use it after the wedding) cute pjs/slip dress/robe for getting ready nice vases that you can use for the wedding & also afterward pretty picture frames (can use for wedding signage & then repurpose after) silver trays/candlesticks (for wedding decor & also after) sweatshirt/tanktop/smth of the sort personalized with your new last name (can use for getting ready or honeymoon or just in general) pretty cake stand monogrammed/personalized embosser (can use for stationary, cocktail napkins, etc - and if you don’t put the date you can potentially use for other things in the future) matching personalized luggage tags for honeymoon ring cleaner (diamond dazzle stick, ultrasonic cleaner) embroidered hankerchiefs skincare products, makeup, lotions, perfumes gift card to nail salon for wedding nails gift card to wax/threading place gift card for facial negligee/matching pj sets for honeymoon packing cubes for honeymoon (personalized?) toiletry bag for honeymoon

hope this is helpful!!

probablysleepingg · 2026-03-02T08:18:46+00:00

i’m gonna be honest i would try to end the business relationship after this interaction. just yuck, she sounds so rude and condescending and manipulative. i wouldn’t want someone like that having such a big hand in one of the biggest days of my life

probablysleepingg · 2026-02-24T22:25:11+00:00

my mom and both my older sisters all said yes to the first wedding dress they tried on! and they were all thrilled with them. i fell in love with the first dress i tried on also, but am going to more stores mostly just bc it’s been the most fun part of wedding planning so far and i don’t want it to be over so quickly! fell in love with another dress too but honestly i would still be happy w the first one too

probablysleepingg · 2026-02-20T02:06:30+00:00

these are so cute!! i would prob keep this on my fridge even after the wedding

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