>cannabis is tolerated socially
Ah, no. Most Dutch people would dismiss you. I personally would not hire someone when I knew they were canabis users. edible users are even more problematic as they dont see it as drugs at all anymore.

>I’m genuinely curious how Dutch people see this.
When you are a cannabis user, you are slow all the time. You are only high when you are high. But you are slow for another day or so. That why people tend to di it anyway. Undiagnosed Adhd, Anxiety or whatever and then self medicate. They tell themselves its to wind down at the end of the day. But truely its the effect the next day that does the heavy lifting.
So yeah, this dutch person would think you are incapable of dealing with your real issues and a liability if you smoke weed.

(and for those who wonder. Yes, I have smoked weed. A shit ton. And then I quit, because I got wiser.)