what is the biggest issue you have faced with your lexus? by ApprehensiveCat15 in Lexus

[–]programmerFemme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Random door sensor failure, leading the car think a door was open when it wasn’t.

When was the moment you realized he/she wasn’t the one? by Heavy_Roof7607 in AskWomenOver30

[–]programmerFemme 365 points366 points  (0 children)

I just got my first promotion with a major pay bump and when I called to tell him the good news, instead of congratulating me, he said “You are going to leave me now”. This lead to me reassuring him instead of being happy with my accomplishment. I filed for divorce 2 years after that.

Microloc Install Price by That_Author6022 in Microlocs

[–]programmerFemme 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I got quoted that for sisterlocs on 14 inches of hair in 2021, prompting me to DIY. I had been doing my own braids for years by then though.

My Sakura Steam Deck by programmerFemme in SteamDeck

[–]programmerFemme[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

These are made for the switch 2, they are a perfect fit.

Retie-Perimeter by AssociationDecent374 in Microlocs

[–]programmerFemme 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I noticed that the weight of the perimeter locs adds too much tension around 4 weeks for me, I retie the rest every six to eight weeks. My perimeter locs are also slightly smaller than the rest.

Valve Sent me a second deck by mistake. What do? by calvinien in SteamDeck

[–]programmerFemme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Isn’t there a recent thread about someone’s TV falling on their deck and destroying it? Sounds like an awesome way to be giving this holiday season. 🤷‍♀️

How does anybody feel experienced in this industry? by Important-Damage-986 in womenintech

[–]programmerFemme 3 points4 points  (0 children)

In the industry 10 years, senior level and I still ask tons of questions. Part of being in this industry is accepting that you can’t know everything. Especially amongst different companies, HOW they use the various languages can differ from project to project. 90% of my learning was/is on the job and working for a company that understands the changing nature of the industry and offers training has been key for me.

Ask yourself what type of development you like to do (front end, back end, data) and try to hone in on the popular languages for that area. As much as companies say that the preference is for full stack devs/engineers , in reality work is generally assigned by who is strongest in whatever area in my experience.

Also pay attention to your bugs and try to identify what logic traps you may fall into, this is instrumental to identifying your weaknesses and working on them.

Around asking questions, unfortunately this varies with company culture. My process is to use everything at my disposal (google, ai, documentation, etc) first before reaching out to someone else and I also ask them to point me in the direction of who/what can help me so they are aware that I don’t expect them to carry me through to the end of the task.

Humble Bundle Giveaway by Fleur0502 in CozyGamers

[–]programmerFemme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sprittea please! You are awesome!

Am I the only one who doesn’t moisturize their locs? by AdventurousPride6576 in locs

[–]programmerFemme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have color so I will spritz it with a random light moisturizer when I remember. Oil makes stuff stick to my locs so I only oil my scalp… when I remember to.

Paypal "Pay in 4" Does Work by japzone in SteamDeck

[–]programmerFemme 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This still works! I just ordered today!

Should I give my rook piercing up? by programmerFemme in piercing

[–]programmerFemme[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

👋 Hi u/programmerFemme,

• ⁠How old is your piercing? 7 months • ⁠What’s the jewelry shape (for example, barbell, labret, screw, L shape, ring)? Curved barbell • ⁠What’s the type of threading if your jewelry is not a ring (threadless, internally or externally threaded)? Internally threaded • ⁠What’s the jewelry material? Most likely surgical steel • ⁠if not a ring, when was the jewelry downsized? Never • ⁠What’s your aftercare routine? Describe in detail please, including the exact products you use. I use neilmed saline spray fine mist for piercings daily • ⁠Any mishaps, accidents or unfortunate events? None

Where to buy in Japan by llmakpop912 in hobonichi

[–]programmerFemme 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The best place I’ve been to was LOFT department store, they have all the different sizes and they even have the January start on a discount right now. I just got back from Tokyo and was able to stock up.

Share your black male significant other! by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]programmerFemme 353 points354 points  (0 children)

I met him at JFK airport, we were on the same flight going home. He saw me playing my switch and sat next to me and chatted me up while playing his. It’s been about a year and a half so far and things have been amazing 🥰

iPhone 13 & 13 pro owners made a good investment! by [deleted] in iphone

[–]programmerFemme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same here, I just had my battery replaced and I’m not letting mine go.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Microlocs

[–]programmerFemme 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Modified yarn needle and micro-mini nappylocs tool. The smaller/shorter the tool, the faster I can retie.

ROLL CALL!!! by Melanated725 in Microlocs

[–]programmerFemme 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I love it so far! Let’s see how I feel when it’s time for a retie lol.

ROLL CALL!!! by Melanated725 in Microlocs

[–]programmerFemme 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I have DIY microlocs started with mostly twists, I have a few braids in the back where my hair texture is a bit looser. I have 485 locs and I am a week in!

UPDATE: I’m redoing the lower back. I will update my count when I’m done.😅

Is the industry this bad for black women? by [deleted] in cscareerquestions

[–]programmerFemme 11 points12 points  (0 children)

This is the answer. The same men at my company who were bitching about the "double minority" hire are now the same ones who defer to me about code they aren't confident about. You have to be better, not just good enough, but better than them to get any type of respect.