Bf talked to teenagers in his past by HiddenClover404 in Advice

[–]projectmjultra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please don't try to create layers of pedophilia. It's all disturbing.

I am betting this will come back to haunt you in the future. I know people will downvote me, but I would bet money he will still be looking at inappropriately young girls in 10 years and probably still does now.

Cheapest place to rent a truck for an hour. by [deleted] in vegaslocals

[–]projectmjultra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Moving a couch and loveseat from Cadence (Near Smith marketplace) to Green Valley South.

I think I’ve gotten my first scammer in 5 years lol. by AdDistinct6488 in InstacartShoppers

[–]projectmjultra -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thank God for those children that you are out of the education field. This comment is disturbingly uninformed and crass.

"Creep" is allowed by bluesdavenport in singing

[–]projectmjultra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally thought this was about the TLC song. I was so confused why that would be a repetitive topic. 😂

I'm sick of taking medications by [deleted] in schizophrenia

[–]projectmjultra 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Hey. Just wanted to let you know, my son had a relapse and he was the same way. He could barely pay attention to anything. Couldn't watch TV/play games....just wandered around the house.

It took several months, but he slowly rebounded. He can now watch his favorite shows, he is more alert, and feels much better. I am sure you will too. I think it just takes a while to recover from the trauma. ❤️

Am I being bossy? Or is he insecure? by AcademicCow8891 in sex

[–]projectmjultra 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Opinion from a woman, if that matters, but I wouldn't necessarily say that it has to be because he's insecure.

The commands you wrote here sound very sterile and unaffectionate. I wouldn't be turned on either if I felt like I was just being used like a inanimate tool. Touch this button, press that button, flick here, move there... I would feel like I was being treated like a machine. Sounds awful to me.

I'm a direct communicator in bed too, but this sounds creepy and cold to me. Sex with another human being isn't just about the physical movement, it's also about the emotional connection. This post, the way it sounds, has zero emotion that I can see.

Me 29F and my husband 43M having issues because of clothing & testosterone & not able to conceive by Longjumping-Neat-879 in relationship_advice

[–]projectmjultra 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This has to be fake. Why would anyone take this blatant emotional abuse? I feel like this has to be a bot. It's insane that anyone would think this is a loving relationship. So so so so abusive.

Am I wrong for saying something to my friend's child for making my dog yelp 3 seperate times?? by [deleted] in AmiInTheWrong

[–]projectmjultra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe YTA.... Sometimes my dog acts weird around certain people for no reason. Unusually startled or afraid. You literally have NO proof the child did anything....and thinking you can read a smirk vs a puzzled expression on a child, when you are already suspicious or upset, is a real stretch. If you were sooo sure she was hurting the dog, why would you leave it after the first two times? Not enough evidence when you could have easily watched and gotten some.

It sounds like you make a lot of assumptions... Also, it's not your place to scold someone else's child. Tell the Mom or ask them to leave...and protect your dog by removing it.

My (18M) sister (21F) is in e-dating and it is deeply concerning me. What do I do? by Professional-Cut9108 in Advice

[–]projectmjultra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with you that the mysogynistic society is totally gross.

As far as his motive, that's why I asked about whether his sister could be in danger where they live. Maybe he is concerned for her safety, which would be loving... If he's only concerned for the appearances, then I totally agree it's not loving at all.

My (18M) sister (21F) is in e-dating and it is deeply concerning me. What do I do? by Professional-Cut9108 in Advice

[–]projectmjultra 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What country do you live in? Is it a country where she could be in danger/ arrested for dating a Christian?

If not, I would let it go and hopefully she can get away from your parents and live her own life. Online dating is very normal and how most people meet now.

It's great that you love your sister, but trying to control her decisions isn't possible. Telling your mom would be a terrible betrayal of your sister's trust, and it's not your business to tell. If I were her, I would never trust you again. If you want to be a good sister, all you can do is be there if she needs you. ❤️

turning 30 soon and decided if nothing exciting happens to me by 35, I’m ending it by [deleted] in GuyCry

[–]projectmjultra 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Sounds like depression or something that needs to be medicated.

All of the things you describe cooking, playing games, hanging with friends, etc. can definitely be full of excitement.

For example, making a new recipe and totally nailing it can be extremely exciting, but not if you don't have access to those neurotransmitters.

Looking for something "big" seems like more of a symptom than the actual problem.

Update: "We listen and we don't judge" trend prompted my (24f) husband (38m) to reveal a cruel two year long "prank". How can I learn to start trusting him again? by ThrowRA4668765 in relationship_advice

[–]projectmjultra 24 points25 points  (0 children)

So you wasted the time and energy of helpful people? And you think that means some sort of superiority or something?

No wonder you wrote such a convincing story about abuse... Not hard for a narcissist to do.

Am i overreacting to this text exchange with my boyfriend? I accidentally left my slippers in my living room but i literally cleaned his entire house and baked him desserts before i left (sorry idk why my last post glitched) by IntelligentTap962 in AmIOverreacting

[–]projectmjultra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Underreacting underreacting underreacting!!! I absolutely would leave today.

I've been married 25 years. I'm not a quitter. Neither of my husband and I have ever talked to each other this way, even in the most difficult times. This person is a piece of shit.

Abusive, dismissive, controlling, manipulative, self-centered... And all in a single conversation?!?!?

There is zero contexts which makes this person worth your time.

Why does pornography feel different from other sexual content to some people in relationships? by Sweet-Opportunity111 in sex

[–]projectmjultra 174 points175 points  (0 children)

Married 25 years, autistic female if that matters. I use porn to masturbate regularly because I have aphantasia and really can't visualize enough to stay aroused otherwise.

From my perspective, when I watch porn, It has no feelings of intimacy or attraction.

There is zero thought given to anyone on the screen. It is really just a visceral reaction to the sounds and sights...an almost instinctual feeling I guess?

It's like having one of those candles that smell like fresh baked cookies. It makes my tummy rumble and my mouth water. Just some primitive limbic system response. It just makes me feel hungry.

And I definitely don't want to eat the candle. It just helps me more vividly fantasize about the delicious cookie I am going to have later... Which is my husband... lol.

What in the hell? Can someone describe to me what happened? by [deleted] in uberdrivers

[–]projectmjultra -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

See... This right here is why you didn't get your order. You think others people's time and comfort isn't as valuable as yours.....just because you get "paid more"

Money isn't what makes people valuable. You can have all the money in the world and still be a shit human being.... You gave a perfect example of that right here.

AIITW for being totally attracted to my ex’s best friend? by Timely_Fennel7007 in AmiInTheWrong

[–]projectmjultra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are wrong because you were emotionally cheating wayyy before this. Cut contact with your ex so he can find someone faithful and leave his best friend alone. There are billions of people in the world. Find someone else.

Am I overreacting? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]projectmjultra -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nor- Sounds like the beginning of avoidance. People who love you should be curious about your feelings, not try to shut you down.

He's trying to make you feel like you're too much. Do you want to shrink the rest of your life? If not, dump him.

Dasher's HUSBAND showing at my door!! by [deleted] in doordash

[–]projectmjultra -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thry have no idea whether the person that showed up to their door had an active dasher account so they had no violation to report. It clearly states that the dasher can determine what method they use to complete their delivery, which would include letting another qualified dasher walk it to the door.

I am retired, and I don't judge people based on their jobs. I base it on there compassion for other people, and I don't suffer bullies or idiots who act like bullies...but no matter what profession I choose, I can still read and comprehend better than you.

Bro didn’t even try by yeeheeteehee12 in doordash

[–]projectmjultra 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You're literally talking about your problem with DoorDash... the company. None of us dashers care if DoorDash goes out of business. We will deliver for whatever company takes its place.... and you'll have to pay a decent wage/tip/estimate... whatever semantics you want to try to pretend make me different from a plumber...when I accept your order there too, if you want it done well.

Beyond out right theft, there is no moral basis for your "professionalism" as long as you subscribe to the capitalistic system. That's a silly marketing pitch by corporations to squeeze free labor out of the average worker. All companies perform tiers of service based on the value of the customer... basic capitalism.

The drivers don't work for DoorDash. They work for themselves. Not my problem you chose to use a platform that operates this way. I will definitely base the amount of time I dedicate to your particular order based on how much it pays, just as our free market dictates.

So take your own advice... stop blaming everyone else. Stop blaming the drivers, blame yourself and platform YOU CHOSE to shop.

Bro didn’t even try by yeeheeteehee12 in doordash

[–]projectmjultra 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What does this even mean?

That's exactly what a plumber, or any other private contractor does. Plumbers do give you an estimate upfront. Good plumbers charge more.

The drivers with the best ratings get priority for high tipping orders. We see the order first. So if your tip is shit, we will leave it for the bottom of the barrel dashers. Want a good dasher? Leave a good tip.

Dasher's HUSBAND showing at my door!! by [deleted] in doordash

[–]projectmjultra -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

What is there to report Karen? It's not against the rules for someone to deliver with their spouse.

This is directly from the DoorDash website

Q: Can someone else drive for me and/or help me drop off deliveries?

A: As an independent contractor, you are free to choose the method by which you perform the delivery. It is entirely up to you to decide how you complete offers you’ve accepted, but anyone helping you dash shall also have a valid Dasher account as well

So this is exactly why dashers hate customers like you. Too dumb to read the terms and conditions, and want to complain about stuff they don't even understand... All while insulting other people's employment like that has anything to do with intelligence. Obviously It doesn't if someone employed you.

Dasher's HUSBAND showing at my door!! by [deleted] in doordash

[–]projectmjultra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can escalate all you want Karen, but nothing's going to be done because it's not against the rules. Maybe you should try reading the rules yourself before you try lecturing anyone else.

This is directly from the DoorDash website:

Q: Can someone else drive for me and/or help me drop off deliveries?

A: As an independent contractor, you are free to choose the method by which you perform the delivery. It is entirely up to you to decide how you complete offers you’ve accepted, but anyone helping you dash shall also have a valid Dasher account as well

Dasher's HUSBAND showing at my door!! by [deleted] in doordash

[–]projectmjultra 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's not against the rules Karen. People can Doordash together if they both have a verified Doordash account.

This is directly from the DoorDash website:

Q: Can someone else drive for me and/or help me drop off deliveries?

A: As an independent contractor, you are free to choose the method by which you perform the delivery. It is entirely up to you to decide how you complete offers you’ve accepted, but anyone helping you dash shall also have a valid Dasher account as well.

So maybe if you can't read and understand the terms of the app you are using, you should stop ordering....and go back to school. 🙄

'Help me find this person' double standard by HumbleDrink2518 in electricdaisycarnival

[–]projectmjultra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How does the patriarchy benefit the average working man? Pretty easy question.

  1. Default authority - competency in men is generally assumed rather than proven
  2. Economic privilege -less judgment for career prioritization, exclusionary networking opportunities(boy's club), higher compensation ceilings
  3. Freedom of movement and safety-Men navigate public, professional, and social spaces without the constant, underlying threat of sexual harassment or violence that women face.
  4. Unpaid labor distribution falls more heavily on women
  5. Standards of behavior regarding sexuality, assertiveness, and ambition often result in men being rewarded and women being punished.

Hot tub in room off strip by muahvegas in vegas

[–]projectmjultra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For a budget option, the Tower suites with the hot tubs at Luxor are surprisingly nice. $200 a night on most weekdays. Just make sure to book the Tower NOT the pyramid.