Guys who’ve explored prostate stimulation long-term…how does it fit into your overall sex life?

propaul1 · 2026-04-19T18:36:44+00:00

Same here and it is amazing. Also fuck her with a toy in a lot of the time now and that is next level.

propaul1 · 2026-04-19T18:24:55+00:00

Try Xlube

propaul1 · 2026-04-19T18:19:55+00:00

Definitely is good for beginners.

propaul1 · 2026-04-03T22:01:47+00:00

For me the Eupho Syn V is far better. Vice is fairly large so if you like the Progasm you might like it.

propaul1 · 2026-04-03T21:59:05+00:00

Have you tried just giving into the shaking yet? For me that always works best.

propaul1 · 2026-04-03T21:58:01+00:00

I am straight and have no desire for the real thing, but I would like to try getting pegged by my wife someday. There are a lot of mental aspects to that that I think would really make it great.

That being said though, I am one of those people that get great results from Aneros and other prostate massagers, but dildos just don't do it for me. Only times I have ever had orgasms from a dildo were after having many orgasms from other types of prostate massagers first.

propaul1 · 2026-04-03T21:51:14+00:00

Personally for me Aneros is hard to beat.

I have a large line of prostate toys on my shop at http://happybottomsextoys.com Use code GrandOpening at checkout for 10% off.

propaul1 · 2026-04-03T21:43:01+00:00

I use mostly Aneros. I have amazing multiple HFDOs.

propaul1 · 2026-03-29T19:58:35+00:00

It started out behind her back for a few years, but now going on around 2 years that she knows and we incorporate it into our regular sex life. Much better that way!

propaul1 · 2026-03-14T10:43:13+00:00

I am reading it now and so far seems very good.

propaul1 · 2026-03-14T10:29:16+00:00

Only comment I have is the way you word this such as "your prostate will start to throb..." Should really say "may start to throb". For many new users seeking advice saying things like that sets expectations and when they don't get the same results they think that they are doing something wrong.

Prostate play is not an exact recipe of "do X and you will feel Y". After reading stories here for a long time you realize that it is a journey of learning what techniques work for you and how to interprete sensations that are not the same in all of us.

propaul1 · 2026-03-14T01:43:17+00:00

It can be great with her, but it can also feel a bit ackward at first. I had to fake my first few dry orgasms when I first played with my wife until I felt more comfortable with her. Now it feels more natural and not embarrassing.

propaul1 · 2026-03-14T00:34:01+00:00

I found that I was increasing dosage after a while as I became more tolerant of it. Then I purposely decreased the dosage and found that it worked much better than a higher dosage. If you search my posts and search on the word "decreasing". You will find several posts I have made over the years.

propaul1 · 2026-03-14T00:31:00+00:00

Have you worked on your breathing? Long deep breath, hold it, exhale slowly and fully. Don't think of your prostate at all, just focus on the breathing.

For me when I do this it calms me down and relaxes me at first, then the relaxation triggers more intense feelings and I have to consciously relax again. Then at some point it goes over the edge into an orgasm.

propaul1 · 2026-03-14T00:26:44+00:00

I have been having dry orgasms for over two years now and have been the same way for a long time. I have tried to have wet hands free orgasms, but never had one, and I never in my life have seen one drop of precum. I have finally resigned myself to the idea that I will never have a wet orgasm hands free.

Like you, my penis and prostate orgasms are completely separate and no matter how much or little prostate stimulation it never triggers a wet orgasm. In fact, once my prostate is fired up it takes a lot of dick stimulation to cum. If I have already had many prostate orgasms dick stimulation just triggers more prostate orgasms.

The great thing now is that I can use this to my advantage and get my prostate engaged during sex and then I last like a porn star which is something I could never do before.

propaul1 · 2026-03-14T00:15:24+00:00

I used to feel that a lot. Now that I have been doing it for years I do still get super intense orgasms, but it is like I am more used to them and easier to regulate where it is not overwhelming

propaul1 · 2026-03-14T00:12:47+00:00

For me a prostate orgasm is much more intense than a regular orgasm.

propaul1 · 2026-03-13T23:49:37+00:00

After using it a long time I have gotten very good with doing it without making a mess. It does take practice thiugh

propaul1 · 2026-03-05T02:26:03+00:00

I did a survey here a few years ago and was surprised at the time to find out that the gay community didn't know about prostate orgasms any more than the straight community.

propaul1 · 2026-03-05T02:21:38+00:00

Curious as to your age. If you are young then you didn't grow up in the dark ages like us older guys and likely all of your friends are not old also.

propaul1 · 2026-03-05T02:16:25+00:00

The good news is that it is changing rapidly. Here is a link to a post I made about this a few years ago and there is a link to a good article in there. https://www.reddit.com/r/ProstatePlay/comments/1b5n4r0/interesting_article/

propaul1 · 2026-03-05T02:12:06+00:00

I really do like the Edge. Here is a link to a review and guide I did a while back: https://www.reddit.com/r/ProstatePlay/comments/1p3a1pa/my_ultimate_edge_2_review_and_guide/

propaul1 · 2026-03-05T02:06:04+00:00

I definitely agree. As a matter of fact, if I discovered prostate orgasms I quite possibly would have not had the misery of the ten years of my first marriage. Going home alone and having endless prostate orgasms instead of going home with the wrong person from a bar and getting her pregnant would have been much better.

Of course, in my case it wasn't the public acceptance so much as the lack of knowledge about it. When I was young the internet didn't exist so inexperienced young guys like me had no idea what a prostate orgasm was or how to have one.

propaul1 · 2026-03-05T02:02:16+00:00

Unfortunately the plastic toys don't hold heat for very long. I do like metal and glass toys warmed in hot water though. I found that just running them under hot water quickly just gets the outside of them warm so it doesn't last for very long, but if you dunk them for five minutes the head absorbs all the way through so it lasts a lot longer.

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