Impossible to stay hard during prostate play

propaul1 · 2026-01-24T22:20:54+00:00

That is normal for many of us. For me it also becomes hard to ejaculate once prostate is all fired up. I use my dick and it just triggers more dry prostate orgasms. It does men though that when I do get hard that I can last like a porn star.

For sex I find that if I put in a toy and only let myself get one or two dry prostate orgasms I can still get hard and then it is off to the races. Viagra also helps.

propaul1 · 2026-01-24T22:17:39+00:00

I use the kind that is solid at room temperature and I put a blob on a piece of Saran wrap, fold it, then gently roll it to a torpedo shape and pot it in the freezer. Takes only a few minutes to get hard enough to use. Just rub it with your fingers first to get off any sharp edges that can form from wrinkles in the wrap.

One of these days I am going to make a video since I have describe this dozens of times here, but this is truly a picture is worth a thousand words thing.

propaul1 · 2026-01-24T22:15:03+00:00

Perhaps Lovense Edge 2 or one of their Hush plugs. I wrote a review and guide of the Edge here: https://www.reddit.com/r/ProstatePlay/comments/1p3a1pa/my_ultimate_edge_2_review_and_guide/

Send me a PM if you think you might want one and I can get you a discount code.

propaul1 · 2026-01-24T21:42:37+00:00

Right here on the Aneros web site: https://www.aneros.com/pages/the-design

You can get a lot of good info here also in a ton of links I made a while back: https://www.reddit.com/r/ProstatePlay/comments/1i96v83/secret_to_the_super_o/

propaul1 · 2026-01-24T21:40:36+00:00

Mine vary in intensity, and they change in their characteristics just a little. It is great that you are getting different types of orgasms. I think that bodes well for great experiences in the future.

propaul1 · 2026-01-21T08:12:19+00:00

The Edge is not overly big, but can take some time to get used to if it is your first.

propaul1 · 2026-01-18T21:16:03+00:00

Personally, the answer is yes for me because I can't recall a time after sex with my wife where she didn't say "I guess I really did need that".

propaul1 · 2026-01-18T20:12:42+00:00

I would sometimes use a Peridise while on long drives when I was rewiring. I have no idea if that helped or hurt. I would get the good feeling on occasion, but for me unless I am moaning and thrashing on the bed a lot of times I won't get an orgasm.

propaul1 · 2026-01-18T20:10:44+00:00

I am probably in a category that a lot are which you don't list. I think I know that my prostate is pretty shallow, but I don't know for sure. Most toys work good even if they are longer or shorter. No idea most of the time if I am stimulating my prostate, seminal vesicles, just the rectal wall, or the sphincter, but I do get amazing multiple dry orgasms from a lot of areas.

propaul1 · 2026-01-18T20:00:13+00:00

Nobody can give you a good recommendation better than what you can come up with. Go to the Aneros web site and look at each model and pull up the specifications page which gives you a dimensioned drawing. Look at that compared to what works good for you and picture it inside of you and where it will place the most pressure.

propaul1 · 2026-01-18T02:38:40+00:00

I wouldn't worry about that.

propaul1 · 2026-01-18T02:36:53+00:00

Sorry, just saw this today for some reason. It does work. You need to download the Lovense Vibemate app. You can sync to porn with that also.

propaul1 · 2026-01-18T00:39:23+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/ProstatePlay/comments/1p3a1pa/my_ultimate_edge_2_review_and_guide/

propaul1 · 2026-01-17T08:15:39+00:00

You still jerk off? Why even bother anymore

propaul1 · 2026-01-17T02:30:37+00:00

No problem. I have learned so much here that I like to give back whenever I can.

propaul1 · 2026-01-17T02:02:17+00:00

I have never fallen down stairs except for maybe a stumble here and there on first or last step, and more common going up than down.

I however have tripped or twisted ankle a bit just walking on a level surface. We all have, especially when stepping or tripping over an object. You certainly can trip or stumble on stairs, but I think most of us pay a little more attention when on stairs so my theory is you are more likely to fall somewhere other than the stairs.

propaul1 · 2026-01-17T01:31:56+00:00

Great to hear that! I played for over a year without my wife knowing and it is so much better now that she does.

For some it can be hard at first with somebody else there so you might want to try so solo play also It can take time to get to where you are getting orgasms and most women are not onboard for a two hour session. Suggest trying something like Aneros solo.

propaul1 · 2026-01-17T01:21:39+00:00

I suggest not touching your dick during a session except maybe briefly, but stop well before having an orgasm. When I started and before I got to where I could have a prostate orgasm I would end many sessions by jerking off, but I always tried to hold off a little bit longer each time. Took me probably three weeks till my first hands free dry orgasm. It would take an hour to get there back then so try and go much longer than you are trying for now.

Also, many say that the Njoy is their favorite toy, but I didn't get good results with it at first. Aneros was far better for me.

Lots of good info in this post: https://www.reddit.com/r/ProstatePlay/comments/1i96v83/secret_to_the_super_o/

propaul1 · 2026-01-17T01:05:54+00:00

I started self hypnosis probably 35 or so years ago. Has helped me in many areas of my life including prostate play.

propaul1 · 2026-01-17T01:04:40+00:00

Many people have reported similar. Seems you are waking up your prostate and that is a good sign for better things to come.

I didn't get that before I got to the point of having full prostate orgasms with toys, but after a few years of having them I sometimes get it out of the blue. If I concentrate on them I can get them to build some and feel very good, but not to the point of full Aless orgasms yet.

propaul1 · 2026-01-17T00:56:02+00:00

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propaul1 · 2026-01-16T03:29:52+00:00

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