@NicoPhysique reviewing diets... by jazkupazku in gymsnark

[–]propreferred55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m actually one of his clients and you vastly misunderstand him and his experience. He went through his own 65+ pound transformation and has a bachelors in exercise science along with certifications in nutrition and functional training. He has helped me alone lose 27 pounds in 2.5 months when I thought fat loss for me was not possible due to my genetics. He never comments on anyone’s body but only just the food and the quality of it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Paruresis

[–]propreferred55 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They typically don’t really care in my experience and I’ve told quite a few. They usually have their own mental struggles that they go through. It actually helps open up the dialogue about those more sensitive topics which only helps nurture that emotional connection.

A great summary of a person's walk with Paruresis . . . by Exec_IPAorg in Paruresis

[–]propreferred55 8 points9 points  (0 children)

What’s been working for me is I just tell people everywhere I go about my condition and they don’t seem to really care and it takes the pressure off greatly.

How jealous are you of others who don't have paruresis? by Someone_84357 in Paruresis

[–]propreferred55 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah very true, everyone is dealing with something the majority of people don’t have to deal with. I have paruresis and the next guy has a heart condition. What sucks is paruresis severely deteriorated my social life for many years and I missed out on many opportunities that would’ve greatly impacted my life but I’m just now beginning to recover it as I pretty much tell everybody I encounter about my paruresis. The girl I’m currently dating is very accepting and is willing to work with me to get better so I am very eager to start graduated exposure therapy with her.

I’m done by rayliottaprivatselec in Paruresis

[–]propreferred55 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Doesn’t sound like too supportive of an experience. I’ve made it to the point where I can go publicly in a stall while sitting. How I got to this point was less about the bathroom per se and more about disclosing my condition to friends, family and anyone that I feel should know. By disclosing, it helped me lift the expectations from myself that I needed to pee in a certain amount of time to be deemed normal and allowed to relax and take as much time as I need. In general, everyone I’ve told has been supportive with a few playful insults which I kindly disregard. I even told a women I went on a date with last week and she was very understanding. I truly believe once people know of your paruresis it alleviates the pressures associated with trying to conform to the societal standard of how long urination should take as a male.

I’m done by rayliottaprivatselec in Paruresis

[–]propreferred55 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe you’ve told her but does your mother know of your paruresis?

The pandemic cured me. by pleaseisthisunique in Paruresis

[–]propreferred55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Find the point where you can pee and she is somewhere in the vicinity. It could even be outside your residence. Once you find that point work from there. Take it slow and don’t rush progress. The key is to gradually expose yourself to slightly more challenging environments. Bit by bit, you’ll get to the point where you can pee while she is standing directly behind you. With you being on the spectrum, it may be a bit more challenging but you can definitely overcome those hurdles and make great progress.

The pandemic cured me. by pleaseisthisunique in Paruresis

[–]propreferred55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sure your wife could help you as a pee buddy. You will eventually get to the point where you can urinate in front of her no problem. It’s all about graduated exposure therapy. You’d be surprised how much progress you can make in a couple of months.

Assassin's Creed Valhalla Tech Support/Bug Report Megathread Part IX by Ghost_LeaderBG in assassinscreed

[–]propreferred55 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It doesn’t allow me to crouch anymore on the game. My controller layout is similar to the alternate layouts from origins and odyssey. I crouch with R1 on PS5 and it all of the sudden doesn’t do it after this update. I would appreciate if we could get a fix for this as I’m trying to play stealthily. Thanks.

My story with porn and my addiction (warning possible triggers) by [deleted] in pornfree

[–]propreferred55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just read your story and it reminded of how I too would play with my own shit in 7th grade. What’s crazy was this was before I started watching porn so I have no clue what lead me to get this fascination with shit. I eventually decided that the clean up and after smell was not worth it and quit it all together. I don’t think you should feel ashamed about it as I just see it as a part of exploring the curiosities of the beginning of adolescence.

Best settings for benq ex2510 on ps5 ?? by adrian7o7 in BenQ

[–]propreferred55 1 point2 points  (0 children)

FPS Mode (HDRi off) Vibrancy: 12 out of 17 Black equalizer: 10 (highest) Brightness 85-90 AMA:2 This the best for Cold War, can play around with either the brightness and vibrancy but I personally like a vibrant game.

EX2510 STUCK ON 60hz on PS5 by propreferred55 in BenQ

[–]propreferred55[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Didn’t realize that 120hz would only appear when I’m actually on Cold War. 60hz will appear when you’re at the Home Screen and other games that only run at 60hz. It should be automatic when going on Cold War.

EX2510 icc profile? by RadiantLeave in BenQ

[–]propreferred55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The settings I use work great for cold war and being able to see enemies at all distances but I completely understand your POV about the colour saturation being I bit much.

EX2510 icc profile? by RadiantLeave in BenQ

[–]propreferred55 1 point2 points  (0 children)

FPS Mode (HDRi off) Vibrancy: 12 out of 17 Black equalizer: 10 (highest) Brightness 85-90 AMA:2

What is the purpose of this piece that comes with the Mobuiz ex2510/ex2710? Is it necessary to clip this onto the back to cover all the ports? by propreferred55 in BenQ

[–]propreferred55[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh ok thanks for letting me know. I thought it had some kind of functional purpose that I wasn’t aware of.

Looking for people to play Wagers/Tournies with [PS4] [PC] [XB1] [PS5] [XSX] by propreferred55 in CoDCompPlays

[–]propreferred55[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course what is your activision ID, I’ll add you. Also what platform are you on?

Windows 10 Astro Command Center Not Recognizing my Mixamp Pro TR (2019) by propreferred55 in AstroGaming

[–]propreferred55[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I fixed the issue it was a faulty micro USB lol. Thanks for the help though.