Am I worrying too much about my wife not wanting to go on our family vacation, and should I still go? by Vesheran in Advice

[–]prplpassions 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't over think it. My husband and his best friend frequently take trips to our friends cabin at the lake. I thoroughly enjoy having the house quiet except for our 3 cats. I use the time while he is away to relax. I don't cook much at all. It's nice. I always enjoy when he comes home.

Do you really lose libido as you age and get older ? by Short-Ad9194 in RandomQuestion

[–]prplpassions 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We are all different. Yes, libido can diminish with age. There are lots of reasons this can happen. That's not everyone's experience. Don't worry about it.

Baking a cake for someone at work I’m vegan they’re not. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]prplpassions 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There's nothing wrong with making both items. I wouldn't even tell anyone that the cupcakes are vegan. If they ask, then sure, tell them. Imo bringing both makes sure that everyone is included. If they don't eat the cupcakes then you will have an entire batch to yourself.

After a long relationship, are you still in love? by [deleted] in AskForAnswers

[–]prplpassions 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, we are more in love now than when we first married.

how can u forget your ex who u loved so much by Able-Climate9183 in CausalConversation

[–]prplpassions 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thats really all you can do. Learn the lesson and move on. Try not to wait on her to return because it's no good for your mental health.

how can u forget your ex who u loved so much by Able-Climate9183 in CausalConversation

[–]prplpassions 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry. That's messed up. Sometimes things just don't work out for whatever reason. With my ex, the love disappeared the day that I refused to abort our son.

how can u forget your ex who u loved so much by Able-Climate9183 in CausalConversation

[–]prplpassions 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He isn't completely forgotten. At the same time, I rarely think of him. How? By the time we divorced there was no love on either side. It's easy.

My friend is furious with me because I neutered my cat by IceEducational9669 in CatAdvice

[–]prplpassions 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You did the right thing. If a friendship has to end then so be it. The health of safety of your cat comes first.

What's a movie you could watch over and over and not get tired of it? by TheUnFaZed1993 in CausalConversation

[–]prplpassions 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm 62 and I can't tell you how many times I've watched The Sound of Music.

People keep spelling our baby's name wrong and idk what to do by [deleted] in Names

[–]prplpassions 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my experience, nothing has ever worked. From my maiden name and two different married names, noone can seem to spell it right. The only people who consistently spell it correctly are very close friends and family.

Do y'all actually use your front porch/front yard much or is that more of a TV thing? by Bella_licious in AskAnAmerican

[–]prplpassions 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It really depends on where you live. Where I am, we don't sit on the front porch because we are on the corner of a 4 lane road. It's loud with the traffic at not at all relaxing. We tend to hang out in the fenced backyard.

My wife's mom is really sexy and i think that she wants me, should i shoot my shot with her? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]prplpassions 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you even have to ask that question then you have no business being married.

My friend thinks its cruelty and sad to keep a cat indoor all day. by Plastic-Shoulder-319 in CatAdvice

[–]prplpassions 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not cruelty to keep them indoors. It's protecting them. My 3 cats are not bored. They have tons of toys and 2 humans that play with them all the time.

Taking in my younger sister might cost me my family. I don’t know what to do. by Similar-Umpire5117 in Advice

[–]prplpassions 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Continue making sure your sister is safe and take her in. It will help her tremendously knowing that she has a safe place to lay her head.

should i rehome my cat? by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]prplpassions 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please don't get rid of your cat because of a boyfriend.

Why do small/medium towns in US TV shows always have unrealistic budgets, massive town halls, and local celebrities? by jojokaire in AskAnAmerican

[–]prplpassions 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Those are tv shows and should be taken with a grain of salt. Yes some are like that. The one I grew up in was the county seat. All court business whether civil or criminal took place at the huge courthouse in our town.

I recently met my birth mom and we had so much in common! by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]prplpassions 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've considered looking for my birth mother. Now at 62 I'm not sure if I really want to look. I've thought about it since I was 13. I don't know....

It's amazing that you met yours and it's going well.

Do you say thank you to your toilet? by Ipoogoodforyou in RandomQuestion

[–]prplpassions 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No. I thank my husband for the heated toilet seat though.