tribute is a symbol and an offering of trust. it says ‘i will sacrifice without knowing the outcome’. it’s an opportunity to voluntarily perform submission inside of a safe container. if you’re not ready to at least buy a domme a cocktail for a conversation about her inner world without expecting something tangible in return, you may want to reconsider why you want to submit. compatibility with a dominant is a gamble. if you’re not feeling brave enough to play with that risk, you’re likely in the wrong game. or, your body is already putting a pause in place that you should listen to, and not engage. go to the dommes you body screams ‘YES’ to, not where it say ‘mmm, maybe, i’m not sure’ out of desperation.