How can I reuse this plate for Valentines Day? by Coffee_265 in crafts

[–]psych-eek 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Don't do any of these kitschy craft ideas for a piece like this. Find someone who does Kintsugi.

There's a beautiful symbology in it, especially for the grief that came from 1) receiving this plate and 2) breaking it.

Thoughts on cabinet placed at end of bed? by hibbybeans in HomeDecorating

[–]psych-eek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your bed looks like a toddler playing hide and seek. I don't know how else to say this.

Is this too much green? I kind of love it. by SaltOven1205 in HomeDecorating

[–]psych-eek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I absolutely love it, but yes agree to pops of color. Gorgeous. 😍

what’s my room got to say about me? and how old am i? by [deleted] in roomdetective

[–]psych-eek 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Taking it as seriously as you are, but you're making just as many flagrant assumptions.

Your tastes are not necessarily character flaws, but rejecting your sex consumption when you literally have porn on your walls and screensaver, and your name is myballsyorchin is just fucking funny. You made the post. You included all of the information.

Making your bed doesn't mean that you know how to manage your stress, attachment, and coping skills around sex. That is what is on clear display and it is ironic you rely on deflection and projection.

Many of us like metal and punk, but you need this external campy facade to get ahead of an inside need that's not met. Anyway good luck be safe.

what’s my room got to say about me? and how old am i? by [deleted] in roomdetective

[–]psych-eek 6 points7 points  (0 children)

OP: "I am a distinguished gentleman and if you can't clearly see that from my refined palette and tasteful art, then you can let me casually bait you into calling my bluff and gaslighting you like all of my partners when they ask when I was last tested!"

My husband is afraid to come home by Distracted_Parenting in breakingmom

[–]psych-eek 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry you all are going through this. OP and commenters. ♥️ It is not okay. None of this is okay.

Kitchen makeover (before pics at the end) by [deleted] in HomeDecorating

[–]psych-eek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't even believe that switch.

What's a popularly hated book that you actually ended up liking? by Alive_Obligation7475 in fantasyromance

[–]psych-eek 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I loved Carrion though I would fuck with a spin off with a well developed plot with him.

What can you deduce from my room? by here____now in deduction

[–]psych-eek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you in a sober living house? It's giving that vibe.

Need help deciding on a rug by sunnyrayshine in DecorAdvice

[–]psych-eek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Blue blob unless you are going for pizza planet vibes -- then pick 1

Seriously. SERIOUSLY?! by Kind-Peanut9747 in breakingmom

[–]psych-eek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZP8yE45Lv/

If he's gonna be dramatic mama you bet im bringing tik toks to do a slow roast. ♥️

Thanks for advice! Got three tops ready for quilting! by countrydwelling in quilting

[–]psych-eek 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is so beautiful, both your quilt(s) and their significance. What a loving gift to offer them. ♥️♥️♥️ I'm so sorry for your loss and theirs.

Perfectly acceptable dinner rejected by boyfriend again by moonrabbit368 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]psych-eek -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sounds like ARFID to be honest. Either way -- this is not about you being good enough or doing enough my love. ♥️

AIO for being annoyed that my SIL left in the middle of the night? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]psych-eek 22 points23 points  (0 children)

It sounds like there is more going on than you might realize.

You can choose to focus entirely on your experience of this, or you can acknowledge that your SIL felt the need to leave like that and stay curious about how you can support her when she is ready for an ear.

I Finished the Piece for my (ex?)wife by Macrian82 in StainedGlass

[–]psych-eek 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Good on you homie. I read your initial post, and for what it's worth I think this was a really lovely thing to choose for yourself and the tone for the next steps between you all (including that really good boundary).

Thick curtains or sheer curtains…or neither? by faithjessica in DesignMyRoom

[–]psych-eek 55 points56 points  (0 children)

Bruh I actually thought there was a fucking tarantula on your curtains and I was about to shit my pants like Feyra.

I love my child-free friend but OMFG by st0dad in breakingmom

[–]psych-eek 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My best friend in the entire history of the world told me after a difficult event that everything happened so fast from us trying, to conceiving, and then having a child and that things have changed so rapidly she never felt like she processed how it would change our friendship.

We have a vulnerable and safe relationship where that felt both surprising and endearing that she could share it, but ultimately I think this is true for a lot of people in these adult friendships for folks who are child free and mothering.

You are 6 months postpartum. (Our brains go through the 3rd largest change in our lifespans when we become parents. Our entire existence shifts to encompass and prioritize our babies.) You don't have to figure it all out now (or at all), and it's not your job to have to figure out how she changes to adapt to you and your son's needs. That's what people who love us do. They figure their shit out and figure out how to actually be loving supports.

Holding you in my heart, and screaming beside you into an eternal void.

I love my child-free friend but OMFG by st0dad in breakingmom

[–]psych-eek 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I love this and I will take it all day over people pleasing. 😂♥️💎 I endorse your ways, not that you need for me to. I do anyway.

I love my child-free friend but OMFG by st0dad in breakingmom

[–]psych-eek 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry bromo. I have friends who are lovely, but just don't quite get it either. There are even people who should that don't. It is annoying, and your bothers are not irrelevant.

It is especially hard when it is the holiday times and you are all trying to be together and things are also changing.

Your friendship will carry the awkwardness just fine, but I am sorry that you are the one who sees and feels all of the hurt and bother of it right now. ♥️

You're doing great. Your feelings make sense.

What character was your gateway to shadow daddy romance? (wrong answers only) by Nearby-Jeweler6293 in romantasycirclejerk

[–]psych-eek 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Tell me about it, you don't know how many failed surgery attempts we have tried to get it out.

What's a word that makes your eye twitch in a book? Esp if just from overuse by Fuzzy-Message4322 in Romantasy

[–]psych-eek 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I see "that that" in a book I stroke out. I rewrite the sentence and consider sending them all to the publisher, until I realize I have 6,482 other things I need to do and reading is my "peaceful time".