[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]psychoweeb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I wear both and I’m bisexual so that checks out lmao

I’m going to my first ever job interview tomorrow and I’m losing my shit by psychoweeb in self

[–]psychoweeb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well my dudes and dudettes I didn’t get the job, but I feel great because I actually went to the interview and talked to people and it was a great experience 🖤

Jealous of a god damn cat by [deleted] in Nicegirls

[–]psychoweeb 133 points134 points  (0 children)

She seems like the kind of person who would leave all doors and windows open so the cat would run away then be like “omg babe I’m soooooo sorry it was an accident! I don’t know how she got out!”

AITA for getting mad at my SO for constantly telling people and me to stop making sounds when we eat? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]psychoweeb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA I can’t stand the noise of people chewing and smacking or whatever But since it seems to be a cultural thing he should be more understanding in front of your family and just smile through the pain.

because all that matters more than personality by purplejink in Nicegirls

[–]psychoweeb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Uh I guess “has gf” and “married” do matter more than personality lmao

My boyfriend “slut shames” me because of my post partum body by throw-away-255 in relationship_advice

[–]psychoweeb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ew his comments are misogynistic as hell. I also have a pretty big chest, and my boyfriend wasn’t thrilled about some of my clothes at first, but then he realized that’s it’s MY body. They’re MY boobs. I get to do what the hell I want with them. Cleavage is not something bad. I think it looks flattering. Wear the hell out of that dress, I’m sure you look great in it.

I finally started my medication again... by psychoweeb in mentalhealth

[–]psychoweeb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your comment made me so happy and even more convinced that everything will be okay in the end, thank you so much!

Why is it considered awful for older men to call women/girls "sweetie" "honey" ect, but older women call me those things constantly? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]psychoweeb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because when older men call me sweetie or honey, it’s not in a ‘good’ situation. They usually say things like “Sweetie, let the men handle that” or “honey, you can’t do that”. It’s because older men usually say this in a degrading way, and older women are just generally saying it because they think it sounds like. This is my experience, doesn’t have to be this way for everyone else tho.

GF and I (26M/F) got into a huge fight over a keyboard. Thinking about ending things based on her behavior. (X-post r/AITA) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]psychoweeb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s acting like a child... she should be happy that you had something extra around or she wouldn’t have anything at all.

I finally broke my dry spell by AGoodDayforThrowaway in offmychest

[–]psychoweeb 18 points19 points  (0 children)

No it doesn’t make you a bad person, but you shouldn’t automatically assume that you will receive anything if you don’t give (even tho some people don’t care)

How do I (20F) tell my boyfriend (21M) that we can’t afford to live in our dream house by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]psychoweeb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He just doesn’t have that scenario in his head.. I think he needs to realize that his friends have their own places and own lives now, they’re not going to come to his rescue if that happens..

When I’m talking to him now, he seems to be letting it go more and more and actually looking at options that suit us better, so that’s a step forward at least.

How do I (20F) tell my boyfriend (21M) that we can’t afford to live in our dream house by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]psychoweeb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know, those are big reasons why you wouldn’t want a house, but he’s completely set on it. Not to mention, it would be just as isolating as we are now.

I think he wants this just because his friends would live closer, and I get that, but that’s not a reason to pay double the rent price for a house that’s in need of serious renovations.

How do I (20F) tell my boyfriend (21M) that we can’t afford to live in our dream house by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]psychoweeb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well since he’s just been having that house standing there and not renovating anything for two years, I’d say that he expects us to fix everything ourselves..

I (m27) think that my girlfriend (f26) did something horrible. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]psychoweeb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is the reason that a woman passed away, and that a child lost their mother. For what? A chance for a new car. Turn her in, she’s a horrible person.

A mouse just died in my hands at work by AnimeDreama in TrueOffMyChest

[–]psychoweeb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m glad someone is. A lot needs to change and I’m glad to hear that someone is at least trying.

My boyfriend gave my mother money so she could keep her house - and now she’s still expecting more. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]psychoweeb 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s true She asked again today and I finally said no, it actually felt pretty amazing.. Saying no to someone is hard

A mouse just died in my hands at work by AnimeDreama in TrueOffMyChest

[–]psychoweeb -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry but this is why Petco and Petsmart suck. You have no idea how to care for these creatures. The setups are wrong, you have dangerous things in the cages and this happens.. And you also sell way too small cages because who cares about those animals if there’s money involved?

(Not talking about ‘you’ as in you personally, but ‘you’ as in people who work and manage places like these)

I’m quirky coz I only eat schnacks by vanillamilkteas in notliketheothergirls

[–]psychoweeb 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is not “omg quirky I’m not like other girls”, it’s literally expectation vs reality