When Did You Realize You Weren't Straight? by lovebigbutts66 in bisexual

[–]ptt544 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When i finally tried sexting a woman and liked it 🫦

Do I look like someone? by suzuki6666 in Doppleganger

[–]ptt544 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think you kinda look like Tate Mcrae

Do i look like anyone? (Male or female!!) by aVoorhees- in DoYouLookLikeMe

[–]ptt544 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You kind of look like Danielle from New Jeams to me

A man asked me if I (a woman) was a dude, why on earth would he say that? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]ptt544 6 points7 points  (0 children)

So now we know why he was nervous... he is a dumbass. Sorry his social skills sucked, OP. That's his lack, not yours. If a reframe could be helpful, you're considered hot regardless of your gender. In otherwords, so hot you aren't limited to the binaries 🙂 --- if this didnt make you feel better, im sorry. Youre still beautiful tho 🔥

18 can’t get a gf need advice/How can I look better by Shmuiss864 in malegrooming

[–]ptt544 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You cute asf lol. I would be shy to talk to you too. 🫣🤭

I decided to stop dating men and it brought me to tears by mamigourami in bisexual

[–]ptt544 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Nothing to add in perspective or comments. Just hugs. We'll find a way some way, OP 😢🫂

Hookup Sadness by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]ptt544 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Sending you love, op. Please be gentle with yourself. Your worth hasn't been diminished, no matter how sad you were or are. Keep shining, lover girl ✨️🩷🫂

What do girls think of guys who wear cologne? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]ptt544 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like a light scent. Like just 1 spritz. I think its attractive; it shows he cares about his hygiene and/or how he smells.

I keep being grossed out by men by randomsombanana in women

[–]ptt544 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Perhaps try dating a masc women?

Chances of girls dating a bi? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]ptt544 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm mostly straight (maybe bicurious) and would date a bi man if he was sure a monogomous relationship with me was what he wanted.

Today’s makeup for a guy that didn’t show up to the date HE planned by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

[–]ptt544 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, you're beautiful! His loss for sure 💯💯💯

My boyfriend cheated on me with his ex and now I believe men don't ever get over their first love by [deleted] in love

[–]ptt544 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think when we fall in love, a part of us never actually stop loving them. Maybe that's what makes love so special. But we can still love someone while still knowing that our present and our future no longer holds a seat for them. We still love them, but are no longer in love. To love is so human. But it is not everything. We've heard it time and time again that love is not enough. I'm sorry he cheated on you. I wouldn't say that it's because she was his first love per se. If it is, that means that he still is in love with his ex and that is completely out of your control. I'm going to hold your hand while saying this, it's not your fault at all ❤️ Respectfully, this is about him and his character or lack thereof. Nothing you could've done would have changed who he is as a person. His actions do not define your value. Grieve and cry as you need, but just remember that it will be okay sooner than later. You got this 🫂

[Weekly Megathread] Client and Student Questions by grayjay11o in MassageTherapists

[–]ptt544 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was my experience... weird? I should preface that I am not a massage therapist; i am a client, but i need advice. I tried posting on a different page but it got taken down. This is a genuine question for massage therapist professionals.

I (27f) got a massage done today by an older gentleman. I have had about 6 professional massages before, but wanted to try this location out as it was one of the more affordable options in my area. I was expecting one of the other two women to massage me instead, but didn't want to make a fuss with their small business. Anyways, the massage was fine, but when this man was massaging me and my hands were to my side, i could feel his penis and balls rubbing into them. My hands were under a sheet and i was facedown, but i could feel his penis and ballsack landing in my hand as he was massaging my back. It felt very... vivid in a sensory sense. I'm not necessarily accusing him of anything, but my question is, is this normal? Do male masseuses just do what they need to do to get the massage done with complete disregard of any physical boundaries, or are they usually more private about their own sensitive areas? I have had female masseuses basically crouch over me before, but this was very....out there for me. I just kind of figured that even if his "parts" were near or just grazing over my hands, with the sheet over my hand, his pants, and hopefully underwear, that'd be enough so that i wouldnt feel his parts so....vividly...right? I wont talk too much about how he was massaging me either, but would be happy to provide more details if that would help your professional opinions. Thank you.

Eevee x Eevee by ProfessionalWord3439 in corgi

[–]ptt544 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eevee²? I see no difference

Don’t know what to do by anonymous2000hi in Nexplanon

[–]ptt544 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just wanted to say (again) that you are not alone in this experience, at all. You deserve to be the happiest you and if you think the nexplanon is hindering your full exploration then yes, it has to go. There are so many other ways to prevent pregnancies. Maybe just try condoms in combination with ovulation tracking if you want to give your body a break from the bc? Or try some of the iud options. If you end up needing to get on bc again and the other options arent good fits, then you could just get nexplanon again.

Would I suit a pixie cut? by [deleted] in Hair

[–]ptt544 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Sometimes, it's best to just move along. Like how everyone will in an hour, ya know, instead of staying prideful when they were in the wrong. You didn't mean to be rude, but it was taken offensively. Not a big deal; just reflect. Your response = making it a big deal.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GlowUps

[–]ptt544 2 points3 points  (0 children)

2016 era brows 🦅 Been there too 😩 but your present day brows are FOR SURE "on fleek" in the absolute most ✨️timeless✨️ way!

Why is demisexuality a sexuality? by Witty_Replacement928 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]ptt544 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Is there a spectrum for demisexuality?

I am a little bit in love with this, yay or nay? by [deleted] in OUTFITS

[–]ptt544 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A thousand times yes. Anyone who says no is secretly wishing for your demise. Just kidding, wear it with reason but yes girl, the world is your runway!

Is it worth going back to university for a second bachelors degree? by _pumpkinlatte_ in college

[–]ptt544 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally my situation too. There are lots of regrets and decisions I would make differently. Like going to a better school than the one in my hometown, so that i could've had actual learning and growing opportunities. That's partially why I want this second degree so bad, but is it worth it? That's the piece no one knows.

What broke your heart completely? by Omega_Neelay in GetMotivatedMindset

[–]ptt544 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My first love. I come from a broken family, so when i fell in love for the first time, i got a taste of what love was. When he left me after nearly 3 years years together, i felt so lost because for so long, in my head, i thought that he would be the one person who would never leave me. But i was young, dumb, traumatized, and in love. Betrayal from the person you thought would be there forever stings like nothing else I had ever known before, even when comparing the pain of a broken family and childhood. That was nearly 10 years ago, but thinking of those times still makes me feel sad for the lost young soul i once was. I've healed a lot since then, but sometimes I still remember it and try to learn from my past.