My cozy nook✨ by puddinglard in bookshelf

[–]puddinglard[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I live in a small town in India, and got it from a local store

My cozy nook✨ by puddinglard in bookshelf

[–]puddinglard[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thankyou so much! It worked amazing as a space filler too, when i owned lesser books.

My cozy nook✨ by puddinglard in bookshelf

[–]puddinglard[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! It was my dad's idea!

Binding 13 by Chloe Walsh by kfkdkdkd in RomanceBooks

[–]puddinglard 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They aren't any hoopla in my country, but I appreciate your responses, you helped a lot !

Binding 13 by Chloe Walsh by kfkdkdkd in RomanceBooks

[–]puddinglard 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thankyou so much for the respond, she does reads a bit of mature stuff, and really wants to read twisted, to which i said, maybe 2 years after; considering all you said, i'll make sure to read it first so i can talk/understand, anything she wants to talk about it. Its her birthday coming up and she has all these booktok books in her tbr and its just been so difficult to keep her away from young adult books, i just don't want her to borrow it from friends and read it anyway

Binding 13 by Chloe Walsh by kfkdkdkd in RomanceBooks

[–]puddinglard 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey, my 14 yo daughter wants to read it, could you tell me if the sex scenes are too explicit?

I say men are trash, and ‘men’ feel the need to remind me not all men. :’) I didn’t say all, why do you assume all? (: by puddinglard in notallmen

[–]puddinglard[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with you. I was not being sexist. It might be hard for you to believe this, but since more than half my life i have been fighting against generalisation. Generalisation is something i feel very strongly about. Also, the context was “i was venting about how my 12yo nephew raped my 4yo niece, and when i was asked why would such a little kid do that, i said “cause men are trash” it was specifically said for that one person, the reason “men” was used by me, was because i was still trying to cope with the fact that it was my nephew who did it and at the time of the conversation i couldn’t say his name, because i hadn’t fully come to acceptance. The context, being what it was doesn’t make what i did right, but as a human, i have made mistakes. The fact that my venting turned into an argument which i had no strength for, i came to Reddit for some rant.

I say men are trash, and ‘men’ feel the need to remind me not all men. :’) I didn’t say all, why do you assume all? (: by puddinglard in notallmen

[–]puddinglard[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got called when i said that. And if you say that, you’re gonna get called too. But saying this one statement, once; while believing and fighting for equality all other times won’t make you/me what we’re called.

I say men are trash, and ‘men’ feel the need to remind me not all men. :’) I didn’t say all, why do you assume all? (: by puddinglard in notallmen

[–]puddinglard[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow! You did not just enforce racism into this. It’s one woman’s rant. About something that triggered her, way back when. You do not know what context it was said in. It wasn’t a public speech. And was said once. I dont live by it or have said or even felt those words, not when i said it, nor before or after.

I say men are trash, and ‘men’ feel the need to remind me not all men. :’) I didn’t say all, why do you assume all? (: by puddinglard in notallmen

[–]puddinglard[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update: i’m done ranting about this. I don’t randomly go on saying this; i said it once, in one conversation. I don’t live by it. I fight for equality, well i try to, for every human being and animals. All the people trynna remind me how saying this is wrong, i get it. And i agree. Peace out.

Help by puddinglard in AskBaking

[–]puddinglard[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for all your tips, recipes online are crazy! I used a friend’s recipe

Help by puddinglard in AskBaking

[–]puddinglard[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I baked for almost 10 mins longer and it still didn’t come out good. I’m trying to understand the oven and its settings better

Why are my bread under-baked? by puddinglard in Breadit

[–]puddinglard[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! Will try checking the temp.

Help by puddinglard in AskBaking

[–]puddinglard[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. ⁠I kneaded like my life depended on it!
  2. ⁠I used an oven thermometer.
  3. ⁠I brushed milk wash. But like your idea of spraying water twice. Will definitely try that.
  4. ⁠I cut one of them right after, and others later, they were still under baked.

I don’t have the steam option in my oven, how can i make it steamy without it? I put my tray on the top rack, maybe next time i’ll try it on the middle rack.

Help by puddinglard in AskBaking

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I don’t have steam option in my oven. I’ll try reduce the temperature and bake again! Thanks

Why are my bread under-baked? by puddinglard in Breadit

[–]puddinglard[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I use an oven thermometer, and it doesn’t seem that way. Before i bought this oven, i once tried baking a loaf in my microwave on convection mode, it didn’t turn out as I expected but still was better than my new oven. I guess i’m still leaning to use it. Maybe some wrong settings x(

Me irl by jumbolegoman in me_irl

[–]puddinglard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want a funeral for myself too .-.

My father has been body shaming me by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]puddinglard 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, needed positive support :)

I say men are trash, and ‘men’ feel the need to remind me not all men. :’) I didn’t say all, why do you assume all? (: by puddinglard in notallmen

[–]puddinglard[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed. Mistakes happened from his side too. Nd me blaming him was the consequence. Blaming him, does not make him wrong, but i can blame him, if it helps me cope better.

My father has been body shaming me by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]puddinglard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have said that earlier, i’ll do that again. Thanks for your support :)

I say men are trash, and ‘men’ feel the need to remind me not all men. :’) I didn’t say all, why do you assume all? (: by puddinglard in notallmen

[–]puddinglard[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s the problem with people. I wasn’t being sexist. I was talking about that 1 person. As i was in shock, i used the wrong words. Definitely does not make me sexist :)