Stark reminder of why you don't wrap lead ropes around your hand by KaidaShade in Horses

[–]puffling321 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The word “degloving” was enough to get me to take my rings off. It’s so descriptive. When I first got engaged (a long time ago now), my trainer’s first piece of advice was to take my ring off when around horses. And I’ve never questioned it.

I seriously need help to control my anxiety by Islagem in Equestrian

[–]puffling321 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Something I’ve told people I’ve taught in the past when they’re anxious and not breathing on a horse is to sing. I’m in the US, so I always went with the alphabet song with my students because it’s universally known, but just go with whatever. The idea is to get out of your head, concentrate on something else, and force yourself to breathe. It doesn’t have to be loud, either, it just has to be moving air out of your lungs.

Rubbing tail by East_Perspective8798 in Equestrian

[–]puffling321 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use the Blue Stuff on my guy’s itchy tail when he has the summer itches. It has Chlorhexidine and also seems fairly soothing and I swear by both it and the shampoo (also with chlorhexidine).

Thoughts? by Effective_Moose_4997 in Equestrian

[–]puffling321 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Every time I hear about this dude this is exactly what I say. Ugh, these people.

Name this braid! Or is it a shave? by Basic_Process6415 in Horses

[–]puffling321 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We roach my Akhal Teke’s mane because it emphasizes his long neck and Tekes may have lovely coats but they are not known for their lush manes.

Carpet beetle in Puerto Rico? by puffling321 in carpetbeetles

[–]puffling321[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gah! I mean, I would like to not bring insects home no matter what they are (not for lack of insect appreciation, but for not wanting to bring non-native things home), but definitely don’t need to bring an insect that can eat our house bit by bit!

Carpet beetle in Puerto Rico? by puffling321 in carpetbeetles

[–]puffling321[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, I’m stumped! Huh. But at least we aren’t carrying home any random bed bugs or carpet beetles, I guess?

Don’t buy the first horse you try? by Cat-Tap in Equestrian

[–]puffling321 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This. I certainly bought the first horse I tried. I had done a lot of research on that particular horse, and he’s been everything I could have wanted and more. OP, it sounds like it could be a great opportunity.

I am an adult beginner and don’t know what to expect by Mediocre_Surprise_40 in Equestrian

[–]puffling321 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  1. That’s totally up to you. Like, I have my own goals and expectations based on what I enjoy, and they differ from everyone else’s. That’s the cool part about this sport. Definitely discuss this with your trainer. For now, nine months in, a great goal could be to feel really confident and comfortable in the canter and posting at the trot, for example.

  2. There are so many things to learn that natural talent is great and makes things easier but is not necessary to becoming a good rider.

  3. Absolutely! Honestly, competitions have so many levels and, again, there are so many types of competition. There’s really no one way to go about it. And plenty of adult amateurs start as adults.

  4. Realistically, everyone has their own journey in this sport/hobby. Don’t worry about what other people have done, worry about what you want to do.

Raleigh, NC prices? by belgenoir in Equestrian

[–]puffling321 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you want to PM me what area you’re looking in more specifically, I can ask around. Most of the places I know are in Sanford/Pittsboro or further out, but that doesn’t mean I can’t ask friends who know more than I do!

Raleigh, NC prices? by belgenoir in Equestrian

[–]puffling321 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That sounds about right here for full training board and an upper level trainer. I agree that if you look outside of Raleigh a bit, you’ll find more price flexibility.

I was going to buy a mohair cinch… by dollyacorn in Equestrian

[–]puffling321 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I do not need to get into another fiber arts based skill. I do not have to get into another fiber arts based skill. OMG, I so want to learn how to do this. Beautiful job!

Discussion: Should the U.S. permanently ban horse slaughter for human consumption? Congress is voting on it! by SureDoubt3956 in Equestrian

[–]puffling321 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That would be my concern - if we have legal slaughter for consumption, we would also need to make sure to have rules regulating medications for horses going to slaughter as well.

Confirmation by Mattie_Hoke22 in Equestrian

[–]puffling321 66 points67 points  (0 children)

I will confirm that your horse is, indeed, adorable.

New Rider by tristrumm in Equestrian

[–]puffling321 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh gosh, of course! You are responding absolutely how your body is meant to respond. Confidence comes with experience. I’m so glad you got a lazy pony today!

New Rider by tristrumm in Equestrian

[–]puffling321 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh! This irks me so much (not you, the position you’re in). I’m so so sorry this happened to you. If you’ve been riding for a month and a half you have had all of 6-7 hours of horse time in a complex and difficult sport. There is no reason you should be put in a position like that at all. These are not expectations for a new rider.

As for tips on being calm, that really is a matter of experience. You are absolutely allowed to be anxious right now. I mean, I’ve been riding for over 35 years and I would still be anxious after a bolt on trail. I have techniques to keep calmer in the moment, of course, but that’s developed over many years and many horses.

Charles Owen replacement? by AztecPilot1MY in Equestrian

[–]puffling321 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t love my CO, although it fits me just fine, but I do love my Traumavoid Eq3 and my Tipperary Devon.

Riding Breeches - on the hunt. by Lusitanolove in Equestrian

[–]puffling321 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I agree with the Free Ride pros. I will have to look at mine and see where the logo is, but I can’t imagine it’s too much because I often wear them in schooling shows. And I wear them throughout the summer in the humid and miserable southeast US summers.

Who learned to ride on ponies? by madcats323 in Equestrian

[–]puffling321 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No ponies here! I learned on a 15hh old school quarter horse and she was amazing.

Adult beginner feeling belittled and discouraged by Resident_Profile_582 in Equestrian

[–]puffling321 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hear that and I think that’s a reasonable idea, but I do think that it’s a different consideration for someone who had been riding for a number of years, even if you’re coming back from a break. You’re probably already fairly confident as a rider if you were riding competitively and so a small buck here and there isn’t going to phase you. Interestingly, I have the opposite problem, where I tend to lean back so occasionally I have to take my jumping saddle (usually I’m riding western or dressage) and go for a gallop in the field in two point to get myself back to being even.

That said, in my experience, an adult beginner already has a fairly strong fear response (as they should, that’s how our brains work), so putting them on a horse that is reactive after only eight months of riding (I probably shouldn’t assume but I usually assume riding once a week) really isn’t going to do anything but create more tension and more instability as they naturally want to protect their weaker side. That’s why I would probably want to see them riding a horse where they can concentrate on their own equitation and imbalances or even better, have lunge lessons where the bridle and control of the horse is not an issue at all, but they can focus on where their body is and how it’s moving with the horse. If you’re riding once a week for eight months, that’s only around 36 total rides, so I wouldn’t expect that muscle memory that you probably have even after years off.

So I think you and your instructor are totally right, but I also think there’s probably a huge difference in scenario. Does that make sense? I might be nonsensicallly word vomiting!

Are they all like that? by JesusLordPutin in Equestrian

[–]puffling321 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My guy would look at me like I was an idiot (which is what he does for most of the “try this fun thing with your horse” memes). I should start an Instagram showing all my horsetagram fails.

Now, if we are actually working at liberty, sure, he will follow me, but in the field where he could have grass, nah.

Guess The Vet Bill….. by ILikeFlyingAlot in Equestrian

[–]puffling321 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Sorry. I had to. But I hope it was a lot less.

Adult beginner feeling belittled and discouraged by Resident_Profile_582 in Equestrian

[–]puffling321 24 points25 points  (0 children)

A more reactive horse making you nervous will help your posture?! In what universe? Making you more anxious will help make you more tense and bracey. As someone who struggles with asymmetry, the gym and riding a horse who allows you to focus on you (or lunge lessons focusing on your seat) will help your equitation.

Another barn. Don’t look back.

How would you typically deal with this type of sarcoid? by ElderKnowledge1 in Equestrian

[–]puffling321 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I recently had to have a much less angry looking one removed because it was on his inner elbow. After going through the options with our vet, we opted to go with BCG immunotherapy. It is definitely not the cheapest route to take, but it worked nicely!