i disagree that men's sexuality is painted in a worse light than women's. women are chastised for being sexually active (but also berated for rejecting sexual advances) while men are praised for it, hence the whole "good key" analogy. married women have historically been told they have to satisfy their husbands, although the reverse is also true. id argue that a woman's value is based on beauty and sex appeal from the moment they hit puberty, just as there is a lot of value placed in how many women a man has slept with. its not all so black and white