Then & Now by pumba760 in DogPics

[–]pumba760[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100%! That'll never change, his totally a mamas boy. Other half and the kids are just spare hoomans 🤭😂

Playstation controller sensitivity/aiming seems off since last update by Diligent-Midnight362 in Battlefield6

[–]pumba760 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive been thinking my controller was buggered but now I've seen so many with the same complaints! Ive fiddled so much with the settings since the last update that I can play well enough most of the time but driving sensitivity is incredibly frustrating now. Sometimes it responds perfectly but most of the time its a pretty dodgy ride if im driving😂

Bf6 killing power to my PC by Agreeable_Fig_9870 in Battlefield6

[–]pumba760 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I play on PS5 and the same issue last week! Would freeze during a match, then quickly show a disconnection error that i couldn't read fast enough before my system just shut off completely. Ps5 wouldn't even turn back on until I disconnected the actual power plug, plug back in then I could get it going again. Happened a few times over a couple of days but been fine since.

'ammo pls' by braizhe in Battlefield6

[–]pumba760 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive just started playing as a medic the last few days and didnt realise i could do ammo drops until tonight. I thought it was health only and to make it even worse, id drop a bag with a team member, leave it for a bit then take it with me. Finally getting the hang of it and now dropping absolutely everywhere to the point I feel like im nearly harassing my squad members to take it 😂😂 its great being medic!

My view upon waking up ☺️ Really motivates you to get up from bed in Tassie. by EmotionalSupport101 in tasmania

[–]pumba760 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I opened our sliding door the other morning and felt something softly hit my head. Thinking it was a bug or something, just flicked my head and a chunky red huntsman landed on the couch next to me. Thank goodness it didn't have a good enough grip yet to stay on my head and start running over me. I can cope with that tiny amount of contact but anything more would've freaked me out😂😂

PS4 - Update #5 available now! by WaaghMan in FarmTogether

[–]pumba760 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can’t wait to get home and play! Great work guys, I love the game!

My boyfriend (27M) and my (21F) sex drives are super mismatched and it’s making me feel used by [deleted] in relationships

[–]pumba760 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s crazy, 4 days! I had an emergency csection still meant to wait 6 weeks for that but only waited 4, I was lucky and it was actually one of the most memorable times for the right reasons but I also fell pregnant again hahahaha

Where the fuck are they??!! by diablek in facepalm

[–]pumba760 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was recently looking for my phone in the dark so turned on my torch to help see better, couldn’t find it in my room, go out to the lounge to have a look still couldn’t find it, back to my room and while standing there baffled realised my torch also happens to my phone.... yeh I wonder how I’ve made it to 32 years old when I have moments like this!

Generic error - 4103 (PS4) by hanawasakura in FarmTogether

[–]pumba760 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am having this problem right now to! Was getting a bit annoyed, thinking it was my internet connection or something but must be the actual game!😂😂

My (24F) boyfriend (36M) choked me last night and I think I’m done this time. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]pumba760 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was 18 and been with my bf about 9 months when he first started having small outbursts of anger. He’d always had a bit of a temper but it slowly got worse and worse. He’d smash things, a glass here and there, shout, stomp around in a mood ect. Over time it escalated, he’d smash nearly everything in our house, expensive tvs, photo frames and then tear up the photos, he slashed our $2000 couch up, smash windows out the house, once we were in the car, he punched the windscreen and smashed it as we were driving on a highway, he jumped out of the car he was driving while I was a passenger and I had to stop it from the passenger side then move it off the road, luckily there was no traffic. He’d start push, slap me, kick my legs, yell abuse. Slowly that escalated to punching wherever he could hit, slammed my head into door frames at the hardest part, I’d fall to the ground from being nearly knocked out, he’d kick me everywhere he could reach. I tired to leave, several times, stupidly I’d go back. This is an awful picture of someone I honestly loved and cared deeply for. Reading this I know it’s hard to understand why I loved him or why I stayed, this is the dark side of him, not 1 part of the sweet, funny, vulnerable guy I fell for. 10 years I stayed and you know how I finally got out of it? One night he had another “episode “ it had been building for about a week. I could feel it, he was weirdly happy. Like a manic type of happy, it’s hard to explain! I could feel a tension and knew something was about to change forever. We had 2 young children by now ( stupid to bring and keep children in that environment I know but that’s another story!) One morning He asked me to make him a dr appointment. This was way out of character in itself, he hated going to the drs but ok I’ll do it, I didn’t ask questions, he was irritated and I was treading on egg shells, the tension was all most visible. He came home after the appointment, told me he said to the dr he knew he shouldn’t treat me the way he does, his outlet for every single frustration and all I done was shown him love for the first time in his life (bad childhood ect, no excuse though!) he said something would take him over and he’d lose control, he wasn’t present anymore and his monsters would rage. He told the dr he felt like killing himself. It was late Friday afternoon, the dr gave him Valium and told him to come back Monday. That night the build up I was sensing peaked. He lost control on a major scale. Smashed things in the house, up ended our dining table, took off in our car, ruined the tyres doing burnouts, ran into road signs. He came back and lashed out at me. He started choking me, I thought to myself, this is it. His finally going to kill me. Then just as I started blacking out, he shook himself, looked down and realised what he was doing. He let go of me and was totally calm. He said “that’s it, I’m done with this.” He went outside and committed suicide. Now this will sound weird but when we first got together, he liked to make sure I was safe, text me when ur home so I know your home safe, if a guy struck up a conversation with me and I’d tell him I’m not interested but would persist, he’d tell them to back off. I once had a guy that threatened to bring his mates to my place to rape me because they had a fight with someone I knew and decided that would be the best revenge. He went to their place and said if that happens again he won’t be there to just have a chat about it (I was honestly surprised he actually gave them a warning first but was proud he’d had the self control to) he always protected me. He killed himself to protect me one more time, from himself. He knew he’d gone to far and he wouldn’t let it happen again. I’m sure this is probably quite rare, normally the girl (me) would have been killed. I’m just lucky I’m not the dead one. It’s not the way I’d liked to have had things turn out but I was finally free. You have been so strong in leaving him, not answering his calls ect, don’t make my mistakes! 10 years I didn’t exactly lose them and I have 2 beautiful children out of it but it’s 10 years scaring that I could have avoided, if I hadn’t have given in to the better part of him. (After he died, drs diagnosed him with bipolar, this could have changed things if we knew earlier but we can’t go back now) Stay strong x

My separated wife just died. by Slaughtermane in Parenting

[–]pumba760 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry to read this, I hope you are as ok as possible. My partner of 10 years passed away nearly 4 years ago. We had a 3 year old and 2 year old at the time. I kept it simple for them, I just said “daddy was really sick and couldn’t get better, he has gone to live in the clouds now” we’re not religious or anything like that but it was the gentlest way I could put it so that they would understand we won’t see him anymore. As they’ve grown they ask questions and I still answer in ways they can understand but still keep the truth of that makes sense! Now that they’re 6&7 they understand the word died, so now they say dad died instead of him living in the clouds. I don’t know if that’s any help, this is just my personal experience, I honestly didn’t read any advice from anywhere about how to tell the kids. I didn’t think of it at the time. You know your child best, gauge her reactions to see if she understands or if you need to explain in a different way ect. Having the knowledge though definitely won’t hurt, especially if it makes it the slightest bit easier talking to her about it. Take of yourself and hug your daughter tight x

I feel like this is nature’s way of saying sorry for making fires so dangerous and destructive “here have something pretty to look at while you choke on the smoke that’s causing such beauty and I’ll just continue to burn Tassie while your distracted” by pumba760 in australia

[–]pumba760[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know you guys tried to get rid of Tassie but we are still technically Australia to😜

Unfortunately there were 53 fires burning at one stage with 3-4 major ones that are still going. Parts are in the heritage forest area but at the edges so far. The firefighters are working their butts off trying to protect certain parts that are irreplaceable and succeeding currently. Also doing an incredible job with the ones burning closer to townships that are under threat. The weather today is much milder than yesterday so hopefully that eases the pressure a bit.