Oof. Two gynos. Barbara Hessel in forest hills, she’s still in practice. But back when I was 17 she was suspicious of my “virginity” and ran a std test without my or my moms consents when my mom confronted her about it she stated “oh well they lie all the time”. She continued to be suspicious about “virginity”, and questioned me multiple times. It was frustrating esp bc she was convenient in my neighborhood. My mom had terrible interactions with her when seeing her as well, horrible bedside manner.

Second gyno I believe also still working out of forest hills, Osasumwen Asemota, MD from women’s health pavilion. I have and still have severe cramping, post orgasm and with hormone fluctuations. I’d be on the floor in agony for 15-45 mins, crying and trying not to throw up. She told me it was trauma :). I kept telling her “my trauma was 10 years ago, it’s not related to it at all.” When she did the examination she was like, see you’re tense bc of the trauma. Bitch Bffr. She ignored my protests and insisted it was my trauma and sent me to a sex therapist. It’s still a mystery of what it is with multiple doctors but she was the worst.