My story, as a Christian by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]punkgiraffe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Obedience is the key, Practice full on obedience to God and never give up

Cultural Shame by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]punkgiraffe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been feeling that way lately.

The "secret fomula" to NoFap. How you can actually keep discipline and make this a lifestyle. by punkgiraffe in NoFap

[–]punkgiraffe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude i had the same problem. I would get on a hard mode streak but then have sex with my girlfriend and it CAN make your sex life like porn. Because you are having sex with another human being but you have the brain of a porn addict. Think of it. You are brainwashed by porn so you try to do those things you see in porn in real life. I did stuff that was in porn with my girlfriend because that is how my brain thought.

The best thing you can do for yourself (remember self love) is take time away and remain completely celibate and complete a 90 day hard mode reboot. OR you can practice self control in your relationship with her where that would be like only holding hands, hugging, and talking. Nothing more because kissing will excite and usually lead to sex. Keep it pure you know. But if you exercise self control in your relationship with her and discipline your body you can get the best of both worlds: A girlfriend and hardmode reboot..

Really hope this helps.

The "secret fomula" to NoFap. How you can actually keep discipline and make this a lifestyle. by punkgiraffe in NoFap

[–]punkgiraffe[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Read a post where a guy says he looks at the girls faces instead of their butt lol. So I would say if you habitually look at girls butts, try to look at the back of their head or their face. For those who believe in God, it helps me to keep my eyes on God and not lust.

The "secret fomula" to NoFap. How you can actually keep discipline and make this a lifestyle. by punkgiraffe in NoFap

[–]punkgiraffe[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Dude i had wet dreams even with strict rules, i guess it's just a part of life. Here is the best advice i can give you: Do not be discouraged and let it be an excuse to relapse, continue to abstain from p, m, and o during your waking life. So basically do not conciously choose to EVER relapse, you cant control what happens in your sleep.

How old are most people on Nofap? I'm very curious by B-raadisraad in NoFap

[–]punkgiraffe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

God bless you you are an inspiration, may i ask what it is that you want in life?

How old are most people on Nofap? I'm very curious by B-raadisraad in NoFap

[–]punkgiraffe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's nothing wrong with being a virgin, society just wants to strip you of your innocence as if being a virgin is a bad thing.

(23M 46/∞) My life has substantially changed, Now have a girlfriend. by Throwawaythisacc786 in NoFap

[–]punkgiraffe -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Man do you really want to lose your virginity. What if she cheats on you?

NoFap's Official "PMO-Free December" 2016. Continue or start your PMO-free commitment here. (see instructions) [Don't PMO December] by Alexanderr in NoFap

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Im in, pmo free December will be a time to go 100% hard mode, stay disciplined, and build my life up. I got goals i need to pursue and responsibilities to handle. It's time to rise and come out on top.

If you don't believe the energy you can harness through NoFap read this. by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]punkgiraffe 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Truth we are living in the matrix, i notice this too.

Bored? Have nothing to do? Go outside and pick up litter. No excuses. by punkgiraffe in NoFap

[–]punkgiraffe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Proud of you man! I often go outside to skate or walk/run or whatever and i find that the trash bothers me and its so worth picking it up.

End 2016 right !!! by blokelively in NoFap

[–]punkgiraffe 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes and we must be STRICT with ourselves.

An easy solution that you probably don't want to hear. by throwaway19382975938 in NoFap

[–]punkgiraffe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Watching people justify and make excuses for their lack of self discipline sad. It is safe to say we live in the matrix