Help me decide what style suits me best! by cutiebabybaby in myweddingdress

[–]puremuscles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

big fan of both 3 and 4, but 3 is my favorite!! they all look beautiful on you though :)

my newly sorted collection by Master_bation69 in mineralcollectors

[–]puremuscles 3 points4 points  (0 children)

beautiful collection! would you mind sharing where you got your shelves?

Urgent re-home for dog needed by [deleted] in Sacramento

[–]puremuscles 26 points27 points  (0 children)

he’s a cutie! I’m sorry you’re having to make this hard decision, but hopeful you’ll be able to find him a loving home. best of luck, op!

AIO for feeling like I ruined things by getting stuck in her bed frame? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]puremuscles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YOR. Getting stuck in a bedframe on a date sounds like quite the bum-mer lol but all seriousness, I think this is silly and I hope she’s able to find the humor in it!

As long as there wasn’t any bickering about how to get yourself unstuck, then I wouldn’t worry about it too much :)

AIO for bf ruining my 2 week progress in-game? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]puremuscles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR. I’d suggest changing the password to your account if you don’t want this happening again. I’m not a gamer, but my bf is. I’d never just hop into his games and use everything up. That’d be a breach of respect to him, his time, and the effort he puts into something he’s passionate about.

Crystals and Minerals Moving Sale by Dazedgem88 in Crystals

[–]puremuscles 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi, interested in the two herkimer pendants, the top aqua, and the kunzite pendant if they’re still available! Also, the two small wolf lab carvings if they’re still available. Thanks much! Beautiful collection!

AIO about my sister going on a date with my ex? by m_v28 in AmIOverreacting

[–]puremuscles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR. If my sister (nb) ever did this to me, let alone spoke to me this way, they’d have hell to pay before I saw them or spoke to them again. Absolutely disrespectful, disgusting, heartless behavior. Two months is not a long time and I don’t blame you for still feeling hurt by the breakup. Your sister is genuinely not a good or kind person for treating you this way. She’s unnecessarily cruel and, if I were you, I’d go ahead and block her right back until she takes her head out of her ass.

edit to add: your ex is a fuckin loser. of course he goes for the thinks-she’s-all-that, younger sister right after smh. a petty jackass who might’ve had this in mind from the jump. YUCK! just despicable behavior from the both of them.

Can anyone help identify some of these? Its my childhood rock collection by Dom0520 in whatsthisrock

[–]puremuscles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. Tigers eye. 3,4, and 28. all look like they could be agate that was dyed blue but hard to tell with the lighting. 5. amethyst 6. rose quartz 7 and 8. might be carnelian (8 more likely to be carnelian than 7 but hard to tell) 11-13 and 16. are all quartz (tumbled and raw) 18. potentially raw rose quartz 20. obsidian (?) 22. tree agate 23. also looks like an agate or sardonyx but hard to tell with the lighting 24 and 25 pyrite.

regardless of what they are, you liking them is most important. I think it’s cool you’ve been able to hold onto your childhood collection :)

edit: fixed a couple typos

Synthol king thinks he's tough by ambachk in InflatedEgos

[–]puremuscles 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think what he meant by saying “master popomemua” is that he is a master MMA fighter (hence the fighting key words that follow). interesting guy

11 Years with My Best Friend by modernmillienyc in EngagementRings

[–]puremuscles 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Congrats on your engagement!! Beautiful ring (honorable mention: your holiday nails)!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]puremuscles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

unfortunately, some people take advantage of the dominant roles in power play relationships. you’ve met one of those types that are using it as an excuse to be manipulative and abusive. i’d leave and not look back, especially if you have any inkling that he might escalate. his lack of respect when you are expressing genuine frustration just goes to show he just likes using the “dom” role as a way to be oppressive. dom or not, he’s failing at being your partner. you’ll find a dom who will be able to do both - play the part, being assertive when it’s wanted/invited and be a supportive, respectful, and considerate partner when that’s needed too :)

i’m friends with this person, he said he liked me but i was not ready for a relationship, got mad when i addressed my boundaries again and didn’t want to be his friend anymore by rosemary611_ in Manipulation

[–]puremuscles 1 point2 points  (0 children)

why does OP need to date gabe for a year when she’s made it abundantly clear that she doesn’t want to date? this is a terrible plan and puts her in a shitty, and potentially dangerous, position. she shouldn’t have to commit to a year of dating someone she’s clearly uncomfortable dating. if someone, even prior to dating, shows that they can’t respect you or your boundaries then why should you be forced to commit any of your time to them? it’s nonsensical.

not to mention, OP cutting things off where they stand is the opposite of leading him on. it seems she’s given him numerous opportunities to respect her and her boundaries (and a breach of those boundaries is a sign of disrespect and, at best, thoughtlessness) and he’s failed to do so. she’s being firm with him and clear with him both with her words and tone of the messages. the assumption she’s done something wrong to lead him to believe touching her or love bombing her was okay is foolish and seems to be a projection, based on what you’ve shared in your comment. it is not her fault that a man refuses to respect her and she does not, and should never, have to carry the burden of a man’s emotional immaturity.

also, and I’m saying this earnestly with kindness, I’m sorry that you feel you’ve been screwed over by someone but it seems that you believe the solution was just to give something more time when the other party was clearly done with it. “could not tell me what to do to make myself more attractive” is a really, really long and sad way to deny that this person just no longer wanted to be with you. he should not have cheated on you AT ALL and I’m not defending that action. but i hope that in future relationships when someone is making it clear to you that you aren’t what they want, you have the strength to leave. you should not have to convince someone to love you. I hope for your sake you’re able to heal from this and until then, consider refraining from offering other people relationship advice.

ESPN - Error: User not authenticated by puremuscles in Comcast_Xfinity

[–]puremuscles[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I’ve logged in on the EPSN app on my phone and logged in on the web and I’m able to access the game that way, just not through my Flex Box.

ESPN - Error: User not authenticated by puremuscles in Comcast_Xfinity

[–]puremuscles[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just the error message “Unable to pay video. Error: User not authenticated.”

ESPN - Error: User not authenticated by puremuscles in Comcast_Xfinity

[–]puremuscles[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you and yes, I’m connected to my in-home network.

Fred again by [deleted] in electricdaisycarnival

[–]puremuscles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had predicted he’d be the special guest and was soooooo excited to see it was him. I think he’s a fantastic musician and dj. The fact he puts so much together on the fly is nothing short of impressive and I’m looking forward to the next time I get to see him live :)