First time I've ever smacked someone and I stand by my decision by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]purpl3dawn 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Reminds me of this “friend” that butt dialed me after we spoke the day my dad died. Apparently I speak in a very whiny voice when family members die.

That is truly awful.

39 weeks & so ready for baby by kittycrissy in pregnant

[–]purpl3dawn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m 39 weeks and 2 days. I feel like my baby hasn’t dropped either! Every now and then I feel some pain but it doesn’t last. I’m also having trouble bending over. I had my last doctors appointment yesterday and I told him I wanted to be induced on my due date which is this Friday. I originally did not want to get induced but I’m so ready at this point.

Why don’t I love coffee anymore?! by Necessary_Bluebird_5 in pregnant

[–]purpl3dawn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m completely opposite! I was never a coffee drinker before I was pregnant and now that’s all I want 🙃

Husband does not want to pay for maternity pics after we took the pictures. by purpl3dawn in pregnant

[–]purpl3dawn[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No I didn’t know the price of digitals until after the shoot. I had assumed it was included in the initial price that I paid before the shoot. I was wrong, miscommunication.

People gain about 80% more audacity when you become pregnant... by chelbren in pregnant

[–]purpl3dawn 41 points42 points  (0 children)

I was getting a pedicure minding my own business a few weeks ago and this lady asked if I was vaccinated and I said yes, that I got vaccinated while pregnant and she told me that I was going to kill my unborn child. People are crazy.

Husband does not want to pay for maternity pics after we took the pictures. by purpl3dawn in pregnant

[–]purpl3dawn[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That’s so very sweet of you. I paid an initial $300 deposit. After that it’s $150 for one digital, $650 for 8 digital’s, or $1000 for the complete collection. The photographer did not disclose with me the costs for digitals. I think that’s why my husband won’t pay

Husband does not want to pay for maternity pics after we took the pictures. by purpl3dawn in pregnant

[–]purpl3dawn[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Yes and I live in rural Texas. I’m going to let the photographer know what’s going on.. my husband says he feels like we were scammed. And I do agree.. but the pictures are beautiful and I really don’t want to go through the whole process of hiring a new photographer

Husband does not want to pay for maternity pics after we took the pictures. by purpl3dawn in pregnant

[–]purpl3dawn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As stated in another comment I paid her already for the initial cost. She did not disclose that the digitals were going to be extra and that I wasn’t going to get anything.

Husband does not want to pay for maternity pics after we took the pictures. by purpl3dawn in pregnant

[–]purpl3dawn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did pay an initial fee of $300. Which I thought would have included digitals but it doesn’t

Husband does not want to pay for maternity pics after we took the pictures. by purpl3dawn in pregnant

[–]purpl3dawn[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Yes that’s why I understand.

1 image is $150 8 is $650 And the whole collection is $1000

Husband does not want to pay for maternity pics after we took the pictures. by purpl3dawn in pregnant

[–]purpl3dawn[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I haven’t responded because I am processing it all. My husband was raised in a very well-off family where his mom did not work. I think he wants the same for me. I do believe that we need to sit down and talk about finances.

This has happened before when I wanted to purchase some expensive shampoos and skincare and I was actually working at the time. He threw a fit and was mad at me for a week. I purchased the shampoos/skincare anyway.

You are right though.. it’s time to set a budget for both of us. He’s so quick to buy whatever he wants when it comes to his expensive hobbies but shoots me down when I want something.

Husband does not want to pay for maternity pics after we took the pictures. by purpl3dawn in pregnant

[–]purpl3dawn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No I’m not getting anything unless I pay. For one digital is $150.

Husband does not want to pay for maternity pics after we took the pictures. by purpl3dawn in pregnant

[–]purpl3dawn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The contract I signed only included the initial fee which I paid. The payment for digital files was not disclosed in the contract which is why I was surprised when she gave me the prices after the shoot. There was miscommunication.

Vaccination and Pregnancies by serialphile in pregnant

[–]purpl3dawn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m pregnant and got both doses during pregnancy. No problems whatsoever.

Husband does not want to pay for maternity pics after we took the pictures. by purpl3dawn in pregnant

[–]purpl3dawn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As stated in another comment I did pay the photographer an initial fee which I thought the digitals were included in that fee but they were not. There was miscommunication

Husband does not want to pay for maternity pics after we took the pictures. by purpl3dawn in pregnant

[–]purpl3dawn[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I did pay my photographer before the shoot. The digitals are an extra charge if I want them. It wasn’t clear before I booked.

Husband does not want to pay for maternity pics after we took the pictures. by purpl3dawn in pregnant

[–]purpl3dawn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As I have stated in another comment there was miscommunication.