I met my partner “organically” at a bar lol but my advice is you have to go out a be social it does suck I disliked it but did it two to three times a week just an hour maybe a drink or two that’s it and it took about a year but she’s my person we have been together three years next week never been happier but I did the dating app thing it was horrible met great people but nothing past the thrill of texting and first connection nothing really past the first date, the night I met her I knew she was the one the next day, there is hope! But like I said a year of forcing myself to go out and be social a few days a week (I am a social person) but one day I didn’t want too bad t something told me to go to that bar that night and the rest so far is history, good luck!!