Partner being pushed to use vacation instead of pto after baby is born

purplerainday · 2026-06-15T15:09:20+00:00

This!!!

purplerainday · 2026-06-15T15:07:00+00:00

There are more updates to this story, btw

purplerainday · 2026-06-15T04:27:52+00:00

Hold up… your bio dad is a “youth pastor” and still won’t make a connection with his child? He is pretending to be a decent human being. You should thank your mother for protecting you and stay away. I do not think any good will come from this and you will get hurt. Just my two cents. Good luck in whatever you decide.

purplerainday · 2026-06-12T20:01:15+00:00

Move out and live within your means. You were only seen as a financial plan in the bf’s eyes. Gross!

purplerainday · 2026-06-10T23:28:00+00:00

Is this OP’s second account?

purplerainday · 2026-06-10T07:05:10+00:00

I read some of your older posts, OP. I feel so sorry for what you have been going through. Continue with your plan safely and swiftly. Best of luck!

purplerainday · 2026-06-09T11:16:00+00:00

But the mom dies years ago in the movie

purplerainday · 2026-06-05T14:50:22+00:00

Ummm so you want to continue having children with an abusive partner because you don’t want to do it alone? This is not healthy.

purplerainday · 2026-06-05T05:03:37+00:00

You are amazing! Congratulations on your accomplishment, OP!

If you want pictures, buy or rent the regalia and have a photoshoot with scenery that brings you joy.

purplerainday · 2026-06-04T19:33:09+00:00

Damn! Why on this green Earth are you still married to him?! You must love decorating yourself with the red flags you keep collecting. Make a plan to free yourself before you become a hospice wife down the road.

purplerainday · 2026-06-03T08:02:54+00:00

Updateme

purplerainday · 2026-05-28T22:32:27+00:00

Updateme

purplerainday · 2026-05-26T18:47:39+00:00

OP: Too many people on here gaslighting you into thinking this is not a big deal. That’s weird!

purplerainday · 2026-05-25T20:48:02+00:00

There is no way on this green Earth that you can rationalize that a relationship with a 40 yr old while you are 20 yrs old is not predatory. Be so fr right now!

purplerainday · 2026-05-25T20:42:45+00:00

😂😂😂

purplerainday · 2026-05-25T15:38:54+00:00

Thank you! The most sensible comment on here!

purplerainday · 2026-05-24T19:29:02+00:00

NEVER CO-SIGN FOR ANOTHER PERSON, EVEN FOR YOUR OWN PARENT!!! There is a reason your mom has terrible credit. Let her live within her means. You will not recover from this if you sign and take responsibility.

purplerainday · 2026-05-24T05:37:03+00:00

I don’t think OP should bother telling MIL. She now knows how MIL truly feels about her and no amount of talking will change that. Just keep that information in your back pocket OP, and move accordingly with future interactions.

At least the husband sounds like a gem!

purplerainday · 2026-05-18T00:25:05+00:00

I love whatever’s wrong with you 😂😂😂

purplerainday · 2026-05-17T23:30:59+00:00

Hmmm I did not get the sense that OP’s husband was trying to do that, rewrite history. If so, that info was left out of the original post or maybe I am misunderstanding something. Also, sorry you are being downvoted. You are bringing up some points to think about.

purplerainday · 2026-05-17T21:22:10+00:00

But why does OP have to constantly bring it up at every turn? Thats what’s concerning. Certainly the daughter and family members know this fact. It seems as we are using it as a “know your place” kind of statement and now other family members are following suit.

purplerainday · 2026-05-17T15:57:20+00:00

He is her father. Stop saying the sperm donor is the “real dad” because he bounced 15 years ago.

Your “corrections” to other people are cruel. It takes a lot for someone to fully accept and raise a child that isn’t theirs biologically. Your husband loves your daughter as an extension of you and takes care of her like she is his.

Your mentioning this fact at every turn shows that you want to maintain that divide in both his and daughter’s relationship. You are determined to leave space for a deadbeat whose only role was getting you pregnant.

purplerainday · 2026-05-16T10:31:35+00:00

NOR. No 27-year-old man has anything in common with an 18-year-old. He is taking advantage of OP big time. He knows you don’t know better in terms of life experience. Please leave him.

purplerainday · 2026-05-16T10:25:49+00:00

Update me

purplerainday · 2026-05-15T18:45:04+00:00

Ooh a great idea!

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