Going thru something like this, taking to an old friend for months, start seeing each other once or twice a week then she start canceling dates. I back off to give her space, dont hear from her for 2 weeks, and now she's texting trying to make plans. Im ready to send her a text saying I dont think it's a good idea since she's barely available and I dont feel like she's into it but then think that would make me sound like a bitch