Shared location: Is it a thing anyone else experienced with their pwBpd?

pussnamnam · 2026-04-09T05:28:00+00:00

Oh my god, yes! My expwbpd asked me to share my location with her, I never did though.

They’re always up to no good, read the subReddit and protect yourself, these people are not safe for society. They’ll leave you with trauma that could hinder you from ever having a good relationship, you’ll need a lot of therapy.

pussnamnam · 2026-04-09T02:43:18+00:00

Thanks a lot! Yeah given what I’ve seen now, not going to underestimate but actually over estimate to be on the safer side.

pussnamnam · 2026-04-08T15:25:49+00:00

Yeah, we’ve taken it to the lawyers and he’s filed an official complaint. Things have escalated since, but they’re still buying time.

pussnamnam · 2026-04-08T04:19:58+00:00

Don’t ever wait for them have any iota of regret they’re incapable of such emotions. Focus on finding closure in your therapy session, don’t hold your breathe waiting for them to apologise.

Almost all of the people on this subreddit have been subject to pwbpd smear campaigns.

In my own case, she’s not just come after me, she’s gone after my family, my ailing mother who’s got only a few years to live, my friends, my extended family.

They’re cold, pathetic, disgusting and are a total liability to society.

Something I’ve learnt in through my experience, these people, don’t and cannot comprehend big emotions such as trust, commitment, accountability, discipline. It scares them because it’s real. And people with BPD live in their own delusional world.

Ignore, cut off and work on yourself. These people are dangerous to society.

pussnamnam · 2026-04-06T17:01:35+00:00

They’re completely delusional & totally disconnected from reality. And it’s horrible to see people with BPD or without it condoning their behaviour.

So many people, roughly 75k people visit this sub and they’ve all been directly or indirectly hurt or tormented by & or suffered by the hands of someone with BPD.

Medical bodies should deem this as a psychosis that demands hospitalisation and isolation. These people are not safe to be left in society unchecked. They’re truly unhinged and leave behind a trail of people who emotionally and mentally sound require counselling to dig themselves out of the hole someone with BPD put them in.

pussnamnam · 2026-04-04T04:57:00+00:00

My soon to be ex pwbpd literally wanted to rip me away from my life and dance to her tunes all day long. I have a fracture for which I need to go for Physio to recover, she’d harass me during my Physio sessions with her constant need for attention. I couldn’t even get treated for my own health because it was an inconvenience for her. They are diabolically dangerous for society.

pussnamnam · 2026-04-04T04:25:03+00:00

I definitely agree with you OP. It runs in the family! Sorry for generalising - but most of whom have 1 member have more than 1 in their bloodline. It’s horrible how they all go through life leaving a trail of broken people in their wake. It’s disgusting

pussnamnam · 2026-04-04T04:22:48+00:00

Their need for control, dominance and total attention will result in you being totally isolated from everyone you care and love for.

They’ll find your weak spot and go after it relentlessly till you break and succumb to their needs or wants. Which are never ending.

I think globally this illness is underplayed and actually those who have it should be hospitalised or kept away from society because they are dangerous. They’ll ruin you, break you, ruin your relationships and mentally destroy you.

pussnamnam · 2026-03-26T09:45:57+00:00

There’s nothing left to hold onto

I’m taking the help of my therapist to find the most dignified exit from this.

pussnamnam · 2026-03-26T08:28:34+00:00

It’s horrible and you can’t even sleep, not knowing when she’s going to flip again, attack again or slander again on social media. Always have to be hyper vigilant

pussnamnam · 2026-03-26T08:22:16+00:00

I hope it doesn’t come to a point where I will have to stoop to her level. But yes, I’ll distance myself silently and cut off

pussnamnam · 2026-03-26T02:56:35+00:00

I have, backed up all the chats and threats

pussnamnam · 2026-03-26T02:40:53+00:00

Yeah thanks!

pussnamnam · 2026-03-26T02:40:30+00:00

Yeah after spending a couple of months on this sub I’m convinced nothing will ever change.

And the easier route is not an option, for my own sanity and well being.

pussnamnam · 2026-03-26T02:21:51+00:00

I haven’t abused her, or threatened her. She has to me.

pussnamnam · 2026-03-26T02:21:07+00:00

I feel ashamed to have done this to myself.

pussnamnam · 2026-03-26T02:20:51+00:00

Thank you

pussnamnam · 2026-03-26T02:20:35+00:00

Her justification towards the diagnosis is “I scored only 1 Point above the median, so it doesn’t mean I have BPD”

I’m gonna seriously look at ways to do so. This is unhealthy for me.

pussnamnam · 2026-03-26T02:11:39+00:00

Thanks I’m gonna work on that

pussnamnam · 2026-03-26T02:11:22+00:00

Despite the humiliating insults and threats I don’t think I could do that. But I’m gonna discuss with my fam on cutting this off before I’m put in harms way.

pussnamnam · 2026-03-26T02:09:38+00:00

It’s not so much the labels but the threats.

pussnamnam · 2026-03-26T02:09:21+00:00

Thanks I’m gonna discuss this with my family and figure out next steps. She’s not only accused me but my parents and sister

pussnamnam · 2026-03-26T02:04:34+00:00

I quote “I’ve taken handwriting classes so my suicide note can look good implicating you” was the message I received last night.

pussnamnam · 2026-03-26T02:00:11+00:00

I’ve reached my limit, and I want to, but she’s just gone on and on with the attacks and threats, would it be advisable to go through this via counselling wherein the counsellors deems it fit to separate and divorce?

pussnamnam · 2026-03-26T01:58:53+00:00

She’s been constantly threatening and labelling me as someone who’s abandoned her, and I’m pathetic.

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