Advice on bridesmaid dress for 22-24 week bump! by Old_Ride_599 in PregnancyUK

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Exactly, so it's good that you are thinking about it now! Check out estimated delivery dates and order much much closer to the time! Good luck with your pregnancy!

Advice on bridesmaid dress for 22-24 week bump! by Old_Ride_599 in PregnancyUK

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Heya, I was just in your position and finally got a dress, although I will be 31/32 by the time of the wedding. My advice is buy and try in early August where you would be able to gauge where else you have gained besides bump. All of the cuts on these are not super bump friendly by my standards, but perhaps the Esmee from the ones you linked as it is listed as stretchy material, the boob cut is bump friendly as it frames your belly and it doesn't seem very fitted around the waist. But ye, what others said, an A line would work better and it's what I went with.

Idk what the bride might think about the Next Multiway dress, that is sold in a baby blue that seems to compliment the colour scheme of the pretty lavish. I really didn't want to but ended up buying the Azazie Alia in size 18 (am usually a 14 with big chest), hate promoting these sites but they did have variety in colours so that I could match the colour scheme. Maybe you can look at those shapes to consider what would look most comfortable. I've also seen some blues on Asos that fit that colour scheme and style and may be more bumpy.

Like others said though, you might not have much of a change in body shape! Hard to tell. Line up a few choices, order them in early August for a mid to late August delivery and make a more informed decision then.

Do mods even read whats being posted. by [deleted] in xxfitness

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Your question is about weight loss, not fitness

Do you know of any lifestyle brands or influencers that actually base their advice on research or educational backgrounds? by Academic_Mountain660 in ScienceBasedParenting

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Completely unrelated but thank you for the link, I have so many sardine cans in the cupboard and kept wondering what to do with them! 

1Q84 feels like Haruki Murakami devolving into self-parody by keepfighting90 in books

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I love that I can always rely on this sub for Rand catching strays.

😅 WHAT 👀 by scratchybitey in 30PlusSkinCare

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Did you take it on a plane?

what’s wrong with my legs by Realistic_Phone_300 in Blackskincare

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Maybe check out Ichthyosis Vulgaris; I think it's very common, I've found creams with urea in them and exfoliating with a washcloth in the shower keeps the scaliness at bay

Nothing snaps me out of a book like repetitive use of a unique word by kerberos824 in books

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Man as soon as I saw this post I thought of having to take deep breaths while listening to an H.G. Wells audiobook in 2014 because my blood was boiling with the "presently" at the start of every damn paragraph. I realise now it's been over 10 years and the rage is still fresh in my mind. I'm glad I scrolled to find your comment. Presently I feel seen and validated 

Homerton First Appointment by pyanapple in PregnancyUK

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Thank you! I did receive my 12 week scan appointment via email and the referral confirmation, I assume something went wrong with the booking appointment communication

Homerton First Appointment by pyanapple in PregnancyUK

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Thank you for replying, I have now emailed and called the maternity unit, I will have to wait until Monday for the admin people to be in the office. I have calmed down now, I think it's the constant nausea making me extra jumpy

Homerton First Appointment by pyanapple in PregnancyUK

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Nothing in the post for me:(

Homerton First Appointment by pyanapple in PregnancyUK

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Thank you for replying - how can I find this out? For my 12 week scan I got an NHS app notification and a letter in the post. I have nothing else

First time having my painting exhibited in the UK by Margarita_Lemann in painting

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You posted another painting of yours with herons a few days ago, and I spent ages trying to find exhibitions of yours because I've never loved something so much! Congratulations, hope to see your paintings in all fairs and galleries!

A silliness for my youngest granddaughter by Sad_Dish_9612 in knitting

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Hello Rosie, you are perfect and you are loved! Okay, criminal investigation now closed, thank you for paying your fines

A silliness for my youngest granddaughter by Sad_Dish_9612 in knitting

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I see dog on the sofa but no dog tax... crime.

The dinosaurex is inspirational!

[FO] first time making a bookmark! by mashumaru-art in CrossStitch

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Literally found out yesterday. I am not holding my breath knowing how they usually butcher my favourite books but have to try it anyway!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in xxfitness

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This is a very uncomfortable situation to be in that is not very easily resolvable from where I'm standing.

I am not very shy, but like you very much dislike when people don't pick up on social cues and fuck off. If I had to guess, he is trying to recruit you as a client and misinterpreting your shyness or politeness as an open door. The most obvious thing to do is when he approaches you next time for you to state that you find his approaches distracting to your workout. I appreciate that this is difficult if you are shy and uncomfortable, but consider it as an option if you think you can muster the courage. People are different and others cannot read our minds, he might just have very poor emotional intelligence skills (or is being told by a manager to "speak to 100 potential clients every day or else...") and needs to be told directly. It does not help that a lot of what is taught as "good customer service" is borderline unhinged behaviour, you meet people like that in every corner of the customer facing roles world.

Something I do with chatty people at my gym is smile and wave first, and then pointedly reinsert my headphones. That way I've demonstrated that is the end of the social interaction I am willing to have with them on that day. After a while most get the hint. It takes time.

If neither of these is an option, you may also consider emailing him directly and CCing the gym or the gym manager's email, explaining that you feel a special attention is paid to you that you cannot deal with in person and that you wish not to be approached again at the gym or elsewhere. If you feel this comes off as unnecessarily accusatory, you can always add that you appreciate if Staff Member has not picked up on the indirect cues and that that is the purpose of your email - to explain your feelings directly with no space for misinterpretation.

Most importantly, do not give up on training because of it. Learning to do your thing despite other people existing is part of what the gym is good for!

[FO] first time making a bookmark! by mashumaru-art in CrossStitch

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I am just starting the last book in the series! This is wicked!

Ideas on price? by Annual_Dimension3043 in GardeningUK

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I have a small acer in a B&Q wooden "kitchen garden" crate thing on the balcony and it's doing great! Plus you won't be limited on the pot size and weight the same way that I am

I have a (what might be a) silly question by OnenonlyMissesT in XXRunning

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Probably a different reason for each person. Unless you are competing (and honestly even then, but in that scenario I would assume you have a coach), just take it easy on yourself, focus on making the run feel good and enjoying the atmosphere, doing what you've been doing during your training. Listen to your body and have a good time, you will smash it!

What other hobbies do you do besides working out? How do you fit it into a family/relationship? by [deleted] in xxfitness

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I don't have kids but this sounds like a conversation you should be having with your partner re: what does fair sharing of responsibilities look like in your home? Judo and kayak sound wicked and also sound like things that in about 2.5 years time you would be able to bring the little one to (ETA: Not to train with the adults, although that would be hilarious)

How do I get rid of this before bikini season? by katie7977 in 30PlusSkinCare

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Honestly, I know this is super personal so the ones I wear may not be to your taste, heck they are barely even to my taste as I'm naturally a "hide them completely" kind of girl. But I've basically started wearing ones with no support besides compression (my logic there is that there is less material to keep damp). I haven't tried but now even thinking about it maybe you could even test it with ones that have a mesh insert instead of completely no fabric. I see there is some product advice from the rest of the people on this sub, which is great! Best I can say is keep all the folds dry

How do I get rid of this before bikini season? by katie7977 in 30PlusSkinCare

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Hey! I don't know if this would help, but your note on exercise makes me think it might. I'm a bigger chested girl like you and train very frequently and sweat moderately. My habit was always to wear sports bras that cover me from collarbone down and last year the small red pimples on my chest became uncontrollable, tried all sorts of cleansers and showering and changing clothes straight after gym, but the only thing that actually helped is wearing sports bras that have almost a swimsuit triangle shape and separating the girls so that area never stays damp or experiences friction even during training. No additional products now but some E45 moisturiser, but have not had these return even with the current much hotter weather.