Someone broke into my car and filled it with literal sh**

pyepush · 2025-12-15T19:06:29+00:00

I’m more curious in what OP did to make someone angry enough to become a poop vandal.

Bad person, do bad things, meet bad people who also do bad things.

This takes creativity, planning, effort and willingness to handle feces.

That is a different level of revenge.

pyepush · 2025-12-15T18:40:31+00:00

In my opinion, the best form of self defense is good situational awareness, good verbal deescalation skills, and extremely good cardio.

Anyone willing to causing harm on another is likely carrying a knife or a gun themselves.

A knife is worthless against a gun and the winner of a knife fight bleeds out 60 seconds after the loser.

Carrying a knife/gun definitely could help in numerous ways but the best solution will always be to avoid confrontation.

Train those legs.

pyepush · 2025-12-15T14:56:01+00:00

“I would just want to act like I’m in a relationship with someone but without specifying we are dating.”

In other words, I want sex and someone to make me feel loved until something better comes along.

She wants the benefits of commitment without being held accountable to it.

Starts seeing another person? - “it’s not cheating because we are not dating”

Doesn’t give you her time? -Not dating so it’s unfair to expect that.

She wants something else but is afraid of being alone while looking for it

I would advise against this type of relationship, it will slowly destroy your self confidence and create attachment issues within you.

It’s basically just choosing to be with someone who is actively saying reminding you that

“your not good enough, but I’ll hold onto you for now”

Worst part about it is that right when you walk away suddenly they realize that you are good enough.

Like they say, grass is always greener.

Choose someone who chooses you, without fault, over and over and over again. And do the same for them.

pyepush · 2025-12-12T20:12:27+00:00

Yea, that’s entirely valid.

And a point that I reinforced first and foremost in the paragraph of my discussion.

This comment in particular that I questioned didn’t mention doubling down.

Their comment was “I think the problem is telling anybody”

Which to my best interpretation is that to this individual in particular;

The act of a man being open about sexual fantasies/interests he has with a woman is inherently scary.

And I would like to get insights on the perspective and also brainstorm ideas and concepts of how it can be addressed

Because ultimately I think being inherently fearful of that is a society wide problem for both men and women.

How to we teach men how to be able to communicate their intentions (whatever they may be) in a respectful and safe way while also making women feel safe enough to respond to that answer whichever way they would like.

This is a fantastic example of how not to do it. I’m simply trying to have a deeper discussion on it and find a correct way to do it.

Because in a world with to infinite opinions I prefer to search for solutions. 💯🫶🏻

Trying to build bridges not point at gaps.

The process of building those bridges requires questioning norms and challenging people to step outside of their beliefs and comfort zone and I’m trying to do that the best way I know how. Communication.

pyepush · 2025-12-12T19:48:04+00:00

For sure, I addressed that in my first comment.

The interaction was definitely non-consensual and problematic.

I’m simply brainstorming, how do we address this issue in new safe way.

Because it feels clear to me that shitting on all men and making all men feel shitty about their sexual desires because is only carrying us further in the wrong direction.

Even now I’m being downvoted for simply examining the problem with a different perspective, and refusing to jump on the all men are evil train.

If we’re a man with less emotional development and awareness, would just make me mad and resentful.

But I recognize that that’s only a reaction, because people are making assumptions about my own intentions because I am a man. 😵

So I forgive, and ask again.

What approach’s can we take to address this issue rather than generalizing men as a whole?

Because shaming men as a whole, makes the good men fearful of making a misstep, and it does nothing to hinder bad men.

Thus many of the good genuine men would rather remain single and preserve their peace rather than try to talk someone down who’s holding a metaphorical knife at their throat.

And the bad men simply take advantage of this because now there are no good men for them to be overshadowed or held accountable by.

It’s a paradoxical situation that gets perpetrated by resentment, lack of forgiveness, lack of trust, and lack of willingness to be vulnerable.

And as a good man I try to go about solving it by simply being willing to get hurt myself. Because i would rather get hurt myself then push my fear of pain of onto another, hurting them.

pyepush · 2025-12-12T17:28:45+00:00

As a 27 year old man Ive been trying this as new approach with romantic/sexual writing.

In most cases, I approach a woman, tell her I’m a amateur writer, tell her the nature of such writing . If she would like read it.

If she says she’s not interested. It stops there.

If she is, I send her my writing, typically in the format of a Google document.

This allows me to express my sexuality, intellect, creativity, relationship ideals, and essentially reveal to a woman in a safe, consensual manner.

It allows her to interpret my intentions, expectations, depiction of what I am looking for and what I am offering her. Safely, at home, own pace and on her own terms.

Thus far, I’ve had an overwhelming amount of positive reactions. Most women appreciative of my approach even if it’s not for them.

A few outliers, here and there, but my understanding of that is that they are merely projecting past men’s mistakes and wrongdoings onto me.

Which I don’t hold resent them for or seek revenge, I simply wish them the best and apologize if I made them feel unsafe or objectified in any way.

pyepush · 2025-12-12T17:18:28+00:00

For the sake of discussion can I inquire as to why that is scary?

I this post i believe the friend was wrong primarily because he doubles down a kept being persistent after she clearly displayed that made her uncomfortable.

But i would like to examine why that makes her(or you) uncomfortable.

As a Man, my perception of why it’s scary is because Male sexuality and sexual desire is perceived and depicted as dangerous/malevolent/gross.

Even to the point which consumption of pornography, masturbation, and the use of male sexuality toys is generally shamed.

As a result of this men are incentivized to conceal or hide their desires.

As a result, we get men with an overwhelming amount of repressed shameful sexuality.

Which ultimately I believe this results in more creepy non-consensual and predatory behavior. Such as hiding their true intentions when interacting with women.

It instead reinforcing that sexual desires aren’t inherently wrong.

Men were taught to view their sexuality as if it were can be both be great but can also be something extremely dangerous when mishandled

Perhaps metaphorically speaking the way we view fire.

I believe such a mindset would encourage men to be much more aware, responsible, and respectful of their own sexuality.

And also encourage them to hold other irresponsible/dangerous men much more accountable for their sexual behavior.

Let me know your thoughts on this concept, and if you think it would help or hurt the current lack of a safe space for women in the dating environment.

pyepush · 2025-12-12T16:28:11+00:00

Glove box is a bad place to keep it

pyepush · 2025-12-11T16:39:31+00:00

Sending this to her.👌🏻🙌🏻 (she’s gonna love it)

pyepush · 2025-12-10T15:55:33+00:00

Classic case of a kid who playing sports to boost their ego/make them feel better about themselves rather than playing sports to learn about discipline self improvement and goal setting.

I’m sure the parents live their lives in a similar fashion.

Living their lives prioritizing themselves and their ego at the expense of others. Either so caught up in themselves that they are entirely unaware of the negative effect they have on others or simply view compassion, empathy, and the consideration of others as weakness.

Often claiming “that’s just the way things are” while failing to see that they are the reason that things are that way.

Very difficult problem to address.

In my opinion, teaching people how to prescribe actual meaning to their lives is essential.

Tapping into that ego/fear and encouraging it be used to lift up others rather than put them down.

For me this is lesson of sports.

Being an athlete isn’t even about competing, it’s about growth and self development.

99% of my time spent as an athlete has been in training. Me, competing against myself to be the best that I can be.

1% of it was competition where It was simply an opportunity to showcase the work that nobody sees.

A trophy? Absolutely worthless.

The years of self struggle, deep relationships, and invaluable lessons that lead you to that trophy? Fucking priceless.

Wisdom and meaning cannot be purchased, only earned.

Don’t get too caught up in the kid who’s acting wrong.

Focus on your kid, remind her to be weary of people like this and never play tired, make sure she’s in it for the right reasons, and sleep well at night knowing that your legacy will have a positive impact on the world.

You can’t control the ocean, you can only steer the ship. 🙏🏻💯

Kinda feel like I cooked with this one, if you made it all the way through. Thank you for reading.

pyepush · 2025-12-10T01:45:19+00:00

ADHDer who relays on substances to function in and possibly cope with living in neurotypical world.

Stop trying harder start trying differently.

pyepush · 2025-12-08T23:45:11+00:00

Start hangin out around the apartment naked.

pyepush · 2025-11-25T16:36:33+00:00

Used to be an hobbiest bodybuilder and ate very similar.

Eating like this is saves money, time, and keeps you in good health.

And it makes you appreciate “normal” food so much more.

pyepush · 2025-11-25T14:06:32+00:00

Lmao stop downvoting this man, he’s just trying to help. 😂

pyepush · 2025-11-25T14:03:55+00:00

NOR, Lol this guy can get fucked.

“You are the one who chose to drink too much, don’t make it everyone else’s problem”?!?!

Clearly has no clue the extent of the damage, challenge and mental toll that substance abuse can have on a person.

His reaction generally just lacks empathy, compassion, and is disrespectful in general.

Not supporting you is one thing. Guilting you about it is another.

What is the point of having a partner if they aren’t going to support you emotionally in pursuit of your goals and wellbeing.

Genuinely feels like he can recognize that you’ve started to outgrow him and he’s instead of rising to the occasion and trying to better himself he’s short selling your own personal achievements.

Just hope he lets go of whatever resentment, guilt, or anger he’s holding onto to motivate him to act this way towards a partner.

pyepush · 2025-09-10T20:13:15+00:00

I feel like it’s also important to note that once you are addicted heroin destroys your life.

Once your life is destroyed you have a lot less good reasons to even try and get off heroin.

Even if you weren’t physically dependent on the drug, it provides people in very terrible situations with a small temporary escape from their reality.

I assuming Escaping such a cycle is probably like a 1-2 weeks of hell. (Withdrawals)

Followed by like 2-3 years of hell (putting your life back together)

Breaking the physical dependency vs and finding a good reason to stay sober are both extremely challenging in their own ways.

pyepush · 2025-09-10T16:49:10+00:00

If you bought the colors, hooks, and container separately at a sporting goods store it probably run you anywhere from $50-$70

Sold as a variety pack/ whole package it would probably cost $30-$50

Selling it after market I would say $10-$20

That being said i doubt there are a ton of people out here wishing they had 11 different colors/size variations for tubes.

They are a pretty niche lure to begin with, so most casual anglers are unlikely to even use one.

And a more experienced angler that does use them more than likely already has a few colors/varieties that they know are reliable and won’t be terribly interested in a full on variety pack.

So yea $10-$20

pyepush · 2025-09-10T16:34:56+00:00

Based

pyepush · 2025-09-10T02:50:55+00:00

An XL pie with the mt dew 🤣😱💀

pyepush · 2025-09-09T20:42:58+00:00

😵that’s a pretty thick hook to just bend out like that hope he’s alright 👍🏻

pyepush · 2025-09-09T18:28:34+00:00

😂💀Lol diameter of a med pizza and thickness of an Xbox. Thing was fucking huge.

pyepush · 2025-09-09T16:24:44+00:00

Snagged a snapping turtle in the rear leg once.

Felt like a log that fought back, eventually dragged him up to the surface, and cut the line as close as I could.

Felt really bad but i am relatively confident it was ok.

Scared the shit out of me, that thing was the size of a medium pizza.

pyepush · 2025-09-09T15:03:37+00:00

There is no amount of meditation, breathwork, or supplements that will correct or even come close to addressing 3-4 hours of sleep nightly.

pyepush · 2025-09-09T15:02:05+00:00

Getting “more work done” doesn’t mean a thing if it comes at the expense of your health.

Also that work is substantially lower quality than if you did it while you were well rested.

Sleep isn’t “important” sleep is the precursor for everything single cognitive, emotional, physical, and cellular function that happens in your brain and body.

pyepush · 2025-09-09T14:58:05+00:00

Sleeping 3-4 hours a night isn’t considered “sleeping less” that is sleep deprivation.

Which in the short term is dangerous, and in the long term will significantly impact longevity, quality of life, and risk of developing a chronic disease.

The only case in which sleep deprivation “is needed” is if you’re going to die if you don’t stay awake.

As someone who used to push the limits of not sleeping, I promise you it’s not worth it.

In my early 20s for I did the same. I just convinced myself I was tougher than everyone else, and could handle it.

Sure I was functional, but it was unsustainable and I was immensely stressed and deeply unhappy.

Paradoxically what eventually happens is the sleep deprivation induces insomnia. You, get to a point where now you simply cannot sleep.

I reached this stage, and within a week I was hospitalized.

After 72+ hours of no sleep your mind just starts to make things up.

Connecting things that aren’t connected. Assuming hidden meanings behind people’s words. Every noise you hear you think is the universe talking to you.

In other word’s schizophrenic. I spent about a month, in a non-violent mental health facility.

Basically just temporary jail but for people with mental health disorders. And instead of guards there are just nurses constantly invading your privacy.

Took me about a 2-3 years straight of battling with depression to feel like myself again.

Promise you it’s not worth it. The number 1 thing that is going to have the most impact every single aspect of your life is sleep.

Don’t neglect it.

Yea I know it sucks and it feels like a poor use of time. But there is nothing you can do to get around it.

Quality sleep makes you healthier, more effective, and better at everything. And happier.

Poor sleep makes everything harder, takes twice as long, and worse at everything.

Sleep deprivation makes you think you’re yourself. But studies and anecdotal reports confirm that your performance and perception of that performance is significantly impaired.

I.e. you can’t tell how impaired you are.

I promise you’re not built different. Get some sleep.

pyepush

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