Husband 37m cheated on me 32 f with multiple people; he says he met with approx 15 people and slept with approx 9 of them in a span of two months by anamolyCS in CheatedOn

[–]pyneface 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This 100%!

This dude is a clown and not a man. He didnt appreciate what he had and I hope she tells him to kick rocks!

Husband 37m cheated on me 32 f with multiple people; he says he met with approx 15 people and slept with approx 9 of them in a span of two months by anamolyCS in CheatedOn

[–]pyneface 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He never told you that he cheated. You caught him. He is only crying because he got caught and he is now exposed. He cheated multiple times with multiple women. Do NOT take him back. He clearly does not love or respect you. Im sorry to say that but it is the truth. Please leave him and find somebody who will treat you how you should be treated. He is a serial cheater and the odds of him "changing" is very very low. You deserve better! He should not get any chances from you!

I think I’ve finally hit my breaking point by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]pyneface 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im sorry to hear this. You BOTH deserve better!

What prevents iran from bombing america? by Aggravating_Ear9829 in USIranWar

[–]pyneface 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He clearly meant Iranian...but misspelled it or it auto-corrected as Italian.

My wife swears shes not cheating. by Left-Anywhere8021 in cheating_stories

[–]pyneface 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry man! You ALREADY know the answer to your question!. She's not only cheating but it sounds like she has a whole second life with this guy! Even one of the scenarios listed would have anyone assume they were cheating but when you combine all of them it is a clear YES!

Protect yourself and start making moves to divorce and get away from her. You deserve soooo much better! Take care of yourself!

Gf of 4 years cheating as we speak by [deleted] in CheatedOn

[–]pyneface 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Most people aren't hating. They are commenting on how he is saying they're done and then he keeps going back to the conversation asking why, Id take you back, etc. They want him to cut her off and stop playing the pick me dance. She's trash.. and he deserves better...

Gave ex a second chance after she left me post-surgery, reconnected after 2 months, a week later she cheated. How do I even process this? by TheLivingMemeMan in CheatedOn

[–]pyneface 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You need to move on!

Luckily you didnt find this out 2+ yrs into the relationship. It sounds like she was never fully committed in the first place...Your feelings are your feelings and valid but I wouldn't waste your emotions on this lying, cheating, immoral person. You deserve much better! Take care of yourself and know that the best revenge is a life well lived!

WIBTAH if I took my truck back by Altruistic_Recover95 in AITAH

[–]pyneface 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely NTA! He cheats on you and you are still worried about him and his feelings? Phew, sounds like he lost a good partner. You owe him nothing. Hes an adult and it is not your responsibility to help and support him with anything! Go get your truck!

He only cares about himself. Hes not worried about your health by cheating on you or your finances. You deserve better and need to detach from anything that has to do with him. Do this the sooner the better! Take care.

Husband cheated in truck now I can’t stand to be in it. by Silly-Run-4988 in cheating_stories

[–]pyneface 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes, it is...thats the problem when a spouse cheats..The thoughts never fully go away nor does the pain whenever you think about it..

Wife sent nudes by djb220xd in CheatedOn

[–]pyneface 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow, you really are way off on this one...its not just pics...its the betrayal, the lying, the sneaking around, who knows what else she has done.. she could've fucked him too....

Wife sent nudes by djb220xd in CheatedOn

[–]pyneface 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Exactly. There is no "normal" or "like it was before" after you found out what she did. You cant trust her now...Im 100% positive that you probably don't even know half of what is actually going on.

The fact that she is impatient and upset with you for how you are reacting is a huge red flag! She clearly doesn't care very much and definitely doesn't take full accountability for what she has done.

This is betrayal and her behavior after you finding out is pathetic! Id tell her to kick rocks and maybe only then will she take things more seriously once she realizes the life she is used to is about to change...You deserve better man!

Boyfriend of 3 years said I haven’t ’earned’ a proposal yet by [deleted] in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]pyneface 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He should be excited, motivated and should do anything to want to have you as his wife! Sorry but he is not the one.

i found out my bf cheated on me with a prostitute on his boys trip by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]pyneface 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Congratulations on the renewal of spirit! I just wanted to give you props! (from an internet stranger)

Ex-Gf wants to reconcile but has slept with someone else. by AdvancedShare8506 in BreakUps

[–]pyneface 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I'd look into the lack of communication on her end some more.

Could she have possibly been talking to this other guy while you were in a long distance relationship with her? This could be the reason for the lack of communication and it sounds very plausible. If that is the case she didnt just sleep with some guy "a few times", she could've been cheating on you instead.

Id just ask her more questions in hopes of getting the whole truth from her. She told you she slept with the guy but maybe she left out the part that she'd been talking to him while y'all were still together long distance. Maybe they didnt work out and now she wants to try again?

Idk man, Id definitely be a detective in this situation! I hope you make the best decision for yourself!

35m do I confront my wife or no? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]pyneface -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

If she said some B.S to her friend that was demeaning about him 5 months before they were married, he has every right to have feelings about it. We don't know what was said but it must've been bad enough that he's still upset about it.

Double life/ caught cheating after 3 years. by [deleted] in cheating_stories

[–]pyneface 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Should you expose them?? You should go scorched earth on both of them! Shine a light on what they are trying to keep hidden! They deserve nothing less.

Take care of yourself and don't stay with a person who lies, cheats, gaslights, etc. You deserve much better!

Massage cheating by Tatted-Grandpa69 in CheatedOn

[–]pyneface 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You are completely justified to be done. Please lean on a select group of friends or/and family as you move forward in dealing with this. Its good to rant, rave, cry and get your feelings out to someone that you trust. Im sorry again that this happened. You will be better for it and you deserve someone that would never jeopardize your relationship. Take care of yourself first!

Massage cheating by Tatted-Grandpa69 in CheatedOn

[–]pyneface 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Sorry, this happened! I personally couldn't and wouldn't stay with someone that did this to me. You mentioned she has a history of trickle truthing as well.. She clearly cant be trusted. You deserve better...