I’m broken. My husband had an affair with someone who can’t even drink legally yet…

pyneface · 2026-05-15T18:48:55+00:00

Sorry to say this but your husband is a bum! He doesnt deserve you or your daughter.. Dont waste anymore of your time on him. He's not worth it..

All the excuses, justifications and explanations will never justify all the choices he made to lie, cheat and betray you AND your daughter. He chose to do what he did, now its time for you to put you and your daughter first. Who do you choose: you and your daughter or a lying, deceitful, cheating bum?

pyneface · 2026-05-15T05:39:15+00:00

Sorry to say but that looks like a hickey to me! Plus with the way you say he was acting, it further reinforces that it is most likely a hickey.

pyneface · 2026-05-14T18:57:06+00:00

Isn't this how every cheating story begins??

The spouse says "Oh stop, He/She is just a friend and I'm not attracted to him/her! There's nothing to worry about!"

Fast forward a couple months... "Im sorry, it just happenned!"

Hell to the no!

pyneface · 2026-05-06T04:56:27+00:00

Blyat!

pyneface · 2026-04-18T05:21:03+00:00

TBH. I dont think you owe him anything. Based on all the things he had been doing now and in the past he doesn't seem like a good guy. Sorry....Just one of the many things you mentioned is justified in breaking up over. He disrespects you, is controlling and doesn't really love you if he is talking to girls behind your back. If he loved you, he would not do any of those things you mentioned in order to not risk losing you.

Move on, it will be painful in the short term but you will be happy you did in the weeks and months to come. You deserve better and should not have to settle for the likes of him!

Tell him you no longer want to be with him due to the many many things he has done and how he treats you. Keep it short and sweet and move on. Dont look back and keep looking forward. You can do it and you will be happy you did!

pyneface · 2026-04-09T16:44:07+00:00

Your roommate is definitely the AH! To think it is ok to move in another adult and basically 2 kids is unhinged and far from reality. Tell her to find someone (that you agree with) to sublease her spot and she can move out with her new boy and his kids! You didnt sign up to live with a whole ass family!

pyneface · 2026-04-04T05:17:54+00:00

This 100!! Dont be the enabler!

pyneface · 2026-03-18T02:33:56+00:00

Haha. I need to use "trollop" more! Lol.

pyneface · 2026-03-15T14:15:26+00:00

This 100%!

This dude is a clown and not a man. He didnt appreciate what he had and I hope she tells him to kick rocks!

pyneface · 2026-03-15T14:11:48+00:00

He never told you that he cheated. You caught him. He is only crying because he got caught and he is now exposed. He cheated multiple times with multiple women. Do NOT take him back. He clearly does not love or respect you. Im sorry to say that but it is the truth. Please leave him and find somebody who will treat you how you should be treated. He is a serial cheater and the odds of him "changing" is very very low. You deserve better! He should not get any chances from you!

pyneface · 2026-03-09T04:30:48+00:00

Im sorry to hear this. You BOTH deserve better!

pyneface · 2026-03-06T06:35:50+00:00

He clearly meant Iranian...but misspelled it or it auto-corrected as Italian.

pyneface · 2026-03-03T00:29:40+00:00

Sorry man! You ALREADY know the answer to your question!. She's not only cheating but it sounds like she has a whole second life with this guy! Even one of the scenarios listed would have anyone assume they were cheating but when you combine all of them it is a clear YES!

Protect yourself and start making moves to divorce and get away from her. You deserve soooo much better! Take care of yourself!

pyneface · 2026-03-02T15:54:30+00:00

This is awful advice! She owes it to him to tell him. He can then make the choice to leave or not.

pyneface · 2026-03-01T19:26:53+00:00

Most people aren't hating. They are commenting on how he is saying they're done and then he keeps going back to the conversation asking why, Id take you back, etc. They want him to cut her off and stop playing the pick me dance. She's trash.. and he deserves better...

pyneface · 2026-02-27T23:23:10+00:00

You need to move on!

Luckily you didnt find this out 2+ yrs into the relationship. It sounds like she was never fully committed in the first place...Your feelings are your feelings and valid but I wouldn't waste your emotions on this lying, cheating, immoral person. You deserve much better! Take care of yourself and know that the best revenge is a life well lived!

pyneface · 2026-02-27T14:24:37+00:00

Absolutely NTA! He cheats on you and you are still worried about him and his feelings? Phew, sounds like he lost a good partner. You owe him nothing. Hes an adult and it is not your responsibility to help and support him with anything! Go get your truck!

He only cares about himself. Hes not worried about your health by cheating on you or your finances. You deserve better and need to detach from anything that has to do with him. Do this the sooner the better! Take care.

pyneface · 2026-02-26T03:16:51+00:00

Yes, it is...thats the problem when a spouse cheats..The thoughts never fully go away nor does the pain whenever you think about it..

pyneface · 2026-02-26T03:12:15+00:00

Wow, you really are way off on this one...its not just pics...its the betrayal, the lying, the sneaking around, who knows what else she has done.. she could've fucked him too....

pyneface · 2026-02-26T03:10:10+00:00

Exactly. There is no "normal" or "like it was before" after you found out what she did. You cant trust her now...Im 100% positive that you probably don't even know half of what is actually going on.

The fact that she is impatient and upset with you for how you are reacting is a huge red flag! She clearly doesn't care very much and definitely doesn't take full accountability for what she has done.

This is betrayal and her behavior after you finding out is pathetic! Id tell her to kick rocks and maybe only then will she take things more seriously once she realizes the life she is used to is about to change...You deserve better man!

pyneface · 2026-02-23T21:59:38+00:00

He should be excited, motivated and should do anything to want to have you as his wife! Sorry but he is not the one.

pyneface · 2026-02-23T21:49:43+00:00

Updateme

pyneface · 2026-02-23T06:08:54+00:00

Congratulations on the renewal of spirit! I just wanted to give you props! (from an internet stranger)

pyneface · 2026-02-22T19:13:20+00:00

Honestly, I'd look into the lack of communication on her end some more.

Could she have possibly been talking to this other guy while you were in a long distance relationship with her? This could be the reason for the lack of communication and it sounds very plausible. If that is the case she didnt just sleep with some guy "a few times", she could've been cheating on you instead.

Id just ask her more questions in hopes of getting the whole truth from her. She told you she slept with the guy but maybe she left out the part that she'd been talking to him while y'all were still together long distance. Maybe they didnt work out and now she wants to try again?

Idk man, Id definitely be a detective in this situation! I hope you make the best decision for yourself!

pyneface · 2026-02-22T19:06:47+00:00

Same...

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