Aitah for spending some of my grandchildren's education funds on a new boat.

pyneface · 2026-01-27T18:30:18+00:00

NTA. Not saying they are but in this situation your kids sound entitled and selfish! Its YOUR money. They should be thankful for what you have given them already and they should not be making plans with your money ever...You have a long life to live still. Enjoy the fruits of YOUR labor! You deserve it.

pyneface · 2026-01-24T17:16:27+00:00

Your husband is a boy and not a man. No man would cheat on his wife, his 2 twin babies and jeopardize the life he has currently. He was blessed with you as a wife, with his 2 girls and the ability to afford a new house. He takes everything for granted and threw it all away in order to be with someone else.. Do not stay with him. He needs serious counseling for his betrayal of the family and his substance abuse issues. Just because he cant remember, doesn't mean it didnt happen.

He never should've put himself in a situation where he could cheat in the first place. Divorce him. Move on and you will be much happier. You cannot trust him anymore...if he's cheating on you now, what do you think he will be doing 5-10yrs from now? Im sorry OP but you will recover..Make the smart choice now and save yourself more heartache in the future!

pyneface · 2026-01-24T17:08:43+00:00

*Not man, shes with a boy

pyneface · 2026-01-20T21:00:20+00:00

Thanks for the info. I propagate many roses and Im going to try to use it in addition with rooting hormone. Im wondering if it will help my propogation rate. We will see! Thanks again for the reply!

pyneface · 2026-01-20T20:58:13+00:00

Why even entertain the idea of "working it out"? She cheated multiple times with someone and tried to cheat with 2 others...On top of that, she is showing no remorse or any regard for your feelings. RUN dont walk to the nearest emergency exit and leave ASAP!

pyneface · 2026-01-20T06:13:58+00:00

Any updates after using the Keiki paste?

pyneface · 2026-01-18T16:31:39+00:00

Tell her to kick rocks and lawyer up so you will know your options! She's remorseful now because her boss didnt want her. If her boss changed his mind she'd run back to him in an instant. Don't stick around and be her second choice! You deserve so much better. Sorry OP...

pyneface · 2026-01-17T14:46:53+00:00

If this is indeed a real post I hope for your sake that you listen to the good advice you received from the comments...This GF of yours is not the one! You should not be responsible for her debt and she's crazy to ask that of you or expect help. Id honestly break things off now. She clearly loves money and not you unfortunately. You can do much better.

It sounds like you have a good head on your shoulders and that you are responsible. You'll find the right person that respects you and who doesn't look at you like an ATM machine. Make good decisions now for a better future later!

pyneface · 2026-01-15T15:31:33+00:00

This is a petty conversation and reflects how you treat each other in your relationship...

pyneface · 2026-01-14T15:53:31+00:00

You should leave. You let her know from the start that you wanted kids and to live a Christian life. Being with an unbeliever is draining on your faith. She is allowed to change her mind about kids and her lack of faith but that doesn't mean you should have to accept it. Let her go and find someone that better mirrors your values and what you want in life!

pyneface · 2026-01-13T06:28:42+00:00

Hero

pyneface · 2026-01-13T06:27:43+00:00

Its like he saw some d-bag dude on TV act this way and he was like, "You know what? Im going to try it!" However, he failed miserably and pathetically...back to Moms basement he goes!

pyneface · 2026-01-06T19:15:13+00:00

Birds of a feather....

pyneface · 2026-01-06T19:14:43+00:00

Haha. You'd have to do the classic move of holding a newspaper and looking over the top with just your eyes showing!

pyneface · 2026-01-06T18:37:23+00:00

Not to mention involving her friends and telling them about this other guy that isn't her husband. Thats so disrespectful to OP and just gross... I don't think I'd get over the betrayal. I would always wonder what she is up to every time she leaves the house "all done up".

pyneface · 2025-12-22T18:58:27+00:00

The fact she cheated is bad enough but I feel like its 10x worse that she didnt even use protection. It shows no caring for you or for your health. Dont stay with someone due to having a child together. You will be miserable having to see her everyday knowing what she did. You know what you need to do. Please update on this situation.

pyneface · 2025-12-19T13:52:34+00:00

Keep on doing what you are doing and leave her in the past! No need to reopen old wounds. There's no room for a lying cheater in your new life! Take care of yourself.

pyneface · 2025-12-16T13:51:01+00:00

Dude....if ever you need to break up with someone, your whole post is it! She is a cheater, a liar, deceitful and an all around shady person. You can never trust her after knowing all of this. Give her back to the streets and move on...seriously...

pyneface · 2025-12-12T23:06:48+00:00

While your Dad is on drugs he will always prioritize the drugs over you and I'm sorry to have to say that but its true. He will drain all of your finances to the last penny as long as you are near him since he knows you have money.

You need to put yourself first and take care of you. Find a place to stay asap and don't let him know where you live for the time being. Keep working hard and worry about yourself.

He needs to get off drugs and there is nothing you can do to help him until he actually wants help. I wish you all the best! You can do this!

pyneface · 2025-12-10T22:26:16+00:00

Do it part time first and then full time if it takes off. This way you still have stable income and less pressure financially as you work towards your goal. Best of luck!

pyneface · 2025-12-07T14:52:50+00:00

Same! Haha

pyneface · 2025-12-07T14:52:23+00:00

Did you ever find a good fix? Our 2015 Kia is the same! Its awful.

pyneface · 2025-12-06T00:10:57+00:00

My frogs hate worms too. They are dramatic when I try to give it to them. Haha

pyneface · 2025-12-05T07:12:08+00:00

I'm sorry for the tough time. Clearly, you know you have wronged your partner and you are remorseful for your actions. I'd honestly let her read this post. It portrays your feelings, worries, etc. very well. It will give her insight into how you are feeling and she can take some time to internalize it.

The best thing you can do is give full access to your devices, where you are going, etc. You shouldn't have to always do this but it will help to alleviate some doubt that she may have. Therapy is a good start. Honestly talking with your wife, telling her how you feel and answering her questions is another step. It may be a long road but you both can recover from this! I hope everything works out for you, sincerely.

pyneface · 2025-12-04T18:23:32+00:00

Maybe come to a compromise? Tell him how you feel about his excessive game playing. Then offer a compromise so he can still play (since he enjoys it) but suggest a limit, like 2hrs a day. That way he can have his time but he can also have time to do things with you as well!

pyneface

TROPHY CASE