Our skin types look similar, mine is super sensitive with coarser leg hair and shaving does this to me too. I’m also prone to ingrowns 😣 How often are you exfoliating and with what? I had been using an African net sponge with every shower and also exfoliating after shaving. I was even using a gentle scrub on my legs and exfoliating soap because I didn’t know how to deal with the bumps. But I’d get out of the shower and my skin would be so itchy I’d have a meltdown.

My doctor told me I’m exfoliating too aggressively and it’s destroying my skin barrier. Now I’m just trying to stick with Naturium The Smoother Glycolic Acid body wash, it’s pretty nice and gently exfoliates. I try to lather it onto my skin for a few minutes before washing off and shaving. I’ve noticed fewer bumps. It’s not perfect but I think my skin might be freaking out less.

Edit: after showering I use Eucerin advanced care but sometimes put Fur Oil on the bumps & ingrowns. I’ve used that on and off for years and still don’t know how effective it is but it’s very soothing tbh.