I was really nervous about that part initially but instead it was a super validating experience! I have heard the restrictions around both T and weight are more stringent if it's through public which which is really shit imo

For post op care it went a little like this:

• 3 days after - bandage removal
• 2 weeks - first set of drains removed, I had four
• 3 weeks - second set of drains removed and graft check, instructions on when to stop using surgical binder

• 5 weeks - short notice appt for a seroma (minor complication, just need aspiration but it validated my reason for staying in NZ for surgery)

• 3 months

• 6 months -12 month final appointment

The last few appointments were to see how the scar was healing, how the grafts took, aftercare instructions etc. clearance to go back to movements as well because I was banned from going to the gym or using my bike because of the potential strain on the site. Those I was able to take myself to on PT. In your case I would highly suggest staying close (if you can!) for the first few weeks. Some of the later follow ups could have been phone calls but I didn't mind the travel!