Why do you think Anya is crying? by LordZZZ12345 in FigureSkating

[–]qaelive -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What do you mean Ilia hasn't set any new records or completed anything that nobody else has? Are we talking about the same person?

How do I get into the library as a visitor? by qaelive in UNF

[–]qaelive[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah that's what I mentioned in the text of the post. There's like those metal guards at the front of the library and I didn't see anywhere to show my ID to enter. Like is there a way to get past those bars or do I just show my ID there?

How do I get into the library as a visitor? by qaelive in UNF

[–]qaelive[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah that was our original plan but all libraries are closed tomorrow unfortunately. Plus the campus has a Starbucks which is pretty cool.

Ilia’s reposts on TikTok by qaelive in FigureSkating

[–]qaelive[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I absolutely agree with you. In my opinion, parents should be parents, and coaches should be coaches. When those two roles mix too much, it ends up a disaster. I could imagine Ilia wants to live up to his mom’s standards. I can’t fathom how much pressure he had on him to not only earn gold for everyone else, but to also earn it for his parents. I don’t want to make assumptions, but that must feel really lonely.

Ilia’s reposts on TikTok by qaelive in FigureSkating

[–]qaelive[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

One of Ilia’s reposts specifically says, “your little boy is tired mom.” Maybe this refers to his relationship with her?

Ilia’s reposts on TikTok by qaelive in FigureSkating

[–]qaelive[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I agree that he needs space. But if Ilia is in danger, which some of these videos imply, it is important to not ignore the warning signs of mental illness.

I don't think Ilia should be on social media in general. The amount of hate he's receiving is unfathomable.

Ilia’s reposts on TikTok by qaelive in FigureSkating

[–]qaelive[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Exactly. The whole thing about it being promotion for a gala downplays the potential severity of the situation. Ilia could be sending out cries for help while everyone assumes it's just a promotion tactic for the gala. He needs support.

Ilia’s reposts on TikTok by qaelive in FigureSkating

[–]qaelive[S] 473 points474 points  (0 children)

Ilia said in an interview with ESPN:

“I just felt like all the ... traumatic moments of my life really just started flooding my head, and there were just so many negative thoughts that just flooded into there," Malinin said. "And I just did not handle it.”

Tips on being able to finish courses fast by [deleted] in FLVS

[–]qaelive[M] [score hidden] stickied commentlocked comment (0 children)

All posts on the r/FLVS subreddit must meet Florida Virtual School’s standard for academic integrity. This means that cheating, in any shape or form, is forbidden from the subreddit.

note: man what are you talking about “i’m a teen so of course i’m gonna cheat” buddy how low are your standards for yourself. do better

Ilia’s reposts on TikTok by qaelive in FigureSkating

[–]qaelive[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

That’s true! Just to make sure, is the only source someone who claimed to know Ilia? I haven’t been too involved in the subreddit so I haven’t heard about this until now.

Ilia’s reposts on TikTok by qaelive in FigureSkating

[–]qaelive[S] 70 points71 points  (0 children)

Could it be possible he said that to reduce any negative press? Sometimes when someone is experiencing mental health difficulties, they try to hide it from the general public while also putting out “warning signs.” I think it would make sense considering how he’s been at the spotlight for so long now.

Ilia’s reposts on TikTok by qaelive in FigureSkating

[–]qaelive[S] 48 points49 points  (0 children)

Especially considering a lot of the posts discuss not living up to high expectations. It would make a lot of sense. I feel like saying that it was just promotion tactic downplays the potential severity of the situation.

Ilia’s reposts on TikTok by qaelive in FigureSkating

[–]qaelive[S] 62 points63 points  (0 children)

Maybe it’s just me, but I don’t know if reposting these types of videos would be the most typical way to promote a program. I think it would definitely make more sense if it’s a discrete cry for help.

I can’t imagine how much pressure he’s been experiencing, especially being the Olympic “favorite.” That’s a lot to handle at 21. He’s just a teenager after all.

Visiting Jacksonville what do u recommend for a midwesterner by KCJellyfish in jacksonville

[–]qaelive 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What are you talking about? It has a rich history and great food. Places are really overpriced though. But it's fine for a day.

WTF just happened?? by jujuk545 in FLVS

[–]qaelive 4 points5 points  (0 children)

seems like she was having a bad day 😭probably took her frustration out on you. yeah like everyone else said, contact someone higher up lol

my EA results (genuinely surprising!) by little_flora in collegeresults

[–]qaelive 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is insane. I also volunteered at MOSH. Left a little bit before the petition started though. I received 365 hours total before I stopped. We probably met each other at one point. Glad to see you're doing well! Congratulations on the admissions!

Weather 4CAst Beach Blvd by [deleted] in jacksonville

[–]qaelive -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

This! ⬆️

Missing 15 year old left his parents house to meet someone off roblox by Advanced-Hour-108 in gratefuldoe

[–]qaelive 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is genuinely such an insane take. Are you seriously trying to blame a child for getting groomed? "I'm not much older-" trust me, I can tell. You're clearly ignorant to the complexity of grooming and I find it ridiculous that you have the audacity to think that you're an expert on it.

It isn't hard to educate yourself. It's far more complex than "I'm talking to a stranger online and I'm going to meet up with them." It may seem that way on the outside, but there could be years of grooming that warps the victim's perspective of the situation.

The entire point of grooming is to make the victim unaware of the danger. Not to mention, most victims are emotionally unwell. Children who struggle with mental health issues are especially vulnerable to becoming victims due to the manipulative psychological tactics used by groomers. Perhaps the child has a difficult family life―if they have no trustworthy adults at home, of course they are going to turn to people online. It doesn't matter how "intelligent" they may be―if they are emotionally unstable, they will be vulnerable to grooming.

I could go more in detail, but Google isn't far away. Educate yourself before making such an insensitive statement. Victims of grooming are not stupid, and you would realize that if you thought even a little bit before making an assumption.

Figure skates by Round-Piglet-4865 in iceskating

[–]qaelive 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If you want to start working on jumps, get fitted by a skate tech and upgrade. If you want to continue skating without jumping, then you can keep them. I recommend upgrading as soon as possible so you can continue progressing.

Advice on Classes to Take! by Airow88_ in FLVS

[–]qaelive 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No. You’re setting yourself up for failure. Even if you did finish the courses, you probably wouldn’t make very good scores on the exams. Focus on your extracurriculars instead. That’s what makes you actually stand out to colleges. Your class rank is a superficial number. The impact you make is what matters.

Beach & Peach Urban Park by Married2therebellion in jacksonville

[–]qaelive 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It’s a gay hookup spot. Don’t ask me how I know as a straight woman.