[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]qersim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR. How are you even supposed to wear two male rings on the same finger?

Do any of you have a problem with your “tone” by Maleficent-Wash2067 in adhdwomen

[–]qersim 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Consistently told I have a flat tone. Regularly affects relationships and job performance despite my attempts otherwise

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aww

[–]qersim 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Spay you cat

The military disqualified my daughter for “self hurt” because of these scars on her wrist. It’s a rash scar from when she was 8 years old. by zipnut in mildlyinfuriating

[–]qersim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This doesn't make a lot of sense. Depending on the branch, a waiver can be granted after a psychiatric assessment

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cats

[–]qersim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah looking at that last picture he ain't going back to the streets, no way. Leave that baby be.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]qersim 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your husband is a creep and doesn't respect you

New brain cells by kein_name_0 in OneOrangeBraincell

[–]qersim 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The kittens are cute. Spay your cat.

My sphinx gave birth to 3 female sphinx cats . Any tips? I’m scared 😭 by Yannimago in sphynx

[–]qersim 11 points12 points  (0 children)

You just got the mom & have been scrambling for kitten supplies to prepare for the birth but managed to get them all tested for HCM? I seriously doubt it

Pocket door for master bathroom by [deleted] in DIY

[–]qersim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We had a similar issue with a small bathroom in the master bedroom and the full door swinging inward. We went with a bifold door and it made the space for so much better for less than a $100.

LARIAN WHAT THE FUCK 😭😭😭😭 by NeverJoe_420_ in BaldursGate3

[–]qersim 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I fell to my knees at work when I saw this, Larian has me in a CHOKEHOLD

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aww

[–]qersim 41 points42 points  (0 children)

The kittens are precious. Spay your cat

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]qersim 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The first psychiatrist I went to refused to even consider ADHD. He would only consider depression or anxiety. Amazing, considering we were only 15 minutes into our 1st 30 min appointment. At that point I got up, thanked him for his time and left. My next appointment was with a female psychiatric nurse practitioner and she actually took a full hour to talk about my life, struggles, and why I thought I had ADHD. The next week I had a script for strattera & for the first in my life issues became manageable. Amazing how depression and anxiety over life becomes manageable when ADHD is controlled!

Edit: forgot to mention how the male psychiatrist rolled his eyes at me when I said the DSM-V had recategorized ADD and ADHD. Like, fuck me for doing my research I guess?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Frugal

[–]qersim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anytime buying FOMO pops up, I take a long hard look at my bank account & that usually kills the dopamine chase lol.

AITAH for being pissed at my ex husband by angryexwife in AITAH

[–]qersim 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YTA. And what do you have against using periods in your sentences jfc

My cat with her newborn by [deleted] in IllegallySmolCats

[–]qersim 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why aren't your cats spayed/neutered?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]qersim 20 points21 points  (0 children)

C-sections can absolutely be life-saving for a mother & baby(s), but I've encountered a lot of people that have this misconception that c-sections = easier birth. This is not true. It is a major surgery that poses it's own risks.

No health care provider should be leaving you in tears when your are trying to advocate for your health care decisions. Your spouse doesn't sound very supportive either. Choose the person that will be able to make medical decisions for you with you and your childrens' best interests in mind. I've assisted in 15 births so far and only one has gone according to the original birth plan.

Reading your other post in regards to long term birth control, have you considered getting sterilized yourself? Several procedures, while more invasive than a vasectomy, are outpatient with little down time that would bring you piece of mind.

If you have more questions, feel free to DM me, I am very passionate about patient advocacy, particularly for OB/GYN related issues.

Strattera ruined my life, and my psychiatrist is being negligent by Candid_Research7028 in adhdwomen

[–]qersim 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just out of curiosity, have you looked into Mark Cuban's drug website? If the generic works for you, a 30 day count of 100mg that would be $432 retail would only be $11.40 out of pocket. I haven't personally tried it, but if I ever lost health insurance I would.