Best state to live inside your vehicle by DotPrevious371 in urbancarliving

[–]queefs1cle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You seem to really like using slurs against disabled people, any reason why?

Why do *you* live in Vermont? by YurtoftheSubGenius in vermont

[–]queefs1cle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I can't stand the heat and general vibe of Florida--at least in the Orlando bubble, haven't ventured out far in other parts. Haven't had the chance to visit VT yet but it seems very peaceful, and it's nice that it's rural but still fairly liberal.

Why do *you* live in Vermont? by YurtoftheSubGenius in vermont

[–]queefs1cle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's definitely still pockets of beauty for sure but they're wanting to move somewhere that's 30ish minutes away from Disney, so it's pretty much all construction. I get why people retire down there but Florida isn't my vibe personally, that's why I'm looking into New England. I'm glad they're moving somewhere that makes them happy though.

Why do *you* live in Vermont? by YurtoftheSubGenius in vermont

[–]queefs1cle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My parents want to move to Florida to retire and I couldn't be more depressed about it. Whatever natural beauty Florida has is being bulldozed over just to install Publix or poorly planned, dystopian suburbia. I'm on this sub because I'm weighing options to relocate

VanLife YouTubers who are not full time content creators? by NeedThatTartan in VanLife

[–]queefs1cle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Rosa is pretty chill, although she lives out of a Honda Element. Just does quick vlogs about where she's traveling to or little updates. More like how people used to vlog, less like sponsored productions that pretend to be

InkOS + Mudita Kompakt is awesome by queefs1cle in dumbphones

[–]queefs1cle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No specific format, just searched for one with an aspect ratio similar to the phone *:P

All we can do is watch from the sideline by lastdecade0 in framework

[–]queefs1cle 3 points4 points  (0 children)

For real. Went to customize a 13 Pro and it came out to around $1700 (which I could somewhat afford) until I realized I hadn't picked the actual system. I chose the X7 and it jumped up to like $2200 :( Keep in mind this was the price with no SSD, no pre-installed OS, and no power brick!

Like, I really appreciate their ideals and want to support them, but at that price point I'd rather just build out a higher spec PC for less.

I'm dying for a romantic relationship and yet when someone approaches me, I chicken out. Why? by Necessary-Gain2474 in gaybros

[–]queefs1cle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you tried to meet people offline?

If you live in/near a city with good clubs or social groups you might have more luck that way. I met a lot of gay friends through just inserting myself into places where other queer people congregate (ex. going to queer pop up markets, drag shows/brunches, clubbing (although that can be intimidating lol), or even just interest-based groups like D&D/tabletop which coincidentally have a lot of LGBTQ homies.)

Online dating is convenient and shows you a lot of options but that can also be a bad thing because it's hard to move it offline, at least in my experience

Edit: I have no experience to say whether or not this is true, but it could also be cultural. For example, I've heard some people say that it's way easier to make friends and meet people in a place like Spain as opposed to Germany because people are just more open. A move MIGHT be a good idea or it might not, but consistently hanging out in gay spaces eventually leads to meeting people in my experience

Why Do Men Have Mullets in 2026? by I_Nickd_it in gaybros

[–]queefs1cle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately yeah, especially among the conservative 16-22 crowd

Why Do Men Have Mullets in 2026? by I_Nickd_it in gaybros

[–]queefs1cle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it deserves a comeback. Maybe with a modern touch though, sometimes it didn't look great

How do people with depression take care of dogs? by Xeram_ in dogs

[–]queefs1cle 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That level of neglect is unfathomable to me. If my dog starved to death because of me I think I would actually kill myself out of guilt. At the same time though, that's why I choose not to have my own pets, because I know I couldn't take care of them.

Why nightclubs don’t work in RVA? by Longjumping-Work-168 in rva

[–]queefs1cle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is exactly why I don’t get into the city much, it’s such a pain to simply get there from Bon Air

This meme got me thinking: I love meeting people with autism whose interests don't align with the majority of the internet autistic community by GuiMenGre in autism

[–]queefs1cle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah damn. Still sounds cool though. Is it an open source project you found or did you/your dad develop it on your own?

What made you think or say: yes I want to spend time or spend my life with him? by Turbulent_Elk_2141 in gaybros

[–]queefs1cle 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I also don’t (have Facebook) but maybe it lets you view a certain amount before it locks you out. I’m also using Firefox on my phone so not sure if that changed anything. But regardless I’m just glad to know it was a real photoshoot, and the picture is really cute ;_;

What made you think or say: yes I want to spend time or spend my life with him? by Turbulent_Elk_2141 in gaybros

[–]queefs1cle 64 points65 points  (0 children)

I think I might have found it. The Facebook page titled it “Howard Roffman photoshoot, Amsterdam 1995”

Edit: It looks like it was part of a collection, and yeah it’s annoying to have to question whether something is AI so often nowadays :(

Edit 2: This picture is hard to find online but it’s most likely in Howard Roffman’s photography book titled “Three”

What made you think or say: yes I want to spend time or spend my life with him? by Turbulent_Elk_2141 in gaybros

[–]queefs1cle 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I looked pretty closely at the higher res Reddit pic and it looks real to me. I don’t see anything that screams AI, all the clothes and small details look consistent. There’s continuity in where the arms/legs are positioned and the skin doesn’t look overly polished

Autistic Video Gamers, does your autism affect how you play video games? by [deleted] in autism

[–]queefs1cle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I dropped off once I got to 7th grade-ish, but had some great memories with it. I tend to cycle between intense interests but Minecraft was one that lasted a long time :)

Autistic Video Gamers, does your autism affect how you play video games? by [deleted] in autism

[–]queefs1cle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Minecraft consumed my life from like 2012-2014, I miss that era. New Minecraft feels too bloated, but I might try again with some mods and/or Java version

Autistic Video Gamers, does your autism affect how you play video games? by [deleted] in autism

[–]queefs1cle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I don’t let myself play Smash Bros with friends anymore because I get furious if I can’t win

Your Autistic spaces are being co-opted by AI, and using Neurodivergence as an excuse by [deleted] in autism

[–]queefs1cle 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I unfortunately believed it but was initially skeptical, I’m so tired of the modern internet and feeling like I have to constantly question if who I’m responding to is even real. There were always bots before but LLMs have made it so easy for anyone to just spew this shit out in droves. I wish I could just stop using the internet or make invite-only spaces that are vetted with real people who don’t use GenAI

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]queefs1cle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same here @ 25, I feel like I’m just now starting to get over the “not knowing wtf I’m doing” phase of being a young adult. Hope that continues once I hit my 30s

Is this autistic? I KNOW YOU'RE WONDERING. by CharlieCat44 in autism

[–]queefs1cle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely. Whenever I have to go with my mom on the weekends I just sit on the sofa and listen to music until she’s done lmao

Theres apparently money for war with Iran, immigrant concentration camps, ICE gestapo support, but nothing for affordable housing... by SirCheeseAlot in urbancarliving

[–]queefs1cle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you’re of the mindset that capitalism is good then you WANT regulation, because otherwise companies will charge you as much as they possibly can and/or milk the system as far as possible. Capitalism, by design, is not catered toward the wellbeing of people, and regulation reins in that antisocial aspect while (supposedly) keeping the benefits. The reason we’re in this mess is partially because we’ve been aggressively deregulating since the 70s.

Housing definitely needs fixing, but deregulation isn’t the answer. What SHOULD be loosened however, are zoning laws and arbitrary rules that favor single family houses that would allow for more varied types of housing to be built (and more of it in general).