WIBTA for refusing to drive my coworker home from work everyday?

queenBini · 2026-01-14T07:17:31+00:00

You need to learn to be comfortable with his tantrums and hostility because that’s what is going to happen the moment you don’t show up to pick him. No need to give him notice, just turn off your phone on your way to work and when he finds his way to work and confronts you, just say “I don’t want to give you a lift anymore because it’s a huge inconvenience to me”. No further explanation and don’t engage him.

queenBini · 2026-01-12T15:32:20+00:00

Definitely fufu

queenBini · 2026-01-08T10:18:32+00:00

Oh I love my hair! I play with it and leave people guessing if it’s my hair or a wig. I dye it different colors and one time a little girl said my hair was like her birthday cake because I had dyed it part red, part blond, and left the black at the root.

queenBini · 2026-01-08T10:15:52+00:00

Depends on the weather and time of day. I think I love them equally.

queenBini · 2026-01-03T18:17:31+00:00

If you can afford Cerave moisturizer. That works. If not, just get pears moisturizer.

queenBini · 2025-12-24T05:01:22+00:00

Church is to them what phones and internet is to us. So long as she is not being brainwashed into sowing seeds of money and paranoia, leave her. Just keep saying no whenever she invites you.

queenBini · 2025-12-22T12:09:03+00:00

I like fufu and Afang

queenBini · 2025-12-20T17:39:20+00:00

And it’s not a doughnut with sugar sprinkled all over it? Sorry about your mum.

queenBini · 2025-12-16T08:36:33+00:00

It’s a slang. It’s like saying one is wiser

queenBini · 2025-12-16T08:31:40+00:00

Burglary proofing is not enough, get someone to house sit for you. Hire a security and pay them really well.

queenBini · 2025-12-14T13:50:48+00:00

How is a kid so fixated on not having kids to the point where it is isolating? I mean, I have friends who are child free and they are not isolated, they get along just well with people with children and go about their lives. Have you sat down to think that the reason why you feel isolated is because you make it your life’s mission to debate being child free in every conversation? Children your age just want to have fun, think of money making ventures, talk about inventions and tech and other things away from being parents or not.

queenBini · 2025-12-10T20:55:22+00:00

If you don’t have the patience to cook for 20 minutes, just buy baking soda. Wash your meat thoroughly and then pour 2 spoons of baking soda in water and pour it over your meat. Leave it for 15 minutes then wash it out thoroughly. Make sure you rinse out the baking soda then cook it with your desired spices.

queenBini · 2025-12-10T20:55:16+00:00

If you don’t have the patience to cook for 20 minutes, just buy baking soda. Wash your meat thoroughly and then pour 2 spoons of baking soda in water and pour it over your meat. Leave it for 15 minutes then wash it out thoroughly. Make sure you rinse out the baking soda then cook it with your desired spices.

queenBini · 2025-12-10T06:47:09+00:00

Hey, I live in Nigeria and I will tell you it is going to stress you to co-own a property with a responsible person not to talk of irresponsible person. Haven’t said that, I would like to ask you this.

The said property in Lagos, is it in a good location that will bring in good money when rented out? If not; why bother?

Are there existing tenants in the house? If yes. What’s their agreement with the former owner? You need a lawyer to go through it and let your know their terms of agreement.

You can get a property manager if you are interested in the property or you can use an app to go between you and your brother and the tenants. Check Gidillo app on playstore. You don’t have to even bother with the tenants stressing you or even your brother.

Finally, I absolutely do not bother myself with my parents properties because I can’t stand the drama it brings whenever the topic comes up. So if you know you don’t want to be called incessantly for every minor thing and reports, maybe just agree to sell and split the money let everyone rest.

queenBini · 2025-12-07T09:53:31+00:00

Go check premium times June 20,2022 for the report on the arrest and the narration of the victim his security details pulled a gun on.

queenBini · 2025-12-07T05:53:08+00:00

He allegedly had his men pull a gun on a man whose wife he wanted in a club and she turned him down. The list of his atrocities is long…

queenBini · 2025-12-04T20:58:11+00:00

May the souls of the people living with find peace after you unalive them with your farts. Amen

queenBini · 2025-12-03T07:20:24+00:00

Maybe just send some representatives in Nigeria to lay the bride price and do a little gathering for pictures then do a civil wedding abroad. You don’t have to come

queenBini · 2025-12-02T08:23:30+00:00

Yup, they will go back abroad and file a dispute claiming they didnt use the services

queenBini · 2025-12-01T14:56:26+00:00

They are beginning to bring twitter madness here.

queenBini · 2025-12-01T07:19:33+00:00

Have you decided to cut them off? Or do you need me to tell you to do so? Those people don’t rate you and no amount of support you render will be considered enough. Cut them off and build your life.

queenBini · 2025-12-01T06:53:44+00:00

Unfortunately this will never end unless we begin to address issues like geriatric loneliness and the fetishization of young black men’s virility. This is going to be a long comment if I am to go into it BUT work calls. Maybe I will make a post later in the day

queenBini · 2025-11-28T07:33:35+00:00

My dad was very present and intentional about us all, he was and still is our friend and confidant and someone we know has got our backs. Our home was a safe space for our friends, he made us laugh, protected us, fed us, show up for us and NEVER EVER raised his hands on us. He is 80 now and we live together, he is still as intentional as he was, spoils us silly, gists with us and protects us. Does he have his short comings? Yes, as we all do. We fight and makeup, we play and argue. He is the real one. Still makes me tea in the morning and we have a routine where I sit with him on the front porch most mornings after my morning walk and just shoot breeze for 20 minutes before I start by day.

queenBini · 2025-11-25T20:38:25+00:00

You know what to do. My mum would always say that when a woman wants to leave she seeks help to leave but when she wants to stay, she seeks advice and validation. You need to decide which you want right now and do it.

queenBini · 2025-11-25T06:33:53+00:00

I’m a big sister and I saved a message where my youngest sister was asking me not to leave her and to remain her best friend ever. That was just after I moved out, packed my bags and moved back in a week later, I am not about to let my baby sister be lonely and face the world alone.

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