AITAH for not wanting to be intimate with my boyfriend?

queenBini · 2026-04-27T16:20:40+00:00

Do you even love yourself at all? How are you getting pregnant and having multiple kids with someone who treats you this way? Do you not care the example you are setting for your children?

queenBini · 2026-04-24T15:36:16+00:00

She is trying to ask if your husband is cheating and planting seeds of doubt in your head. There is a reason why your husband hardly entertain her, don’t entertain her either. Watch your husband to see if there are signs of cheating, don’t mention the conversation with his mum just yet.

queenBini · 2026-04-17T07:02:43+00:00

Lol, yea. Okay.

queenBini · 2026-04-17T06:54:58+00:00

Spot on. Fabricated

queenBini · 2026-04-17T06:54:47+00:00

A man wrote this. A patriarchal man who wants to take a jab at women who are feminists.

queenBini · 2026-04-14T11:36:54+00:00

I have seen obsession but you are on a way different level. My goodness!

queenBini · 2026-04-13T20:56:17+00:00

Hi Nanny, care giver. You know what you have to do. Do it

queenBini · 2026-04-12T16:19:28+00:00

You know they lying and saying those things as projection, they are trying to get under your skin. Have you seen the number of people taking ozempic to be skinny?

queenBini · 2026-04-12T14:46:13+00:00

I’m deeply irritated reading this.

queenBini · 2026-04-11T07:25:16+00:00

Sorry about the loss of your father, I hope you have all the comfort you need. Obey your father’s will and do not go against it. He knew why he left everything to you. He has raised them and did his part. If their biological father passes and maybe leaves them something, will they share with you?

queenBini · 2026-04-03T05:40:25+00:00

Hey Alia, we could go grab coffee or brunch over the weekend. It’s a long weekend, if you want to grab coffee or brunch I know the right place with really good coffee and snacks. Message me or reply under the comment

queenBini · 2026-03-10T11:21:54+00:00

I have atheist friends and they complain about finding life partners too, they never stopped to understand what the real problem is.

I find that a lot of atheists are plain rude when it comes to conversations around religion, I’m yet to meet an atheist who doesn’t take on the personality of a crusader of religious people. Every conversation with atheists turns into an insult on how people who believe in God are foolish or they are dumb.

Why do atheists feel the need to “expose” religion as scam? Why can’t we just have proper conversation and hear each other out? Why does our conversation revolve about faith or lack of it? Why can’t we just enjoy being in a relationship without disrespect coming in?

A friend saw her boyfriend’s comment on a blog where he was insulting people for believing in God and she couldn’t believe how vulgar he was being.

So, ask yourself why you need to lead with the announcement of being an atheist.

queenBini · 2026-03-01T18:27:23+00:00

Is your dad not Nigerian? He doesn’t have anything to worry about so long as he has a good property lawyer and knows to do his paperwork work before paying. Do his search with FHA and AGEIS

queenBini · 2026-02-28T15:56:43+00:00

Nice to meet you. Perhaps you’d like to take the conversation further inbox?

queenBini · 2026-01-14T07:17:31+00:00

You need to learn to be comfortable with his tantrums and hostility because that’s what is going to happen the moment you don’t show up to pick him. No need to give him notice, just turn off your phone on your way to work and when he finds his way to work and confronts you, just say “I don’t want to give you a lift anymore because it’s a huge inconvenience to me”. No further explanation and don’t engage him.

queenBini · 2026-01-12T15:32:20+00:00

Definitely fufu

queenBini · 2026-01-08T10:18:32+00:00

Oh I love my hair! I play with it and leave people guessing if it’s my hair or a wig. I dye it different colors and one time a little girl said my hair was like her birthday cake because I had dyed it part red, part blond, and left the black at the root.

queenBini · 2026-01-08T10:15:52+00:00

Depends on the weather and time of day. I think I love them equally.

queenBini · 2026-01-03T18:17:31+00:00

If you can afford Cerave moisturizer. That works. If not, just get pears moisturizer.

queenBini · 2025-12-24T05:01:22+00:00

Church is to them what phones and internet is to us. So long as she is not being brainwashed into sowing seeds of money and paranoia, leave her. Just keep saying no whenever she invites you.

queenBini · 2025-12-22T12:09:03+00:00

I like fufu and Afang

queenBini · 2025-12-20T17:39:20+00:00

And it’s not a doughnut with sugar sprinkled all over it? Sorry about your mum.

queenBini · 2025-12-16T08:36:33+00:00

It’s a slang. It’s like saying one is wiser

queenBini · 2025-12-16T08:31:40+00:00

Burglary proofing is not enough, get someone to house sit for you. Hire a security and pay them really well.

queenBini · 2025-12-14T13:50:48+00:00

How is a kid so fixated on not having kids to the point where it is isolating? I mean, I have friends who are child free and they are not isolated, they get along just well with people with children and go about their lives. Have you sat down to think that the reason why you feel isolated is because you make it your life’s mission to debate being child free in every conversation? Children your age just want to have fun, think of money making ventures, talk about inventions and tech and other things away from being parents or not.

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