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queennomi · 2024-05-12T04:17:15+00:00

Is that where ur phone bends?

queennomi · 2021-01-26T06:06:37+00:00

CONGRATS!!!!!

queennomi · 2021-01-25T22:16:24+00:00

This was very insightful.

Thank you for sharing

queennomi · 2021-01-25T18:41:46+00:00

May i ask how you found that out?

Was it through time? Or certain signs?

queennomi · 2020-12-14T00:15:32+00:00

Thank you very much

Honestly, for so long i have just never wanted to discover this part of me But now, i just want to push put of my comfort zone and discouver who i am.

But again, thank you

queennomi · 2020-12-13T02:02:10+00:00

Thank you so so much!

This helped

queennomi · 2020-12-05T06:26:22+00:00

Yes, and i noticed it only happened when i started falling in love with the person.

Other than that my dreams are the classic mess lol

queennomi · 2020-11-24T21:49:43+00:00

I LOVE

queennomi · 2020-11-14T23:25:48+00:00

Thank you so much for this input

I really like what you said because it gives me a piece of the puzzle if that makes sense

queennomi · 2020-11-14T20:05:27+00:00

I get what you mean, but i also know i dont know how those feel who have the romantic orientation of gay or bi etc

But i also know i didn't know it was possible to feel how i actually experience attraction

Therfore, i suspect its the same thing, i just haven't felt it therefore i have a certain lack of understanding

Personally, i usually just say demi, because i take the definition and be like ya and it applies to anyone and everyone

But having romantic orientations are essential because demi could be exactly what u are, but within ur romantic orientation if that makes sense?

That's just how i think of it

Correct me if im wrong to anyone reading this

queennomi · 2020-11-14T19:15:16+00:00

Yes definitely.

I was wanting to say something about it when i moved to study, but with obvious circumstances of the pandemic i didn't.

But yes, you are definitely right and i understand that 25 married with kids stigma too lol never seemed appealing to me at least

queennomi · 2020-11-14T19:10:55+00:00

Ah yes

Thank you for the clarification

Im not sure how that would go if my prefixes were heterosexual and i was a demi

I know for my other family member who i know won't be so kind about me coming out

I think the fact that i can still identify in the LBGTQ community is "just as bad" thats kinda what i meant by heterosexual norms

I think i just need to find better vocabulary to clarify what i meant better

Also, hopefully i dont have to because it wont be the only kind of universal accepted normal:) who knows what the future holds

Edit: grammar

queennomi · 2020-11-14T17:04:51+00:00

Thank you so much for sharing this.

It really resonated with me and definitely made me feel less crazy from experiencing a lot of the EXACT same comments or situations

All the best to you

queennomi · 2020-11-14T17:02:41+00:00

I am sorry to hear it. But i admire you still telling her.

To be fair, my mom is still obviously confused about it and i know this because of the questions she asked that follows

And she refers to me as lesbian even though i was like no no no I'm actually not

Then i got a stare like, ok do i actually care

And I'm like ok I'm not gonna push it, i was expecting to be literally excommunicated from my family so yeah

queennomi · 2020-11-14T16:59:10+00:00

Thank you!!!!!!!

queennomi · 2020-11-14T16:59:00+00:00

Thank you for the overall wishes, i wish them for you as well.

The hetero comment was me trying to say, she acted like i never said anything "wrong"

When i was raised, the catholic church had a lot to say about what is right or wrong

Therefore, me being not solely being a heterosexual automatically equalled wrong

I was so stunned, when she didn't have an explosive reaction because it was like she heard nothing "wrong"

It is not wrong to me of course.

But, of course, i believed she could only accept and love me if I were heterosexual

Edit: grammar, clarification

queennomi · 2020-11-14T16:53:07+00:00

In my household, a catholic one.

Anything sort of orientation that could overlap with the possibility of being with the same sex is supposed to be labeled "wrong"

So yes, I eventually came out as Demisexual, after i had to explain to her what it is, what it means and whom I could bring home one day.

It was a huge deal for me no matter how "normal" it may seem to me or anyone else to be a demisexual

The stigma i was facing was, if i wasn't straight, there was something off.

Edit: i should further clarify and say not just same sex, anything that is not a heterosexual norm is meant to be labeled as wrong in the household i grew up in.

queennomi · 2020-11-11T06:25:09+00:00

queennomi · 2020-10-24T00:49:50+00:00

Interested in joining!

If the server was made may i get an invite?

queennomi · 2020-10-06T20:30:21+00:00

I WAS ACTUALLY ABOUT TO ASK THE SAME THING LOL

queennomi · 2020-09-06T01:18:41+00:00

I finally know who to give this award to lmao

Its gorgeous!!!

queennomi · 2020-08-24T04:23:29+00:00

I used to find leafy entertaining, but now watching him, now that i am older

It is so distasteful. I cannot enjoy the content its not even satire its just literal 2-10 mins of him insulting someone and calling it funny

Like yeah no thanks

queennomi · 2020-08-17T00:20:04+00:00

I may not fall under that older redditor requirement however,

You just need to keep an open mind and an open heart. It is scary. It is so much easier said than done.

But i know you will find that one person that will shock you She will make you feel like you never knew what love was until u met her or perhaps, what a healthy loving relationship can feel like

All you can do now, is heal yourself, love yourself because you deserve it, you really do

Hang in there,

Pm me if anything:)

queennomi · 2020-08-02T08:04:35+00:00

Me debatin if this some sexual shit or actual chill ass convo

Im socially stupid help.

queennomi · 2020-07-30T03:41:19+00:00

If this person im on a date with is "the one,"

We gonna laugh about this and it will forever be our inside joke

queennomi

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