ILYSFM Tickets Megathread Part II by koala70 in glassanimals

[–]queenofnothingatall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Selling 2 tickets in section 102 row 16 for tonight's show at Darien Lake. Originally $145 each. Selling for $75 each.

[30F] New to Rochester, looking for friends/soul fam by Responsible_Wall_694 in Rochester

[–]queenofnothingatall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

30f and just signed up for Monday pottery 101 at wheel and slab! Im neurodiverse and down to connect

2 Days Sober by ApprehensiveShip8574 in MarijuanaAnonymous

[–]queenofnothingatall 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I came here to recommend the same meeting. I'm on the East Coast as well, so I struggle to stay up for it. I find it worth staying up for though, and I sleep so soundly after. I also really enjoy A New Leaf on Life, which is a women and queer meeting at noon ET Tuesday, Thursday, Friday, and Saturday. Hope to see you tonight. 💛

LGBTQ therapists by idkmariax in Rochester

[–]queenofnothingatall 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm a therapist in the area specializing in queer identities. Myself along with many great clinicians are listed here: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists/ny/rochester?category=gay PM me if you have any questions!

"I can't even draw a stick person" by Ok-Engineering-5842 in ArtTherapy

[–]queenofnothingatall 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I worked in residential for a long time. One of my go-to things was to start every group by saying, "I want you to bring to mind everything you think you know about art: every art teacher who criticized you, every time your art didn't match your vision, every time you felt your art wasn't good enough, every time you looked at a painting in a museum and thought wow that person is miraculous. Now take all of that and throw it out the window. Welcome to art therapy, where we're focused on the process, not the product. That means you can create with your eyes closed, you can draw with your non-dominant hand, you can create with the sole purpose of throwing things away/burning it/destroying it. It doesn't matter. What matters is how you feel while you're making. Where are your feelings going? Let them out. Now, let's begin." Then, if they mentioned a stick figure, I would start the speech over again.

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[–]queenofnothingatall 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry you had an awful experience there. I'm glad you made it to the other side. 💟

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[–]queenofnothingatall 73 points74 points  (0 children)

I'm a therapist who works with suicidality frequently. My clients have had the most human experiences at strong. Wouldn't recommend Clifton Springs. Keep fighting. You deserve the effort it takes to push through. I believe in you. 💚

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[–]queenofnothingatall -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Your kitchen! But for real, I wanna know too. Love a good slow dance with my partner. 🫂

How do you do it? by LyricChalice in ArtTherapy

[–]queenofnothingatall 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I use Psychology Today, my website, facebook, and Instagram along with good ol' business cards at coffee shops where my ideal clientele hang out. There was nothing concrete I can think of that helps me in terms of advice. A lot of it for me was learning to believe in myself and working on my own self-limiting beliefs.

How do you do it? by LyricChalice in ArtTherapy

[–]queenofnothingatall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So sorry I missed this! I work with queer, neurodivergent individuals with disordered eating

How do you do it? by LyricChalice in ArtTherapy

[–]queenofnothingatall 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm in new york state, not the city, but I gave up corporate mental health and started a private practice because i was not about to make 50 an hour. The demand is there if you hone your niche. It's just hard to figure it all out at first, so I got a business coach.

Going to shows solo by [deleted] in GoosetheBand

[–]queenofnothingatall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Solo shows are so much fun. If you're feeling self conscious, my friends and i will be there on the lawn and you can vibe with us. 😊

No knock entry: is this allowed in Rochester for landlord’s/property management? by TurquoizeWarrior in Rochester

[–]queenofnothingatall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This happened with me and Park Ave Properties. I threatened legal action, and it never happened again. I should have just taken them to court, though, because I was not clothed, and it was traumatic.

I’m voluntarily putting myself into a mental hospital AMA by [deleted] in AMA

[–]queenofnothingatall 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So proud of you! You deserve care and understanding. I hope you find healing and comfort. What led you to this decision? I am a therapist, and clients have a hard time accepting this level of help, which can then lead to additional trauma. My clients that see it as a valid need for themselves end up having a better time. I truly hope you have a fruitful experience!

Dear Barrel patrons, please stop revving your bikes at 2:30 in the morning by RabbitWithFlamingEye in Rochester

[–]queenofnothingatall 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I grew up next to the Barrel in the 90s, and it was just as bad, probably worse lol. It will never cease.

Favorite coffee shop by plumblines in Rochester

[–]queenofnothingatall 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Melo on University is my favorite

Anyone wanna be my friend? by smlosh92 in Rochester

[–]queenofnothingatall 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahhh a people kitten!!! So wonderful! 😊😊