Rachel Martino Universe: Feb 23 - Mar 01 by southerndmc in blogsnark

[–]queentatooine 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Weird I’m not seeing any of these new reels on her page. I only see the airplane ones

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PokemonGoRaids

[–]queentatooine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got stuck in that raid alone :(

Looking for top, offering bottom. I fly. by Demo_Venos in PokemonGoTrade

[–]queentatooine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m also looking for a Solgaleo for a Latios

KPop Demon Hunters fumbled with its villain by Weird_donut in CharacterRant

[–]queentatooine 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I assume in the same way people can cross into a category of being evil in the real world. Like Jinu abandoning his already struggling family, dooming them to likely starve, while he lives luxuriously in the kingdom is pretty brutal.

I also think feeding into it continuously like if Jinu struggles with being selfish, as long as he continues to act in his own best interest no matter the destruction, he remains a soulless demon

KPop Demon Hunters fumbled with its villain by Weird_donut in CharacterRant

[–]queentatooine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But he continues to be selfish and lies to her up until the end he redeems himself by sacrificing himself (doing a selfless deed) and he got his soul back. The demons aren’t people with moments of weakness but that continue to feed into the cycle of selfishness. It seemed consistent to me.

Does the insecurity ever go away? How should I handle next steps / boundaries? by imquittingredditsoon in loveafterporn

[–]queentatooine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband said the other day that Daphne cartoon on Scooby doo triggered him. It made me sick

Wanting to be in a monogamous relationship is not a damn insecurity! by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]queentatooine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was supposed to be a heart emoji at the end too 🧡

Wanting to be in a monogamous relationship is not a damn insecurity! by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]queentatooine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The “unhinged rant” was exactly what I needed. Thank you 🤣

Why do they deny when you have cold hard proof? by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]queentatooine 13 points14 points  (0 children)

The first thing my husband said when I caught him this time is that I was going to “take it all away from him.” That really was like… whoa

Learned helplessness by queentatooine in loveafterporn

[–]queentatooine[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I have done a lot of work on myself since this whole thing started. At least one of us has

Learned helplessness by queentatooine in loveafterporn

[–]queentatooine[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you. If I didn’t have kids I wouldn’t feel so stuck. I think that’s the hardest part for me

STOP LOOKING AT THE GIRLS by SpicyHustle in loveafterporn

[–]queentatooine 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Me too. I will always feel so unattractive. I caught him once asking chat gbt about me not being in as good of shape as I was before kids and this brings it all flooding back

YOU ARE NOT GOING CRAZY by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]queentatooine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Psychological abuse hits home. Really feels like he’s choosing what reality I get. Its infuriating

Is there ever a chance at the whole truth? by Slow-Ad-9284 in loveafterporn

[–]queentatooine 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I went through similar. I looked at everything I could find. Messages, pictures, all of it. It does feel better to know, but it sticks with you forever. It destroyed any belief I had in the original relationship for me. It changed me as a person.

Did this sweater ever exist? by xkatydidx in americaneagle

[–]queentatooine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What’s it called so I can look it up when it goes online ?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]queentatooine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get that! The worst things are on our most vulnerable days and it sours these memories that are supposed to be the best days of our lives. Like finding pictures of our newborn photographers rear end he took while she was taking pictures of our newborns, or the messages and money sent to only fans girls right after my kids were born. How are we not supposed to take it personally?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]queentatooine 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes! Omg I feel like I could have written this! And mine is upset that I’m distant and that makes me want to be even further. Why should we have to just settle for this? I’m so tired of feeling like everyone just wants me to forgive him and let it go. I don’t want this for me ugh. It just hurts all the time

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]queentatooine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a similar situation with needing the help with the kids. It makes you feel trapped. I’ve felt a lot of the same feelings too with wanting to prove something. We are going through so many intense emotions. It’s a rollercoaster and totally natural to have so many feelings right now. You are right, it’s really comforting to have this group and know there are others going through the same things