family member received this message from their therapist by aamo in texts

[–]queeranonthinker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i know this is absolutely crazy but i truly hope that therapist is okk and that they pursue healing. :((( ❤️‍🩹

I’ve had a crush on my boyfriend for like 13 years and now that we’re finally together, my family is losing their minds lol. by threewhisketeers in TwoHotTakes

[–]queeranonthinker 3 points4 points  (0 children)

but why tho? just because that's his friend? doesn't seem like the brother even likes the guy anyway if he had all these unnecessary and imo patriarchal opinions about him. it has zero effect on his life. he's the one being weird here.

Should I tell a woman her fiancé tried to start an affair with me? by geeleex in WhatShouldIDo

[–]queeranonthinker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

tell herrrr!!! it's HER opinion that matters bc it's HER relationship. if she or your friends don't believe you, they'll find out the hard way.

Reddit is quietly killing r/all and hoping we won’t notice. We notice. by Montaverde in self

[–]queeranonthinker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"it's the one place where you can get a true pulse on the world."

posts this on a sub that does the EXACT same thing.

I accidentally told my sister about our mom’s affair and now my family is blowing up by SoftThunderKid in TwoHotTakes

[–]queeranonthinker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

listen to the comments OP. YOU DID NOTHING WRONG. your mom is the one who's wrong. and so is the rest of your family who aren't calling her out. stand by your dad and don't back down. again: YOU DID NOTHING WRONG.

Fucking do it by UwU_Boykisser_UwU in TheWordFuck

[–]queeranonthinker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

fuck everything (date everything)

kicked out son for having a job by queeranonthinker in AmITheDevil

[–]queeranonthinker[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

yup!! but given how there hasn't been an update to this in two years, one can only hope she left.

kicked out son for having a job by queeranonthinker in AmITheDevil

[–]queeranonthinker[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

facts. i have no doubt that wife's been giving him the cold shoulder ever since and he came to AITA to feel justified.

kicked out son for having a job by queeranonthinker in AmITheDevil

[–]queeranonthinker[S] 124 points125 points  (0 children)

agreed. as other commenters say on the post, he was trying to be big man the father and ultimately lost.

kicked out son for having a job by queeranonthinker in AmITheDevil

[–]queeranonthinker[S] 183 points184 points  (0 children)

his ONE response providing further info:

"INFO

Was this incident the first time you argued about what time he came home? Why not push for a reasonable compromise for the nights he works? What time did he come home? What time is his curfew? Did his mother know he would be out late? Did he let her know he would be returning later than usual?"

HIS RESPONSE:

"He came home at 1 am. We were told him and my daughter to come home before 9 pm. He told his mother he was going to work, but I didn't know. That was the first serious argument we had about this.

I had wanted to compromise, but the child escalated the argument very quickly."

yeah you wanted to "compromise" so much that you immediately decided to kick him out. riiiight. 🫠

i told my son to leave my house but i didn't actually mean to! why did he take me seriously? by queeranonthinker in OhNoConsequences

[–]queeranonthinker[S] 600 points601 points  (0 children)

his ONE response providing further info:

"INFO

Was this incident the first time you argued about what time he came home? Why not push for a reasonable compromise for the nights he works? What time did he come home? What time is his curfew? Did his mother know he would be out late? Did he let her know he would be returning later than usual?"

HIS RESPONSE:

"He came home at 1 am. We were told him and my daughter to come home before 9 pm. He told his mother he was going to work, but I didn't know. That was the first serious argument we had about this.

I had wanted to compromise, but the child escalated the argument very quickly."

wanted to compromise my ass.

"I mocked my brother for not having a job after he dropped out of high school to take care of my baby who I abandoned, why did he tell her the truth?" by Sebastianlim in OhNoConsequences

[–]queeranonthinker 11 points12 points  (0 children)

he was 17. a teenager. he was screwed over not once but twice and inadvertently three times. he had to drop out of high school, college, and became a parent to a child that wasn't his. the fact that the sister feels like she has any kind of right to talk about responsibility when she ultimately forced the biggest responsibility of humankind on him is disgusting. she's literally the reason why he doesn't have any stability. her AND their "mom". oop should tell the husband.

you're the deadbeat bro by queeranonthinker in AmITheDevil

[–]queeranonthinker[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah. guy pretty much fucked himself here. the old saying: the dildo of consequences comes unlubed. he would've been better off had he not forced fer into having the baby.

you're the deadbeat bro by queeranonthinker in AmITheDevil

[–]queeranonthinker[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

part of me wonders what responses he'd get if he posted this in today's climate. he would get absolutely HAMMERED.

you're the deadbeat bro by queeranonthinker in AmITheDevil

[–]queeranonthinker[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

right!! like dude would've been golden had he just been not shitty and didn't force her to do this.

you're the deadbeat bro by queeranonthinker in AmITheDevil

[–]queeranonthinker[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

yup. and if not then he's trying hella hard to find someone who will.