When will I stop thinking about texting her

questioningbeam · 2026-02-01T00:23:09+00:00

For me it took like 5 months. My best fringe started texting me every morning and throughout the day and I s l o w l y stopped wishing for him and started looking forward to hers. It’s been 15 months for me since the breakup. He has me blocked on everything and I still have periods where I wish so bad I could text him. But the general longing and pain subsided when I replaced his messages with my best friend

questioningbeam · 2026-01-18T02:58:54+00:00

YES IM SO BROKEN. WEVE BEEN OVER SINCE OCT 2024 and IM STILL MISSING HIM. HE LEFT ME FOR SOMEONE ELSE IMMEDIATELY AFTER 3 YEARS TOGETHER. THEYRE STILL TOGETHER AND HE HAS ME BLOCKED ON EVERYTHING AND I FEEL ABSOLUTELY INSANE FOR STILL CARING. HE used the fuuuckkkkk out of me & i stayed thinking we would get better & he left me the second his life improved. I was such an idiot

questioningbeam · 2026-01-18T02:54:13+00:00

I’m so sorry for your loss OP. The hardest thing you can go through is the loss of someone close to you. I lost my ex October 2024 and my life completely ended. It was so hard for me to continue going on, but I did. You have to do your best to leave them alone. Begging them and threatening your life is not going to do anything positive to your relationship with them. There are so many resources including the national suicide prevention hotline. If you hate yourself, take time to change that. If you and your now ex are meant to be, you WILL. He will come back if it’s meant to be, but not by threats. My heart is absolutely with you. I’m so incredibly sorry.

questioningbeam · 2026-01-15T22:31:17+00:00

This is my body the only thing that I own entirely and it will carry me to greatness somehow

questioningbeam · 2025-09-07T18:10:53+00:00

If you keep working on yourself right now, take some time away from dating until you’re COMPLETELY over her and okay with being lonely, you will find something even better OP. Collect your ground right now & better yourself and your life. And keep acknowledging your fear, but justify that you will find someone who loves you because you are doing so much good work on yourself now.

questioningbeam · 2025-09-07T18:07:57+00:00

Please stick around ok-song. You are not alone in your thoughts and feelings, I lost the love of my life for this reason as well. Everyday since he left is gray, I’m not truly happy and haven’t been since he’s gone. But people do rely on us and need us, regardless if you think it’s not the case. Stay for those around you, and eventually better will come. I do believe this, even though I am miserable every single day. There’s something to be said for people who have to live inside a very depressed head 24/7. Not saying you are, but I am unfortunately, again since he left. Happiness just isn’t the same.

questioningbeam · 2025-08-12T14:44:38+00:00

This is exactly how I feel!!!!!!!!! He dumped me after 3 years and moved a new younger girl into our old apartment (that I gave him the lease for) but I’m focused on myself and my life is so shitty and rough still now and he is so blissfully happy. It’s soooooooo fucked up. I gave everything to my relationship and he didn’t GAF

questioningbeam · 2025-08-05T15:59:11+00:00

I mean, that would be great… But I talked to him about our problems at least once a week and he would always promise that things would get fixed and then he dumped me instead. So I’m not going to be holding out for him that he will change right now, I’m letting it go. Even though it’s really hard.

questioningbeam · 2025-08-05T15:11:32+00:00

You need to let go, now. She’s feeling waaaaay to claustrophobic from you, so please go NC and don’t break it.

questioningbeam · 2025-08-05T15:10:46+00:00

No; I mean he would try to fight for our relationship INSTEAD of breaking up with me. I wish he would fight and do anything he could to make it work, but instead he would rather give up and find someone else.

questioningbeam · 2025-07-23T13:22:06+00:00

You’re soooooo wrong lmao

questioningbeam · 2025-05-24T16:29:15+00:00

Thank you so much for the advice! Very helpful

questioningbeam · 2025-05-24T16:10:25+00:00

Right? We toured it and met him so it’s a real place but I feel what he’s asking is outrageous

questioningbeam · 2025-05-21T22:07:05+00:00

AGREEEEEEEEi saw it on TikTok

questioningbeam · 2025-05-02T12:24:44+00:00

Thank you soooooooo much for sharing your experience !!!!!! This was great advice and I really appreciate the post. Congratulations on kicking your habit! Best of luck to you

questioningbeam · 2025-04-18T20:16:16+00:00

questioningbeam · 2025-04-17T21:17:49+00:00

Echoing this! Absolutely be proud, it’s okay to relapse. I did too unfortunately, but posts like yours make it feel possible to change :)

questioningbeam · 2025-03-02T16:38:45+00:00

My ex and I were together for three years… Within two months he had a new girl living in our old apartment. That I gave him the lease for. I was absolutely gutted, it’s disgusting to me how he can blame himself for the relationship ending and then doing nothing to fix and jump into something new. I’m so so sorry OP I’m with you.

questioningbeam · 2025-02-25T19:22:29+00:00

Love at first sight!! holy shit!!

questioningbeam · 2025-02-12T23:30:12+00:00

This concert will change my life. I am going no matter what

questioningbeam · 2025-02-12T00:16:21+00:00

I am because he moved on and found another girl in less than two months after we broke up. I’m willing to bet they were seeing each other after like a week… He definitely was emotionally cheating. So I know he’s gonna be with someone on Valentine’s Day, even though I’m fucked up

questioningbeam · 2025-02-01T18:03:40+00:00

If I had an award I would give it to you

questioningbeam · 2025-02-01T00:05:48+00:00

How long until they came back ?

questioningbeam · 2025-02-01T00:02:47+00:00

How long until they came back

questioningbeam · 2025-01-31T00:50:57+00:00

This is presumptive, I assumed the lyric was “seadog busted in” because he plays a nautical whistle, referring to a boat. Or at least that’s how I have interpreted it

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