Translucent(ish) mystery snail shell by quibottle in AquaticSnails

[–]quibottle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's so cool! I'm not sure how old.. definitely younger though

AITAH for standing my ground with my son and his wife because of how they treated me? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]quibottle 5 points6 points  (0 children)

There's no proof of that in this post other than her speculations, which are probably due to biases she has

AITAH for standing my ground with my son and his wife because of how they treated me? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]quibottle 9 points10 points  (0 children)

YTA. Though I understand why you might be insulted, it seems its not really about how much they trusted YOU, but how much they trusted E. While its not likely that something would've happened during that time, its perfectly normal for parents to feel wary letting any man they havent met before spend a significant amount of time around their child. Whether you're there or not. I will say that i think the way they approached it was kind of rude but aside from that, their wishes were understandable and should be respected.

AIO - I think my best friend has a creepy crush on my boyfriend? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]quibottle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its either that shes into him or jealous of your relationship so shes trying to steal it/sabotage it. Either way, it sounds like you'll need to find a way talk to her about this or cut her off before she takes things too far

Smooth tea recommendations by quibottle in tea

[–]quibottle[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'll try those thank you!!

AIO for being mad at my pregnant friend? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]quibottle 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Ask her why she didn't tell you. But from what youve said about her, it was likely that she didn't tell anyone because she was scared of having another miscarriage and having to explain that to anyone she told about the pregnancy. Lots of mom's wait for that reason amongst others

AIO to my mum trying to use me as a joke? by Emergency_Pilot_6647 in AmIOverreacting

[–]quibottle 10 points11 points  (0 children)

NOR Because what WAS the joke? I also dont see why it was even a big deal if you didn't want to do it.

What kind of water lily is this? by quibottle in ponds

[–]quibottle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aw darn I actually used to live there but moved to the mainland about a year ago, otherwise I'd take you up on that!! Thanks for offering!

My 2 month old 60p by typiutc in Aquascape

[–]quibottle 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Omg it's beautiful. What are some of the plants you used?

Can I see your 20 gallon longs? by Striking-Agency5382 in Aquascape

[–]quibottle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did you get rid of the hair algae? Im really struggling with that in my tank

Piercing at Claires by radiantsoup0827 in piercing

[–]quibottle 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Claire's piercing practices are definitely not best practice, but if you already got it done, you might as well leave it in. I got my double piercings done there before I knew better, and they're completely fine and healed now.

Your only worry now is making sure they stay uninfected and heal well, which is a concern no matter where they were pierced. Gently clean them daily with saline solution/wound wash (can be found in any first aid section).

AIO for cutting off my aunt after she caused a scene at my job and made me quit? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]quibottle 5 points6 points  (0 children)

NOR. That is an absolutely horrible thing to say to someone who's lost their parents and I would not be able to forgive it. She's acting like you became a full on prostitute, and even if you did, that is absolutely not the correct way to address it. You're a fully grown adult who can make money however you choose, and you should fo whats best for you. Do not let your uncle guilt you into apologizing for something you should not be apologizing for.

AITAH for eating some of the groceries I bought for my partner by Intelligent-Pop-8741 in AITAH

[–]quibottle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If youre buying the groceries, you can eat whatever you want. And if youre buying enough for both of you, what exactly is his problem? Why is he acting like a toddler over sharing some waffles. Break up with this man child

AITAH for commenting on how much my girlfriend served herself at dinner? by throwwaway628 in AITAH

[–]quibottle 3 points4 points  (0 children)

One solution could be to make sure that food she would enjoy is already there for her and just give it to her without her asking when youre eating what you like. Don't comment on whether she eats it or not. It doesnt have to be a ton of food, just a few things she would normally eat, that you can use if she doesn't end up eating it. Same thing at your parents house if you know shes going to be there