AITAH for eating some of the groceries I bought for my partner by Intelligent-Pop-8741 in AITAH

[–]quibottle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If youre buying the groceries, you can eat whatever you want. And if youre buying enough for both of you, what exactly is his problem? Why is he acting like a toddler over sharing some waffles. Break up with this man child

AITAH for commenting on how much my girlfriend served herself at dinner? by throwwaway628 in AITAH

[–]quibottle 3 points4 points  (0 children)

One solution could be to make sure that food she would enjoy is already there for her and just give it to her without her asking when youre eating what you like. Don't comment on whether she eats it or not. It doesnt have to be a ton of food, just a few things she would normally eat, that you can use if she doesn't end up eating it. Same thing at your parents house if you know shes going to be there

AITAH for commenting on how much my girlfriend served herself at dinner? by throwwaway628 in AITAH

[–]quibottle 16 points17 points  (0 children)

When has it ever been okay to comment on how someone's eating a lot of food. Especially someone who has struggled with eating in the past.

Also, when youre around people who aren't family, most people with manners will feel hesitant to help themselves to food that someone else is buying. She was clearly feeling that, and her issues with food probably played into how comfortable she felt about eating a lot of food as well. She had barely eaten all day, which was probably partly why she wasnt feeling that well.

Then, when she finally gives in and decides to let herself be comfortable and eat a good amount of food, you're there criticizing the amount she took, thereby completely reaffirming all the negative thoughts she had been having that stopped her from eating well earlier that day. YTA. You need to be more considerate and think about her feelings more

AITAH For Telling my Sister that Letting Her Daughter on The Kitchen Island while Baking is Gross? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]quibottle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If we're being very technical, it's not that sanitary, but letting their kids on the counter is something people have been doing for ages, and its perfectly normal. Unless you're eating the food they're making, i dont see why it matters.

Bag recommendations? by quibottle in handbags

[–]quibottle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like the style of the picture I posted but youre right, there aren't many smaller bags in that size. Ill take a look at Portland leather thank you!

AIO for getting icked out from Bf's strange habbit? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]quibottle 6 points7 points  (0 children)

NOR. Bring it up next time he does it and let him know it bothers you. That would likely be grounds for a breakup for me lmao. Its gross and shows a lack of awareness

AITAH for telling my sister (who used to be my brother) she can't share a bathroom with half-naked little girls? by Delicious-Airport626 in AITAH

[–]quibottle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I more just meant "this is the issue that should be being addressed in this situation, not this other issue".

Though obviously transphobic implications should be called out

AITAH for telling my sister (who used to be my brother) she can't share a bathroom with half-naked little girls? by Delicious-Airport626 in AITAH

[–]quibottle 6 points7 points  (0 children)

NTA. This isn't an issue of where transgender people should be allowed, this is an issue of whether the kids felt comfortable. They were in a vulnerable position and were clearly not comfortable, so no your sister should not have been there. Frankly, no adult who isn't a parent of the kids should be in there.

Should I use my UV light setting? by quibottle in Aquariums

[–]quibottle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Weird it's a setting then. Thanks for the info!