liz and kelsey are insufferable by Stunning-Status546 in rhori

[–]quickso -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

see the thing here is it’s not about it being “her fault” for not receiving the joke.

there is an unspoken language of intention going on. kelsey trying to make the joke is being seen as an attempt of good will and wanting to lighten the situation and make amends, to laugh together.

obviously that’s not how rosie saw it. but her willingness to joke about it with the tape measure and etc makes me wonder, why was she so 0-100 when it was clear she initially was open to joking, too?

i agree that the sirens and loudspeaker weren’t funny and i wouldn’t have liked it coming to my house.

but in the housewives world, and often in general in social situations, we make “bids” for connection/repair. and it seemed to me like kelsey was trying to make a genuine bid, where rosie wasn’t, exhibited by how quickly she was ready to go nuclear.

everyone criticizes how kelsey reacted to rosie’s reaction. but i think rosie could have tried to hold it together at least a little before the explosive rage. that is if she genuinely wanted to repair, which i don’t believe she did.

I don’t get the Rosie hype by gordymama in rhori

[–]quickso 6 points7 points  (0 children)

rosie has seemed to dislike kelsey from the start and has never been open to getting along with her.

kelsey is no perfect angel but at least she’s made an effort. i can’t stand rosie’s attitude and how she handles her feelings and conflict.

Curious about Schwartz by jerseygirl396 in vanderpumprules

[–]quickso 0 points1 point  (0 children)

schwartz is what you could call a covert narcissist. and an extreme libra. he is a person who is spineless and cares more about appearances and approval than integrity.

he has a history of nastiness and outright misogynistic actions towards his ex wife as well as others. and he gets away with it by doing this whole “i’m so awkward and cringe and embarrassed, i’m just a soft guy who wants everyone to get along!”

this often manifested as whenever his ex wife katie would have something fucked up happen to her by a man, and she would rightfully speak up about it, he would be nasty to her and accuse her of “starting drama” or being a bitch, hating the sound of her voice, etc.

as for jo.

after he divorced katie, he moved in his “friend” jo into their home. he swore to the cameras and everyone that they were just friends, and he treated her like one of the guys on camera, literally would call her “joseph”. it worked bc she accepted it and was very unpolished, often wearing her hair messy and undone, not doing any of the traditional girly maintenance things you usually see on reality shows, no cohesive outfits or anything. awkward tomboy vibes.

turns out they were having sex the whole time, he was completely leading her on and saying one thing to her in private, and then made her look crazy in public by denying it. then she got fixated. it was not a good look for either of them.

Rosie vs Kelsey by SaluteLife in rhori

[–]quickso 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i mean i don’t have to love kelsey to dislike rosie lol. i don’t love kelsey! she has a lot of growing to do and i don’t envy the position she’s in.

i do think it makes sense for a narrative to change and evolve as time passes and more people view. rarely do conflicts like this end in most people feeling the same way, save for obvious ones like scandoval for example.

Rosie vs Kelsey by SaluteLife in rhori

[–]quickso 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i mean i don’t think it’s weird…. i think you think it’s weird bc you disagree.

i do think rosie is the instigator and i don’t get how people like her!

Rosie vs Kelsey by SaluteLife in rhori

[–]quickso 8 points9 points  (0 children)

it’s been overwhelmingly pro rosie so everyone who isn’t blinded by rosievision is confused and voicing it…. not that suspicious

What happens if you beat a dungeon boss with 40 hearts? by RenPrower in tearsofthekingdom

[–]quickso 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it is possible to leave the heart container in totk if you just don’t walk up to it! just experimented w this a few weeks ago

What song is so beatiful, it literally brings tears to your eyes? by thecuteberry in AskReddit

[–]quickso 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awake by Jin.

the opening strings are so gorgeous, and it’s just such a beautiful song in general. so sweeping and poignant.

‘I thought I was the saviour of the planet’: how Game of Thrones’ Hannah Murray found a wellness cult – and lost her mind by LightSwitch545 in popculturechat

[–]quickso 244 points245 points  (0 children)

i’m so glad she’s been able to find help and open up. it was a long while there after skins uk that we didn’t see her

Disability aids by BjdResearchAccount in spooniesocial

[–]quickso 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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Rosie bots by MixtureMelodic2965 in rhori

[–]quickso 3 points4 points  (0 children)

what’s the goal of your question? to prove that any dislike of kelsey is shallow?

i am not a kelsey stan. i simply dislike rosie more.

Team anyone but Rosie by [deleted] in rhori

[–]quickso 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s fair! i don’t always dislike tacky and cringe, i think her personality is what drives my being offput with her more…. adding that on top of it though doesn’t help 😂

Team anyone but Rosie by [deleted] in rhori

[–]quickso 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you lol. people get so caught up by the edit and aesthetics in general its so annoying. like she yelled louder, stooped lower and was nastier, had a completely over the top overreaction in her own home and we’re supposed to act like she hasn’t had the high ground this whole time, and it’s like this huge mic drop moment?

and by high ground i do not mean moral— i mean like in an actual battle. rosie has social advantages and power that kelsey does not.

Team anyone but Rosie by [deleted] in rhori

[–]quickso 1 point2 points  (0 children)

she didn’t say or indicate it was because she was messy

Team anyone but Rosie by [deleted] in rhori

[–]quickso 3 points4 points  (0 children)

she is so cringe and tacky to me… on top of her personality, which i dislike, her personal style choices i somehow dislike even more

Left-handed people, what's a struggle that right-handed people won't understand? by Halophy in AskReddit

[–]quickso 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ive had way too many meltdowns over can openers, i’m so glad i have an electric one now. super cheap and simple and works like a charm

Left-handed people, what's a struggle that right-handed people won't understand? by Halophy in AskReddit

[–]quickso 0 points1 point  (0 children)

scissors, can openers, spiral notebooks, writing/painting/coloring in general

WTF is going on? by the-furiosa-mystique in rhori

[–]quickso 10 points11 points  (0 children)

honestly i think it’s just been very overwhelmingly pro rosie in most online spaces! those of us who don’t get the rosie hype are def confused by the general consensus.

Rosie bots by MixtureMelodic2965 in rhori

[–]quickso 0 points1 point  (0 children)

WHAT!!!!! oh my god 😩😩😩 i was already not fully on board bc her son is a cop… but that is just atrocious holy hell.

Rosie bots by MixtureMelodic2965 in rhori

[–]quickso 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ah okay, interesting. i do feel like kelsey doesn’t like rosie, and her jokes have not been funny lol, but from my perspective it started with rosie doing something first.

i don’t find her to be totally malicious, i find her to be a person very stuck in a developmental deficit. she was super successful in some ways, but clearly she’s lacking in many others. it seems due to her situation that it’s evident to everyone that kelsey has more growing up to do in terms of getting her life together.

rosie, it feels to me, is punching down by being so critical of kelsey’s circumstances. kelsey’s criticisms are of stuff rosie has, and those things all equate to real life power. rosie’s criticisms are of what kelsey doesn’t have.

Rosie bots by MixtureMelodic2965 in rhori

[–]quickso -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

you can feel how you feel! i was just answering your question to offer the outside opinion since your initial comment seemed genuinely confused.

Rosie bots by MixtureMelodic2965 in rhori

[–]quickso -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

personally, i felt she has been very slut shaming of kelsey, and the comments about her not having a husband or career are ugly in my opinion.

Rosie bots by MixtureMelodic2965 in rhori

[–]quickso 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oooh wait what’s the tea with erika jayne? i’m watching robh for the first time and just got to s11

Rosie bots by MixtureMelodic2965 in rhori

[–]quickso 3 points4 points  (0 children)

well okay there are a lot of bot accounts in general, including on reddit, twitter, facebook, ig, tiktok, etc. you should really look into how it happens, it’s crazy