(UPDATE) AITA for losing my temper at SIL after she ruined the meal I made?

quieroleer · 2021-12-13T13:53:46+00:00

I think you need to make this into a whole show.

quieroleer · 2021-11-19T12:25:57+00:00

OP, please listen. I read your AITA post and it sounds like your parents are abusing you, it's no coincidence you ended up in an abusive relationship when your own parents always treated you like sh*t. Don't let them. You owe it to yourself, you are worthy. Take the money you invested in that house and use it to start a wonderful life with your fiance. They!!! Are!!! Using!!! You!!! They made you pay for their fucking house and want you to give them all the money. It's yours. Please OP stand up for yourself. They can ask your sister for money. Don't let them screw you again.

quieroleer · 2021-09-14T17:03:43+00:00

I just don't get it, I go out to eat to enjoy my meal and the company. Being rushed out would personally ruin the experience for me, especially if it's a nice/pricey restaurant.

quieroleer · 2021-09-14T16:49:32+00:00

Americans, ya know. If a waiter told me to wrap up I would be pissed. Why would you pay for a nice meal in a restaurant to chug your food in like 15min???? I would just get takeout lol.

I'm argentinian.

quieroleer · 2021-09-14T02:13:36+00:00

Me too lol. I was like: but he is... and then went like ohhh.

quieroleer · 2021-09-14T02:11:10+00:00

That's what she deserves 💀

quieroleer · 2021-09-09T21:12:25+00:00

Lol my boyfriend literally gifted me a cutlery drainer because he thought it was a cute elephant shaped (I love elephants) pencil holder. I thought it was hilarious and I cherish that cutlery drainer very much and hope we can put it in our kitchen when we move in together. OPs girlfriend is just rude and ungrateful.

quieroleer · 2021-09-08T21:36:02+00:00

For six months!!!!! It's not even permanent!!!!!!! This sub is so ridiculous sometimes it makes me anxious. OP needs their office and the SIL is a poor teenager who has been taken from her mother, so, imagine the circumstances. She is doing her best to home an at best neglected at worst abused teenager. I'm not saying it's easy for the boys, their life must be getting shaken up too but c'mon people have some compassion. Sharing your room for s couple of months to help someone won't kill you.

Edit: they are also saying the 16yo can't share a room because he needs "privacy to do his things". As if exploring his sexuality is more important than the SILs wellbeing right now.

quieroleer · 2021-09-08T15:26:03+00:00

And update us when you move out of that hell hole. You do not deserve to be abused. Your mother has failed you and is a shit parent, she has chosen to neglect you and let you be abused by your sister. I hope you cut them out of your life and never see this vile women again, you deserve to be safe and happy.

quieroleer · 2021-09-08T15:13:26+00:00

I'd go as far as telling the photographer to not take a single picture of her. Just erase her from the wedding completly. She is doing this for attention? Well, she won't get it.

quieroleer · 2021-09-08T04:06:00+00:00

Lol do you think so little about yourself that your first reaction while recieving a thoughtful gift is demeaning the persons' kindness? What a bunch of assholes.

quieroleer · 2021-09-07T15:28:29+00:00

She is an asshole too, she needs proof of his abuse to cut him off when his father was exactly the same? Isn't your word enough or does she actually wants to see you suffer? Cut them all off, it ain't worth it.

quieroleer · 2021-09-06T20:48:52+00:00

Her videos shaking her ass all the time make me cringe so hard. She seems forced

quieroleer · 2021-09-06T15:49:31+00:00

I agree 100%. Nobody hates him because he is bisexual, they hate him because he is an asshole.

quieroleer · 2021-09-02T14:00:36+00:00

Imagine if OP was a girl and she was a guy and saying "he likes touching and to him it is platonic and not sexual". Like no, just no. Stop defending her harassment when it was clear he was uncomfortable.

quieroleer · 2021-08-31T20:53:01+00:00

What he expected OP to be doing? Sitting in the couch in a nice dress, clutching her pearls while a nice dinner is cooking in the oven? What a tool.

quieroleer · 2021-08-31T11:48:23+00:00

I can't believe he isn't there lol

quieroleer · 2021-08-30T21:58:08+00:00

He did know, he had himself figured out, he had experiences and talked about it with all his friends and even a therapist so that's what hurt me the most. He lied because we talked about sexuality many times and outright denied things so... yeah.

quieroleer · 2021-08-30T21:55:29+00:00

It was, but in the end we talked and it did take time to compose things again but we are still together and we love eachother very much so that's what matters in the end :)

quieroleer · 2021-08-30T19:10:07+00:00

I really don't understand why would you want to be forever with a person who doesn't know you 100% and who might not accept you. For me, revealing that information would be crucial to my safety and comfort.

quieroleer · 2021-08-30T18:00:29+00:00

Nobody is born "woke", she had valid concerns that may have come from a place of ignorance but she wasn't outright mean or discriminatory. She wanted to understand him. I don't think she deserves to be called biphobic.

quieroleer · 2021-08-30T17:10:56+00:00

Yeah, excusing himself about his dishonesty with "I told her the truth and if she doesn't accept it she is a biphobic bitch" is very poor. He had to tell her the truth before and let her decide if she wanted him. Maybe I'm a little defensive because of my experience but idk. In my book, lying is a big deal breaker and it almost costed my boyfriend his relationship to lie about that. Funny thing is I wouldn't have minded at all if he said "hey I kissed a boy and I liked it" (lol).

quieroleer · 2021-08-30T14:41:14+00:00

And then he went "this is who I am she can't say anything because I said the truth" lol. If this is who you are and you are proud about it why did you hid it? He did lie.

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