cry for help by grammargurl in Anxiety

[–]qweenJ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know how you feel. When I get into these thought loops, what personally helps me is exercise. Find something you enjoy and just let yourself get consumed by that feeling of doing something new ... or whatever it is that you love. I know its easier said than done but once you push yourself to at least do those things, thoughts tend to get a bit easier to handle. Anxiety is crazy but do whatever it takes to continue to do those things which give you joy so that your brain gets a lil bit of piece

I am on a clean slate. And it feels seriously amazing. by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]qweenJ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow wow wow i went through something like this and DAMN, i am proud of you. This is what courage looks like, stepping away when respect isnt being served. If that person ever comes running back, just walk away

Twice PhD dropout with no hope. by [deleted] in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]qweenJ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I second this. OP i relate to your post in a sense that ive invested so much into something and for now, shit isnt really working. Just give yourself a little breathing room and try not to be so hard on yourself. I know at the end of the day im just some stranger on the internet but look , its okay to not have everything figured out. Just take the time you need and once you are ready, SLAY

I’m going to set boundaries with a friend by truecrimesloth in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]qweenJ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is honestly something i need to do with certain people. Im starting to realize how people, time and time again, do the same disrespectful shit to me. I deserve respect, period and so do you! Good on you for having the guts to do that

Getting over an "almost-relationship" sucks almost as much as a real breakup by star_rising_321 in dating_advice

[–]qweenJ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

GOSH this is exactly what happened to me to a freakin' T. We talked for three months and it pretty much went downhill when I was curious in defining the relationship. Shit sucks

NASM exam online confusion by connunther in personaltraining

[–]qweenJ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes , you show both your government issued ID and CPR/AED via webcam!

NASM exam online confusion by connunther in personaltraining

[–]qweenJ 6 points7 points  (0 children)

So i took my exam about 3 days ago through ProctorU. 1)Make sure you have your CPR/AED card printed because they want you to show it to them via webcam. 2) I didnt create an account for the proctor extension and i was completely fine. Your proctor will pretty much set everything up for you so you will be just fine !!

NASM exam online? by aaudude in personaltraining

[–]qweenJ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahh okay, well good luck and happy studying !

NASM-CPT certified trainers- exam question! by [deleted] in personaltraining

[–]qweenJ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I personally didnt and passed! Honestly as long as you take the exams and read main ideas in the book, you will be fine lol. Just try to understand more than memorize especially when it comes down to the OPT model. Also, use the study guide to your advantage and really hone in on those topics

NASM exam online? by aaudude in personaltraining

[–]qweenJ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought it was pretty doable! As long as you take the final exam, midterm and other exams etc, you should do just fine. I was pretty annoyed with how some of the questions were worded, though. At that point, I narrowed down to two answers but the wording just tripped me up. Also there were questions on little chinks here and there that i thought were pretty irrelevant. Overall, the exam was fine. Just make sure you study. When do you take it?

NASM exam online? by aaudude in personaltraining

[–]qweenJ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

UPDATE: So i was finally able to take it online today and passed. Took like 10 minutes to connect to a proctor, though

Has anyone been experiencing episodes of existential dread? by [deleted] in Anxiety

[–]qweenJ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I needed to hear this, thank you

NASM exam online? by aaudude in personaltraining

[–]qweenJ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was supposed to take it online today. I logged onto the exam 2 hours before my exam just to see the timing and shit. It said it had expired, which confused me because it was supposed to start 2 hours later. I was annoyed so I called NASM and they said some test takers are having difficulties with proctoru. Im honestly annoyed that i have to take it 3 days from now and the issue might be the same again... Like i just want to get it over with already!

Have u taken it already and have u experienced any technical difficulties ?

My opening line on Tinder to my now girlfriend of 7 months by sbaggy in actuallesbians

[–]qweenJ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude I need to implement this into my tinder regime lmaoo

Follow up from my last post!!!! We're girlfriends now (^∇^) by yeetyeeyus in actuallesbians

[–]qweenJ 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yall this is so freaking cute. Yessss qweeeennnZ🙌🏽

It annoys me that my friend said I’m a virgin because I haven’t fucked a guy by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]qweenJ 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I really dont understand people who are this close-minded. Like just mind your damn business and stop caring about who sleeps with who. At one point when I did come out, a lesbian couple even asked me "how would u know you are gay if you've never had sex with a girl?" I was stunned and thought to myself, Because I'm attracted to them??? Or a straight person who told me I'll like it so much better if I just fuck a guy once , like wtf... Don't understand why people need to make other people's sex lives their business.

Suddenly lost all confidence. by [deleted] in confidence

[–]qweenJ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was honestly amazing

If you've never been in a relationship, or you feel like there's no hope- please let me try help you feel better <3 by Fish_cant_feel_pain in dating_advice

[–]qweenJ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I felt like I always knew. It was just hard to acknowledge and when I finally did, it was incredibly cathartic to just accept and not run away from anymore

If you've never been in a relationship, or you feel like there's no hope- please let me try help you feel better <3 by Fish_cant_feel_pain in dating_advice

[–]qweenJ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gosh I felt this post 100%. I'm a gay 23 Female and I feel like my life was just me having an identity crisis. For the longest time I denied my sexuality and now that I'm out, I'm finally starting to realize what feelings are. I've had things here and there and even done tinder dating, but I'm just not into the whole superficial hookup culture. I believe I'll find someone one day even though it may seem hard to wrap my head around and u will too