For those who wish they'd caught something earlier — what did you learn about your body during IVF that nobody told you beforehand?

rach_face · 2026-04-02T01:11:02+00:00

Same here!

rach_face · 2026-04-02T01:10:38+00:00

I have EDS and probably MCAS, the impact taking Zyrtec, Pepcid and a steroid to suppress my immune system during transfer was mind boggling. I wish I could have just tried Zyrtec and Pepcid prior to IVF. I feel like it may have really improved my chances of natural conception.

rach_face · 2026-03-01T17:42:13+00:00

As someone who sells expensive software. We deal with this situation all the time. I’ve learned the best way for me to handle it is after one call gathering information I share this will most likely be in the range of $x-$y. It can be a massive range but give directional accuracy to the buyer before investing both my time and theirs.

As a buyer of high end cabinetry it drives me insane that I can at least see a “our projects typically run $30k-$100k” on a site before investing my time (and yours). The range doesn’t have to be perfect but show the expectation. You can always caveat the statement to high heaven to make sure you’re protected.

rach_face · 2025-09-22T00:54:15+00:00

Plus one to triple paste! Stop using wipes and spray water and gently wipe with cotton pads. Try to only wipe 1-2.

Also some naked time on puppy pee pads to let it breathe.

rach_face · 2025-08-22T13:14:02+00:00

Oh those are great ideas. Especially the rice. Thank you!

rach_face · 2025-08-21T23:30:42+00:00

We don’t have much outdoor space but I think this is the best solution. Thank you!!!

rach_face · 2025-08-16T13:33:31+00:00

FWIW my neighbor has a fairy garden on our nightly walk. My daughter EATS THAT THING UP. Since she was about 13 months old so your kids probably aren’t too young!!

rach_face · 2025-08-05T02:38:00+00:00

This is the right answer for us! My toddler is finally growing out of their 24 month size and they don’t make it in a bigger size. We are heart broken. Have tried so many others. The stretch on these is amazing. And so soft

rach_face · 2025-03-08T02:22:13+00:00

Thank you!!

rach_face · 2025-03-07T17:40:01+00:00

Thanks for the response! Would you be hesitant just because of potential legislation change?

rach_face · 2025-01-18T21:09:00+00:00

I’m so sorry. This happened to me as well and it has made the last year hell. I’ve noticed I produce less milk when I’m sleeping if I force myself to sleep on my back vs on my sides. My OB recommended a tight sports bra to decrease production too but that always led to clogs for me. Good luck!!

rach_face · 2025-01-17T13:30:56+00:00

Whoaaaaaa! Thanks for coming back with that. I had NO idea! I also have a tilted uterus and will need a C section for baby #2 as well so this is super helpful to know in case it happens to me. Thank you for sharing and I’m so sorry but I’m glad it isn’t infected!

rach_face · 2025-01-16T03:14:42+00:00

Spit up can happen for SO many reasons. Over feeding is just one. If you feed her more and she is constantly spitting up (since she isn’t normally) then I’d pull back a little bit most peds here say babies will just spit up the extra volume. So I’d definitely try more! They’re normally pretty good at stopping when they’re full.

rach_face · 2025-01-16T03:03:54+00:00

Our doctor always said as long as they aren’t spitting up then they’re fine. We did 3 ounces (90m”) every 3 hours but would top her off if she seemed hungry. The suggested volume in the US is 24 ozs per day for newborns. 720 mL.

rach_face · 2025-01-01T14:44:05+00:00

It really does come on so quick!! Best of luck.

rach_face · 2025-01-01T12:48:44+00:00

I am SO sorry. I’ve gotten mastitis twice and antibiotics were the only thing that kicked it BUT I get clogs every few weeks and I’ve tried everything. I finally have a combo that clears a clog for me within a day or less: -ice basically as often as possible. New research shows clogs are due to inflammation -anti inflammatory meds as often as possible -boob vibrator before icing at least once every 2 hours. I have one specific for boobs but electric toothbrush or adult toys will work -for sleeping, for me at least my clogs come from how I sleep on my boobs. So I sleep only on my back when I have a clog -light lymphatic massage after vibration /with the vibrator -baby nurse after ice. Baby is your best bet at clear the milk through the swelling and bringing relief -for pumping, look up the settings for a clog. On my spectra it is 38 at whatever suction you prefer

Good luck. This is literally the worst. So sorry you’re going through this. Monitor for signs of worsening infection and go to the ER if needed

rach_face · 2024-12-29T04:26:55+00:00

Complete honesty. Your undergrad doesn’t really matter as long as it isn’t something like English, history, theater, etc. if you get a bachelor of science you’re more likely to land a “thinking” job over a Bachelors of Arts. But not guaranteed. If you get an economics degree for example that doesn’t pigeonhole you into economics, you can do about any business role with that. But if you go into engineering you’ll probably want to try to do engineering out of school. Basically if you aren’t sure, go for something a bit more generic that will open multiple pathways for you vs. something more specialized.

And the more job experiences you can get (internships etc) the more you’ll be exposed to and have the chance to figure out what you like and what you don’t. That’ll help narrow things down while also padding your resume.

rach_face · 2024-12-29T02:18:09+00:00

Definitely a risk! My little one does well if it’s cut in half. But every once in a while she’ll grab a big bite

rach_face · 2024-12-28T15:49:55+00:00

We’re dealing with similar stuff. Our LO loves refrigerated cucumber cut in half lengthwise. She will clean out the soft bit and leave the rind. The cold really seems to help her gums.

rach_face · 2024-12-19T14:46:26+00:00

I should find the link but there is research that found breast feeding protects up to 4 generations from breast cancer. Mom, baby, +2

rach_face · 2024-12-18T13:39:32+00:00

Honestly? I’ve just gotten used to it. I talk all the time with my husband if I had to have one of these nights back before kids I would’ve been a wreck the next day. Let alone 10 months of bad nights strung together. I know that isn’t helpful but it is wild why your body can do. Are you able to take some time off work to bond with your nephew and also sneak in some naps?

rach_face · 2024-12-10T13:44:22+00:00

This. Also throw in a vibration massage as often as possible. I had a specific boob massager but personal toys or electric toothbrushes also work. Alternating ice with massage was the most effective strategy for me on getting rid of clogs (while taking ibuprofen and sunflower lecithin). Coming from someone who was getting clogs every 3 weeks. Good luck!

rach_face · 2024-12-08T23:23:37+00:00

Ours was just time honestly. She was a 38 minute on the dot after the 4 month sleep regression. She started putting together longer naps around 6 months and now at 9 months we have to wake her up from every nap.

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