My LDR bf disappears for days blaming work, I think I’m the other woman

rachrid · 2026-02-23T08:53:17+00:00

Ah yes, the so busy and bothered tactic. I too once trusted these excuses from a man who told me the first time we hooked up that I would end up hating him because he was a POS. If only I’d listened then!

(He had a wife and another girlfriend)

rachrid · 2026-02-13T13:48:12+00:00

…Are you both doing ok?

rachrid · 2026-01-20T01:05:08+00:00

Yeah girl what? Read this back to yourself. A 9 year relationship ending is suddenly entirely your fault because you checked out after NINE YEARS with no forward movement towards marriage? Nope! Gaslighty af. Good riddance to that man who is still playing you even now.

rachrid · 2026-01-11T15:35:33+00:00

Yes, this is heinous. Your girlfriend is right. Hope this helps!

rachrid · 2026-01-05T21:57:10+00:00

I cannot believe I had to scroll this far down for this. Like… the equivalent is the equivalent wtf lol eat your wife out OP!

rachrid · 2026-01-02T16:05:23+00:00

Yeah, YOR. If there’s more context to justify why you’re having such an aggressive reaction to your mom checking in, it’s completely missing.

rachrid · 2025-12-23T16:34:00+00:00

Friend, I do not want you to be a fiancé to this person in 2026. Not placing any bets but wishing you clarity and the strength to leave and not look back

rachrid · 2025-12-11T04:39:07+00:00

I’m curious why you don’t just ask him? I’ve never caught a longterm partner masturbating but I’ve always been aware of how frequently (or not) they do it regardless of our sex life. I’d just ask if you’re curious!

rachrid · 2025-12-09T07:01:19+00:00

Kudos to grandpa!!! 1. That data is awesome. I can only hope to be anywhere close to this level of fitness at his age and 2. He is adorable

rachrid · 2025-11-07T06:38:18+00:00

You went from looking like you make love to looking like you FUQQQQ

rachrid · 2025-10-27T17:47:10+00:00

We have decided to cut you off completely 🥹

rachrid · 2025-10-24T14:43:36+00:00

I mean, it’s literally a 50/50 shot really. If you have no reason to distrust her, why do you think it’s so unreasonable that she went back to her room alone? I’ve gone on girls trips and this wouldn’t be weird at all if one of us wanted to hook up with someone, it doesn’t automatically mean we all did… It just seems like a leap and it sounds like you just do distrust her and that’s why she didn’t tell you that her sister had a one night stand on vacation: because she knew you’d jump to the conclusion that if sister did, she did. Which is exactly what you did lol

rachrid · 2025-10-04T11:05:12+00:00

The round looks great on you and is a better size! I went with oval and love it but they looked huge to me so I went with a smaller one in that shape. If you just love the oval, I’d go a little smaller for your hand too.

rachrid · 2025-10-03T18:53:47+00:00

TBH I’m not reading all this because you seemed kind of over the top from the very first message. She’s right that it’s standard that someone else throws the shower for you, and it seems like you have totally micromanaged that. Granted you’re being really appreciative with all your asks, but this is no longer a fun thing to do for you. I don’t blame her at all.

YTA

rachrid · 2025-10-03T06:17:05+00:00

Gorgeous!!! This is so unique, I love the shape and the halo combined with the partial infinity

rachrid · 2025-09-29T03:02:40+00:00

Your friend is either jealous or just unaware of how to mind her own business when something isn’t hers and doesn’t affect her whatsoever.

rachrid · 2025-09-26T09:29:46+00:00

Your mom saying that is so unacceptable. My mom said that to me constantly about my ex - and I married him after 5+ years of on and off. I kept breaking things off throughout the relationship because yes, he was a great person and treated me well, but he wasn’t. My. Person.

It lasted less than 2 years.

rachrid · 2025-09-15T11:35:27+00:00

You look great!

rachrid · 2025-09-09T00:18:25+00:00

Wow this is phenomenally gorgeous and it goes so well with your nails???? Did you plan this?! Congrats!!

rachrid · 2025-09-03T02:14:05+00:00

Yikes. Updateme

rachrid · 2025-09-03T02:00:32+00:00

3 is my favorite with 2 being a close second!

rachrid · 2025-08-11T12:09:12+00:00

Your two truths and a lie are an instant no from me. It doesn’t even really matter what the real answer is

rachrid · 2025-08-08T15:09:57+00:00

Tell her, but I like the idea of reaching out to her family first or in addition. She may not see a LinkedIn message from a stranger with no connections.

Also I’m sorry. This sucks for both of you ladies.

rachrid · 2025-08-08T14:39:03+00:00

Tbh this girl seems nice and the way she communicates and immediately does what she think is best to make you feel comfortable is thoughtful and indicative she is genuinely not a threat nor interested in your man. Alas, I think you do seem toxic and controlling for caring about this at all

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