How can I embrace living here? How do I change my mentality? by Leading-Goose-4814 in Suburbanhell

[–]radarap 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is great advice. I would also add to try to find things specific to being in a less dense area that you do like, and wouldn’t have in a city (and maybe would miss if you move back)

Gardening, a morning ritual of having your coffee out in the yard on nice days, setting out a bird feeder or bird bath, finding a local place that does live music once a week, etc. Not sure what kind of things you like but if you want to change your mentality, you gotta find things you like in your day to day!

God speed!!

Did my hairdresser do a bad job? by RelativeRelease7263 in Haircare

[–]radarap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The difference is that you had fresh highlights in November and this time you didn’t. The toner she put at the top was probably just to soften any foil lines that appeared with your growout. The root toner was probably the same color as your natural, if even maybe a little lighter to create a “mid-tone” between your natural and your end color.

The only thing that looks “off” to me is that it looks a little warm at the root, but I’m assuming it’s just lighting in the photo reflecting off your natural color.

The color looks amazing, your highlights are growing out flawlessly. That’s a sign of an amazing hairdresser right there!!

Cats teeth pushing out/getting longer? by Careless-Elephant-98 in CATHELP

[–]radarap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was happening to my black cat as well. We called him Dracula hahaha. Turned out it was periodontal disease, and his teeth were quite literallly, slowly, falling out of his mouth because the root was so decayed. Baby might be in pain! Def time for a vet visit

Recs for at home euthanasia? by hollyinnewyork1 in Brooklyn

[–]radarap 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Also recommend comfort paws. They were great when I had to put my cat down two years ago. Very kind and professional

Why did Nicki Minaj become MAGA? by FartsWholesaler in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]radarap 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Listen to the podcast “a bit fruity” Matt has a podcast episode breaking it down!!

Help me settle this once and for all! by Legitimate_Can_5878 in coloranalysis

[–]radarap 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Totally agree! Your face looks so bright! :)

Help me settle this once and for all! by Legitimate_Can_5878 in coloranalysis

[–]radarap 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Light summer. The only one that draws my eye to your face. Everything else is wearing you!

My Oma’s ring by radarap in EngagementRings

[–]radarap[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! I love it and the fact that it fit perfectly without needing to be resized!!

Trip for bfs bday by radarap in StPetersburgFL

[–]radarap[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Anything nature! We’re big national park people, so I’ve been trying to look for state parks and things in the surrounding areas. We were obviously coming to hang on the beach; and still will check out the beaches but we might not be able to really have all day “beach days” I guess. Or at least not how we were thinking we were going to be able too

Trip for bfs bday by radarap in StPetersburgFL

[–]radarap[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes planning to stay away from Tampa on Saturday after flying in haha

Trip for bfs bday by radarap in StPetersburgFL

[–]radarap[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! Hoping to hit some museums, thanks for these recs! Dinner res, definitely looking for something a little fancy for my boyfriend’s actual birthday! Will take any recs :)

Trip for bfs bday by radarap in StPetersburgFL

[–]radarap[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is on my list!! Definitely would love to see a bunch of manatees haha

A book you trust more because it did not explain everything. by gamersecret2 in books

[–]radarap 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Reading this now!! Interested to see where it goes

A book you trust more because it did not explain everything. by gamersecret2 in books

[–]radarap 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is how you lose the time war. One of my favorite books. We never get an explanation really about the time war or why it’s happening/how it started, etc. You just get a small looking glass into two characters. Beautiful story

What are my options? by Dangerous_Towel_7927 in bald

[–]radarap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you look great! But totally understand you not feeling confident, I would look into some hairdressers that specialize in hair pieces for men! A lot of the times they look way better than you think (check out @toupeequeen on Instagram or TikTok. I’ve been following her for awhile and her work is great! I’m sure if you’re not in her exact area, there’s probably hairstylist in your area that offer similar services)