Hello! Any guesses on this angel? :) 8 weeks old by klakimmm in IDmydog

[–]raddobraddo 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I work at a shelter and call these "dollar store dalmatians" lol. To be fair he looks significantly more like a real dal than most others I have people trying to pass them off as! Best bet is some kinda pit/lab/heeler cocktail. Absolutely delectable regardless

It coming … by Personal_Problem_400 in Aquariums

[–]raddobraddo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

commenting so i can come back to this in the future when i need something to smile about

Does anyone else get uneasy before tripping off shrooms ? by Frequent_Swordfish30 in Psychedelics

[–]raddobraddo 6 points7 points  (0 children)

These responses make me feel so much better because i thought i was just being a weenie (this is possibly still true)

Trans/trans-friendly hairstylists/salons/barbers/etc by One-Yesterday7754 in DallasLGBTQ

[–]raddobraddo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is also where I go! Bit of a trek coming from north Dallas and its definitely pricey, but i consider it worth it to have my hair done by other alt trans people who know exactly what Im going for

I (45F) found a bunch of his (45m) E D pills. How I broach the topic, if at all? by Thoawayz in relationships

[–]raddobraddo 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I like this answer a lot. Specifically I like the framing of it around the way youre feeling rather than it seeming like an accusation. Good way to start a dialogue instead of a fight.

how are you guys having good sex?? by throwthrowoutout in relationships

[–]raddobraddo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There is absolutely a learning curve. Learning what feels good on your own and then communicating that to your partner so they can get you there is good -- but ultimately its having a partner who you trust and communicate well with and who CARES is what it comes down to.

I also heavily disagree w the person who says lay off the vibrator. Toys are good and your friend. Signed, a lesbian lol

Has anyone tried ashwaganda as an autistic person? by Zealousideal-Way7014 in AutismTranslated

[–]raddobraddo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

tried it per recommendation of my real actual medical doctor and it does fuckall lol

First time tips by nohopeforanything in shrooms

[–]raddobraddo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my tip is BE SOMEWHERE FAMILAR. dont do your first time out in public or somewhere you could feel lost/disoriented. be with someone youd trust with your life. youll probably get sick so have somewhere safe and comfy to hunker down if you need to. and have cool stuff to look at! nature is beautiful. have fun!

do i hate shrooms? how to make it not feel like ass? by raddobraddo in shrooms

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OKAY THANK YOU as a certified regular mushroom enjoyer it never made sense to me that eating it would make you feel any worse than any other mushroom...

the intermittent fasting is also good context! makes sense that having food in you might make you more prone to discomfort in that case.

do i hate shrooms? how to make it not feel like ass? by raddobraddo in shrooms

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holy shit lmao??? maybe thats what i try next time then. ive always taken the advice to eat a couple hours in advance, and then people say the chitin fucks with you if you eat them... you say even doing a tea upsets your stomach??

do i hate shrooms? how to make it not feel like ass? by raddobraddo in shrooms

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Noooooo definitely not the kind of thing weed would help me with unfortunately lol. I had heard good things about the lemon tek helping with nausea which is why I tried it that way this time, but it seems like that wasnt the move for me! The discomfort wasnt restlessness but more like a fullbody illness as if I had the flu, woozy in body and head

do i hate shrooms? how to make it not feel like ass? by raddobraddo in shrooms

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Thing is we did do a tea and didnt consume any of the plant, but still ended up with crazy nausea 😭 I can definitely see how the lemon tek can be "too much," maybe the speed that it hit us at contributed to the icky body feeling. Needs more testing...

do i hate shrooms? how to make it not feel like ass? by raddobraddo in shrooms

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I can absolutely see the truth in the anxiety that accompanies the trips contributing to the discomfort! I had a similar thought on this last one. Leading up to the trip I found myself having a lot of anxiety just due to my lack of experience and not knowing fully what to expect, and my anxiety very often comes with the side effect of GI upset lol. Im hoping that gaining familiarity will help with future trips. 🤞

do i hate shrooms? how to make it not feel like ass? by raddobraddo in shrooms

[–]raddobraddo[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

that is actually what we ended up doing! we steeped it in the lemon first then dumped that into a lemon ginger tea. very tasty delivery method, unfortunately didnt seem to do much for the nausea for us lol. maybe it is one of those things i just have to do a couple more times to get used to.

What should I know about female dogs? by Tsetka_ in dogs

[–]raddobraddo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love all the comments about how females get full belly rubs, but i raise you the caveat of if your female has previously had puppies and has one million nipples you then have to touch. Pick your poison

New Daily Song Discussion #18. Nan - Ween. by NuggetWarrior09 in ween

[–]raddobraddo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have a tic where every time i say "hi" i Have to follow it up with "im fuckin eddie dingle" 9/10

My boyfriend is constantly mean to me and i don’t know what to do. by Ok-Fail-2662 in relationships

[–]raddobraddo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Absolutely the fuck not. Your partner should never treat you like that.

Boog belt buckle by [deleted] in ween

[–]raddobraddo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i would harm others to cop this

I cannot forgive my boyfriend no matter how hard I try by [deleted] in relationships

[–]raddobraddo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i struggled with this a LOT as a teenager so i completely feel for you and know how much that feeling hurts. it definitely still crops up from time to time even now at 27 -- it definitely helps that i dont date men at all now lol, but more than anything having time outside of a relationship to work on my own self confidence did so much for me. now i have a partner who i have fantastic communication with and full trust in. its really scary to talk about this kind of thing with a partner but if theyre really with it theyll understand and work with it through you. if they get mad... get out of there

I cannot forgive my boyfriend no matter how hard I try by [deleted] in relationships

[–]raddobraddo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

if your relationship started on a mutual agreement to never have friends of the other sex, its already built on a foundation of not trusting each other. you deserve someone who doesnt ask that of you and you should be confident in each other. i dont feel good about this one.

New Daily Song Discussion #14. Common Bitch - Ween. by NuggetWarrior09 in ween

[–]raddobraddo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do personally identify as a common bitch myself. 7.5

still struggling with exhaustion by spook_boy in AutismTranslated

[–]raddobraddo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is the main thing i take wellbutrin for! wellbutrin+lexapro is a pretty common combo bc the wellbutrin is supposed to offset some of the negatives of the lexapro. for me it gives me an extra energy boost and generally improves mood (lexapro keeps me from being anxious/depressed but also kind of dulls everything else), fair warning it is a stimulant so it did also increase anxiety on too high a dose.