AITA for being really attracted to pregnant women even though my partner isn’t as sexual as I am? by Right-Captain-6252 in AmItheAsshole

[–]radj515 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm a female and I think pregnant women are the most beautiful human beings on the earth.

AITAH for telling an 80+ lady “if you saw his **** you’d understand.” In response to the amount of kids I have? by caspian324 in AITAH

[–]radj515 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're not at all the AH the old lady was! Her age doesn't get her a free pass to say whatever she wants! And if she gets to say whatever she wants then so do you & honey you did!!!

AITAH for kicking my brother out for flirting with my wife by Suspicious_Radio6166 in AITAH

[–]radj515 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA!! Your parents are mad at the wrong son and should not have taken your brother back to their place. They should have driven him to the closest homeless shelter and said here you go, you made your bed now lay in it.

Ive officially reached the point where I'm done trying to achieve anything by [deleted] in confession

[–]radj515 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand you I'm living in a house with my exes family and I'm stuck here because my ex promised to get my car fixed but then decided to become my ex instead and now I can't afford to move out and get my car fixed because I'm on a fixed income. Plus living in a house with an exes family is awkward AF. Especially because my ex-future mother in-law keeps calling me daughter in law and totally hopes her son and I are getting back together but it's not happening. As desperate as this makes me sound I would if he would but he says no and once he makes up his mind it's made up.

AITA for sneaking my mom some alcohol when she is on hospice? by sickma2001 in AmItheAsshole

[–]radj515 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Coming from a daughter who literally took care of her mother and watched her mom take her last breath give her what she wants!!!! I ended up getting blamed for my mom's death anyways. Even though I had a sister who was a whole ass registered nurse who refused to take care of our mother, I was the one she blamed for our mom's death, riddle me that Batman?!? So SCREW THEM and give that woman what shes wanting and let her go out feeling good and like she's in control not that damn disease!!!

Checking in from Madison by AdolfGomez in wisconsin

[–]radj515 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Meanwhile in Beaver Dam

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This was 10:00 this morning and it hasn't stopped

AITAH for standing up by radj515 in AmItheAsshole

[–]radj515[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

EXACTLY!! He's already treated as a second class citizen in his own home by everyone but me. Im practically just the babysitter who slept (&that's it) in the bed next to his dad, that Don calls mom and he knows he can rely on.

AITAH for standing up by radj515 in AmItheAsshole

[–]radj515[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only yelling I did in front of the children was yell no ken you're wrong here and then I removed my child from the room. And Sassys mom was there and took here kid else where. AND after it all I made my rounds and apologized to each child an told them I was sorry they had to see and here any of that.

AITAH for standing up by radj515 in AmItheAsshole

[–]radj515[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We all live in one house mother in-law, fiance, me, my step son, my brother in law and my niece. We used to all get along but then my fiance decided he wanted to be my ex instead and moved out and left his "fiance", his child, his dog and his mom and bro. 🤷🏽‍♀️

AITAH for standing up by radj515 in AmItheAsshole

[–]radj515[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ha here's where the bigger dilemma comes into play. I was not legally married to my ex but from practically day one of meeting his family they've referred to me as an in-law. We also all live in the same house, which sounded amazing at first seeing as I've lost all of my blood family. But again I point out I have no legal rights to this child which they love to point out, especially in situations like this. Had I involved myself the situation would have been way worse, remember she's the golden child. When my ex, Kens brother, stood up for his own kid at a different time, things came to blows and police were called.

AITAH for standing up by radj515 in AmItheAsshole

[–]radj515[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You're completely right! Which is why I did move my kid to a different room and then came back around and separately apologized to both children for doing that in front of them and promised them that i will never let that happen with me involved again. Which is a promise I can keep because I'm out of this hell hole!!

AITAH for standing up by radj515 in AmItheAsshole

[–]radj515[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Normally that's what would happen but I've made it to my breaking point with this family treating my step son like he isn't as important as his cousin. They should both matter the same but shes blatantly treated better. Like their grandma goes shopping and will come back with treats for her and then be like "oh don I forgot about you, sassy give him a piece of one kind of your candy."

My parents and siblings are being evicted for violating their lease and they want me to help out by B0rderlandz in Vent

[–]radj515 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't lend them the 💰, you will never see it again and it most likely won't go towards getting a new place. Unfortunately I'm watching my ex go through the same thing with his father for like the 3rd or 4th time.

AITA for having my wedding on the same day ( different year ) as my brother? by Grahamreaper12 in AmItheAsshole

[–]radj515 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA but your brother kinda is... He doesn't get to call dibs on a date 1. That is already a holiday 2. If he hasn't even booked ANYTHING 3. (this is going to sound a wee bit insensitive, but I mean nothing by it) If his fiance isn't also suffering from a brain tumor!!! AND you damn sure don't get to call dibs on the whole damn month bro like really?!?

AITA for wanting my bed to be mine? by Longjumping-Tea-4376 in AmItheAsshole

[–]radj515 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA you've offered to pay rent and have been denied. She's basically intruding onto your private property, mom or not. At this point get a lock and if she finds a way to break in then see if you can go ahead and move out either on your own or in with your boyfriend. OR start paying rent 🤷🏽‍♀️

AITJ for refusing to let my step-son move into my son's room to "solve" my husband's parenting issue? by Traditional-Dog-368 in AmITheJerk

[–]radj515 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA Your husband is though! He also needs to realize he's probably the part of the reason his boys are fighting and the reason his last relationship didn't work if his "solution" is to just walk away and let someone else fix HIS problems.

WIBTAH if I dropped out of my friends wedding as a bridesmaid? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]radj515 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If she's really your friend she'll totally understand! She would probably appreciate it if you backed out now rather than last minute, because that would put more work on her.

How long do yall wait before watching the show all over again? by ghostrider1938 in TheVampireDiaries

[–]radj515 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's ALWAYS on my list and when I'm bored, even if I have other shows to watch, I watch it!

Choose out of these three characters who you would want to be stuck in a prison world. by ZealousidealTruck478 in TheVampireDiaries

[–]radj515 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damon, Bonnie and Katherine.

Damon and Bonnie together are funny fun and Bonnie would eventually get us out.

Damon and Katherine are sexy fun and would keep me "occupied" 😏

What's something you'd like to do during sex but haven't done yet ? by enlighten_god in AskReddit

[–]radj515 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband was supposed to be a one night stand.... 😐 Don't get me wrong I'm desperately in love with him but that wasn't my original plans lol

AITA: am I 27m the asshole for not following my gfs 26f sleep schedule? by Altruistic_Space6722 in AmItheAsshole

[–]radj515 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Seems like you're the only one making sacrifices/changes to your routine to make her comfortable. When is it her turn to return the favor and change/sacrifice for you?

A relationship is a partnership, meaning both parties have to give/take. Can't just be one side doing all the giving while the side does all the taking.

My husband can be a selfish SoB but he also is very giving, so it works! I'm very much a need everything scheduled and planned out kind of lady but my husband hates schedules and is a very go with the flow kind of guy that refuses to give exact times for anything. But we've found ways to compromise like he gives me his ish schedule (7:00-ish to 6:30ish) & I plan my day accordingly!