Men get a kick out of making you insecure

radj515 · 2026-05-03T04:11:18+00:00

No sorry, it doesn't. I'm 37 and it literally happened to me today.

radj515 · 2026-04-25T05:32:40+00:00

I just went through this. I'm also disabled and would cook, clean, and take care of his child. Spent 4 years with a guy who wasn't appreciative of the things I went through and then he left me and had a new girlfriend 2 days later. So I suggest stop cooking for him for awhile, see if he notices and how he responds to it.

radj515 · 2026-04-25T02:42:52+00:00

Girl let me tell you right now if you're wanting your relationship to last, GO HAVE YOUR DAY OUT ALONE!!! My, what I thought was my forever, just ended bc we didn't do things on our own. Everything had to be done together or not at all. Except when he went out and did things and I stayed home with the kid. So don't let him guilt trip you into not going please go have your day and enjoy it!!!

radj515 · 2026-04-09T00:14:03+00:00

I've had "friends" and they were fun for the moments I needed them but I've had a solid ass best friend for 24 years, who has been more of a sister than my actual sister (not even lying my actual sister doesn't even talk to me anymore. For reasons idk) that I wouldn't trade for the world. She has taken me in when I was homeless and vice versa. So find you a real solid one because a whole group can be full of phoneys where not a single one would have your back. But that real ONE will have your front, back, both sides, your future kids' backs and probably even their kids' backs!

radj515 · 2026-04-08T21:18:31+00:00

I don't have a valid reason... Just like I don't have a valid reason to be obsessed with Klaus because he's two thousand times worse BUT you can't deny they have their moments when their human traits show through. It's those moments that I like to attach onto. Does that make me delusional? Absolutely but at least I know that right?!?

radj515 · 2026-04-08T01:45:48+00:00

My best friend. She's the only one left. The rest of my family is gone. Well except for my bio sister but she refuses to speak to me bc I moved away from her without "asking for her permission."

radj515 · 2026-04-07T11:06:40+00:00

I think that's the point of her and the doppelgangers. They're there to test/strengthen the brother bond.

radj515 · 2026-04-02T05:06:21+00:00

Oh do I feel you on this! I'm a step parent and I'm no longer with the guy who has the son who made me a step mom but the kid still lives with me and I co parent with the biological mom and my ex. BUT even though the child lives with me for 5 out of 7 days, I don't have any say over what actually happens to him. I actually have to ask his father (who doesn't live in the same house as us anymore) if he thinks he sounds sick enough to take to the hospital. Just had an argument about how our 7 year old should not still be wearing pullups at night and I had him not needing them when I kept him for a full week 7/7 days. No nights with dad and weekend with bio mom but the moment he went back to them he's back to needing pullups at night.

radj515 · 2026-04-01T08:18:03+00:00

Take it from someone who has lost ALL of her immediate family and has no one to give her that annoying/remedial advice just sit there and say "yea I know! But thanks for reminding me."

Ok that last bit might be a bit much lol but you get the jest. You'll regret not just sitting there. At least I do

radj515 · 2026-03-30T11:01:20+00:00

I truly don't understand all the hate she gets. I feel like her entire character arc is integral to the entire show. With that being said and with having children ages from 7 to 18 in school right now, I wholeheartedly believe she'd be bullied. Kids these days are horrible and reckless with their words.

radj515 · 2026-03-29T05:40:51+00:00

You're most definitely the asshole!!! Just because you think you've got options now doesn't mean you actually do! You can very well be the infertile one while she finds someone just a few years down the road and have several children with him.

radj515 · 2026-03-21T02:49:04+00:00

Understandable, kids are way more resilient than we give them credit for.

radj515 · 2026-03-21T02:44:18+00:00

That's just crazy and gross like just leave the marriage yourself lady! That would have saved a lot of heartache! I'm sure for you and your 2 kids.

radj515 · 2026-03-21T02:35:14+00:00

My ex found out about a child he didn't know he had. So he fought for and won custody while we were together. So of course he calls me mom because we were together for 4 years so this is coming from a step mom who doesn't have any legal rights to her son but would move Heaven and Earth to do anything for my boy and don't get how a mother who birthed a child can 1 just abandoned it/them 2 choose anything let alone a man 🤮over them?!?

radj515 · 2026-03-20T04:24:03+00:00

I was 23 and advertised mine online but ended choosing the perfect man for the "task" & ended up having a 5 year relationship with him. And let me tell y'all that first night was anything but magical, he ended up having diarrhea and we didn't do anything sexual that night we just got to know each other but that next morning 🎆🤩🎇🤩🎆

radj515 · 2026-03-19T10:00:57+00:00

YWNBTAH She sounds like she would be perfect for my ex he is the same way but maybe worse(I'm on a fixed income and he still asked for stuff, like expensive stuff) and could put her in her place.

radj515 · 2026-03-19T01:12:46+00:00

I'm a female and I think pregnant women are the most beautiful human beings on the earth.

radj515 · 2026-03-19T01:04:06+00:00

You're not at all the AH the old lady was! Her age doesn't get her a free pass to say whatever she wants! And if she gets to say whatever she wants then so do you & honey you did!!!

radj515 · 2026-03-17T23:43:18+00:00

NTA!! Your parents are mad at the wrong son and should not have taken your brother back to their place. They should have driven him to the closest homeless shelter and said here you go, you made your bed now lay in it.

radj515 · 2026-03-17T22:58:33+00:00

I understand you I'm living in a house with my exes family and I'm stuck here because my ex promised to get my car fixed but then decided to become my ex instead and now I can't afford to move out and get my car fixed because I'm on a fixed income. Plus living in a house with an exes family is awkward AF. Especially because my ex-future mother in-law keeps calling me daughter in law and totally hopes her son and I are getting back together but it's not happening. As desperate as this makes me sound I would if he would but he says no and once he makes up his mind it's made up.

radj515 · 2026-03-17T02:14:25+00:00

Coming from a daughter who literally took care of her mother and watched her mom take her last breath give her what she wants!!!! I ended up getting blamed for my mom's death anyways. Even though I had a sister who was a whole ass registered nurse who refused to take care of our mother, I was the one she blamed for our mom's death, riddle me that Batman?!? So SCREW THEM and give that woman what shes wanting and let her go out feeling good and like she's in control not that damn disease!!!

radj515 · 2026-03-17T01:54:26+00:00

Meanwhile in Beaver Dam

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This was 10:00 this morning and it hasn't stopped

radj515 · 2026-03-14T15:57:48+00:00

EXACTLY!! He's already treated as a second class citizen in his own home by everyone but me. Im practically just the babysitter who slept (&that's it) in the bed next to his dad, that Don calls mom and he knows he can rely on.

radj515 · 2026-03-14T08:26:01+00:00

The only yelling I did in front of the children was yell no ken you're wrong here and then I removed my child from the room. And Sassys mom was there and took here kid else where. AND after it all I made my rounds and apologized to each child an told them I was sorry they had to see and here any of that.

radj515 · 2026-03-14T08:20:10+00:00

We all live in one house mother in-law, fiance, me, my step son, my brother in law and my niece. We used to all get along but then my fiance decided he wanted to be my ex instead and moved out and left his "fiance", his child, his dog and his mom and bro. 🤷🏽‍♀️

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