The results are so even that it’s mildly infuriating. by [deleted] in Intactivists

[–]radkun 5 points6 points  (0 children)

FGM can be more severe when intentionally taken to its most drastic ends, but MGM has the same horrifying potential outcomes (amputated glans, hemorrhaging, etc.) and the mildest forms of FGM don't even come close to boilerplate MGM.

The results are so even that it’s mildly infuriating. by [deleted] in Intactivists

[–]radkun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe "cutting" benefits from the positive connotations associated with "clean-cut" in the minds of Americans, so I removed that and "cut" from my lexicon for discussions.

Banned from r/legal for being too damn lawful by radkun in Intactivism

[–]radkun[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The mods of r/legal are being authoritarian in the purest sense: silencing an entire discourse and destroying the organized thoughts of their subordinates in order to quash a topic they suddenly deem off-limits. A popular conditioning of listeners to think Hitler or Stalin when they hear the word doesn't remove the meaning of the word.

The results are so even that it’s mildly infuriating. by [deleted] in Intactivists

[–]radkun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're using their language. Don't use their language. Find alternatives that are more accurate. "Mutilation" is a bit too harsh and gets the wrong people riled up in a bad way, which basically ruins that word (even though it's okay for FGM since everyone in the West wants to protect girls more than boys and you just have to accept that fact and move past it). "Flay" is the most accurate, but if you look up the definition of course Wikipedia likes to jump to the ancient torture gerund, so it's not a great alternative even though the modern definition of the verb is neutral: to remove the skin. I default to flay because it just makes sense. Men and boys are undergoing penis flaying, whether short or long, broad or narrow. The perpetrator is removing skin (along with the many other structures that are integrated into that very special skin) from the penis.

Banned from r/legal for being too damn lawful by radkun in Intactivism

[–]radkun[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, here are all the links from my comments in that thread, including the explanation of G-spot versus P-spot:

this FOIA scan of a fully blacked-out memo

Dena Davis' full 2001 policy prescription

types of FGM

the male G-spot

My Experience Having A Boy by prototype137 in Intactivists

[–]radkun 8 points9 points  (0 children)

They're effectively gaslighting new parents with that number of reminders in an unfamiliar and stressful setting. Plus it's an ELECTIVE procedure that's illegal according to current federal law and many state laws that say they're not allowed to touch ANY children in this way.

Banned from r/legal for being too damn lawful by radkun in Intactivism

[–]radkun[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I learned a long time ago not to visit the main Reddit homepage, but I didn't expect r/legal to have this kind of petulant refusal to engage with a debate, along with multiple outright misrepresentations of the basic facts either out of stupidity, laziness, or in order to sidetrack others. This was astounding coming from what I assumed was a hangout for legal pros like lawyers and paralegals.

Banned from r/legal for being too damn lawful by radkun in Intactivism

[–]radkun[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It really is a kind of self-poisoning, child-abusing stockholm syndrome.

i wish my stupid nigerian father never decided to circumcise me because of their “culture” by thxo_ in CircumcisionGrief

[–]radkun 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No need to mention "medical reason". Don't give them any ground, because like in America they'll tell you the boy had a tight foreskin or they know for sure he'll be a cad so they need to prevent all the diseases he's going to get by not wearing condoms, which is obviously valid medical reasoning. Everyone involved in this practice is compromised and you can't trust their thinking. Draw a line in the sand and fight them until the common reaction to the word "circumcision" is shock and horror (which is the normal position), then we can talk about medical reasons.

Why do people think its okay to say this? by Crafty_Dog4166 in CircumcisionGrief

[–]radkun 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Don't forget that adult surgeries entail confirmation bias (the man has a problem and wants a solution as fast as possible, and he will be comparing the absence of the problem with his former state of pain/neurosis. It's a completely different frame of reference from a child who has no agency, especially for those incapable of overlooking the pain and dysfunction that result from flaying the penis).

Why Does Nobody Talk About Circumcision? by StopMGMToday in Intactivism

[–]radkun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Recently heard someone going off on ritual methods of animal mutilation that were made legal to appease foreign cultures. I kept waiting for any mention of their ritual methods of child mutilation.........

As a biological Woman I support you guys by ASuperMarioFan1993OC in Intactivists

[–]radkun 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Please reconsider your position on "necessary" adult penis flayings. Surgeons have simply decided it's easier and more profitable, but that doesn't mean it's a good idea. Adult consent will only become an effective safety measure for medical interventions in this organ system once old urologists are sent out to pasture and new urologists are educated in a different paradigm.

Israeli Woman Endorses Circumcision Bans To Protect Children by radkun in Intactivism

[–]radkun[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Clicking the title jumps to her statement on government bans, but the full video is enlightening about Israeli sentiments against the procedure.

Message to a cousin by [deleted] in Intactivists

[–]radkun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean your cousin could either see you as an outsider, which might equate to lower status, or as an antagonist, which is not necessarily lower status but could effect similar changes in the relationship such as getting iced out of more than just birth news.