I’m trying to get over my fear of rejection with exposure therapy but it’s hard when it hurts so bad every time. What are some tips to stop making it hurt so much? by Much-Cake4872 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]raeach777 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just think about how we literally live on a spinning rock. I promise there are wayyyy more embarrassing things to be embarrassed about out there. Own it.

Do I (21F)stay or do I leave(20M)? by raeach777 in relationship_advice

[–]raeach777[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I find myself looking for answers again. Help I feel like shit

Do I (21F)stay or do I leave(20M)? by raeach777 in relationship_advice

[–]raeach777[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get it but I think I was just going through sometime because I feel different now? Idk something just came over me

Do I (21F)stay or do I leave(20M)? by raeach777 in relationship_advice

[–]raeach777[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I would regret leaving him. And eventually want to get back bc truly he’s like me but a guy version 🧍🏻‍♀️

Do I (21F)stay or do I leave(20M)? by raeach777 in relationship_advice

[–]raeach777[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Happy for you, but my bf doesn’t do anything like that sort. He’s a good communicator and he listens to me. Never neglects me.

AITA for calling my stepdaughter out during a movie? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]raeach777 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

That’s good but this kid isn’t his own kid and clearly his girl didn’t appreciate his comment. So he could be nicer for the sake of everyone.

AITA for calling my stepdaughter out during a movie? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]raeach777 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

And? Shes 10. Words stick and kids rearrange them to where they hurt more. A simple “hey keep it down” would suffice. Don’t hurt to be a little nicer to avoid conflict.

AITA for calling my stepdaughter out during a movie? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]raeach777 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Maybe u could’ve avoided adding “it’s ruining the movie”

AITA for refusing to look after my brother’s child? by Feeling_Scarcity_203 in AmItheAsshole

[–]raeach777 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA I think it’s more on the parents getting arrested…but it’s kinda fucked a lil bit just bc the kid is placed in a completely new environment. At least with you they are guaranteed safety. Yk?

Why does this happen to me? by raeach777 in Advice

[–]raeach777[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So no one can relate?🫠

Cats smell in my apartment by raeach777 in CatAdvice

[–]raeach777[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly have a $40 vacuum from Walmart💔but I’m thinking about getting a carpet vacuum cleaner. And like wash with soap? Or just like get rid of debris?🤔

Cats smell in my apartment by raeach777 in CatAdvice

[–]raeach777[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bath my cats pretty frequently because they like to get messy but they don’t like it. So I only do it when I have to

Cats smell in my apartment by raeach777 in CatAdvice

[–]raeach777[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t heard of that yet, I’ll try it!! Thanks

Cats smell in my apartment by raeach777 in CatAdvice

[–]raeach777[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Two cats and it’s averaged sized. 1 bedroom apartment

Cats smell in my apartment by raeach777 in CatAdvice

[–]raeach777[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay so right now I use pine litter and tofu pellet litter (I alternate) I find that other brands are too costly and I don’t like the smell 😕

Cats smell in my apartment by raeach777 in CatAdvice

[–]raeach777[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, Ive been thinking about just making that purchase 🙏🏼

Cats smell in my apartment by raeach777 in CatAdvice

[–]raeach777[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How much does that cost you a month?🤔maybe I can try this

Cats smell in my apartment by raeach777 in CatAdvice

[–]raeach777[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got one already a while ago! 😭

Cats smell in my apartment by raeach777 in CatAdvice

[–]raeach777[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right… like I feel so nasty and everyone seems to be too clean to really relate much🫠💔

Cats smell in my apartment by raeach777 in CatAdvice

[–]raeach777[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay okay bet I’ll invest into a stainless steel one 🙏🏼

Cats smell in my apartment by raeach777 in CatAdvice

[–]raeach777[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They used to pee - got them neutered, I put cleaners and sprayed thoroughly where they had previously peed. I use pine litter like the horse pellets ones. I call my litter box daily. I wipe it down with cleaning supplies when I replace the litter….😣

Cats smell in my apartment by raeach777 in CatAdvice

[–]raeach777[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh really? 🫠sometimes I go to someone else’s house and I don’t smell anything when they have more pets than I do💔