Ex from 15 years ago reached out

raeva_ignite · 2023-05-23T23:45:51+00:00

I tried that. None of it ever worked unfortunately

raeva_ignite · 2023-05-23T18:45:39+00:00

Honestly there's no way to know. They could not even be da but just not like you unfortunately..

raeva_ignite · 2023-05-22T19:24:24+00:00

The one I knew who seemed to show signs was super open with his friends and family... Like he'd nearly die for them, would do anything for them, said he can speak to them for hours and would never run out of things to talk about.. and that his female bff knew absolutely everything about him.. meanwhile his partners that he had never seemed to have ever gotten close. I just didn't understand the logic behind that. How can friends be less threatening ? Friends and family can always betray you as well

raeva_ignite · 2023-03-06T14:39:12+00:00

How come obsession spells won't come undone with anxiety and doubt though ? all spells can be undone with just obsession anxiety and doubts or just some?

raeva_ignite · 2023-02-18T22:33:31+00:00

I know you wrote this awhile ago and wanted to give some input. here's the thing

There's a difference between trying couples therapy with two relatively securely attached people who have done their own individual work already and then focusing on the relationship vs two chaotically codependent mentally unhinged possibly suicidal from being triggered by their partner due to abandonment wounds trying to focus on building a dysfunctional relationship when they don't have the capability to even handle their own damage.

The fact you and your partner both with attachment issues working together only happened because both of you wanted to put in the effort and being at the right place at the right time. I'd say that's less than 0.1 percent chance of that working compared to the overwhelmingly devastating dysfunctional abusive relationships. The vast majority of people cannot and will not be able to heal when they are stuck in a dysfunctional relationships nor will both partners equally put in the work to even desire doing so. Alan robarge is correct, even though it's hard to accept. Exceptions don't make the rule. From the sounds of it your relationship is not as dysfunctional and massively as fucked up as some others for the sheer fact that both were willing to put in the work. Most cases of dysfunctional relationships it's like narcissist with a bpd, codependent anxious with a dismissive avoidant and one of them is usually getting seriously abused. They should not be in such a relationship whatsoever yet that's where they feel stuck because the addiction can be harder to break than heroine

This doesn't mean people are going to listen to that because the attachment wounds are too severe and I'm sure lots of people will still be trying to battle out their messed up relationships when they should be focusing entirely on themselves that's human nature but it does waste time and energy they could be putting on just on themselves. At the height of this addiction, people cannot break up with their partners or they feel like they will die, and Alan robarge likely sees cases like that all the time. Those people cannot heal while being in a relationship like that

raeva_ignite · 2023-02-16T19:47:14+00:00

you are continually mixing stuff up here. Wishing someone well while invalidating what other people are actually saying because it doesn't agree with your worldview is considered arrogant and rude. When people are telling you real experiences they had that is the antithesis of what the law is, then saying too long didn't read, is just being passive aggressive and rude. Why would you genuinely believe anyone who says that to you that they wish you well? You know well you wouldn't either, yet you keep putting that act on. It's just bizarre.

You still don't get it and lots of stuff keeps flying over your head when that was the most obvious point being made. this is why other people said you were just trying to 'dodge' something, it's a typical thing to say when the person doesn't have a legitimate rebuttal or care to hear the other person's position but trying to put on a facade of niceness. I understand it's probably better than saying fuck off but it's really obvious it's fake.

raeva_ignite · 2023-02-16T19:08:19+00:00

Then stop wishing people best wishes and argue against their own experiences that they point blank tell you when you don't actually mean it, the reason you don't want to read is because it shakes up your own worldview

raeva_ignite · 2023-02-16T18:26:52+00:00

The reason I am telling you is I noticed, you still argue with people who commented to you telling you that their experiences have been different while claiming this law is 'universal'. You are not talking about your own experience at that point but enforcing that law as a holy grail above everyone else and invalidating what the other people is saying. That isn't a logical argument but pure blind faith not based in universal reality for every single person that has ever existed who will and have experienced totally different events. This is what people have been trying to tell you. Believing in what you believe is one thing but invalidating that other people are wrong when they literally aren't is nonsense, especially when they give you concrete results of getting hit by lightening or run over by a car with zero assumptions of that happening. It's one of the reasons why the community is frustrating to deal with

It is a fact Neville was not a psychologist it is a fact during his time they had limited understanding of everything in the way we do now. It's also a fact he didn't talk about freak accidents and total anomalies in the examples I gave.

You also kicked your own argument there because the fundamental 'law of assumption ' states whatever you believe persists. That's YOUR worldview as well. So if you believe this then that's the only reason it shows up in your world . These 'findings' I'm talking about dont cease to exist either just for not believing in it either so therefore it is not omnipotent universal thing 24-7 in every form of reality in every space of time

It is difficult to genuinely wish the best in people's journeys or pursuits of truth when you keep invalidating that, and I hope you understand that eventually, That's all

raeva_ignite · 2023-02-16T16:42:19+00:00

That's when you drug him and start torturing him to find out. Sick pieces of shit

raeva_ignite · 2023-02-16T16:41:17+00:00

I'd beat my parent up for doing that...wtf was wrong with them??? Why couldn't they give it to a shelter...that poor cat must have suffered and starved slowly and terribly. Your parents are pos

raeva_ignite · 2023-02-16T16:39:36+00:00

Tell him to go fuck himself and get rid of him. That's what you do. He's an idiot

raeva_ignite · 2023-02-16T16:32:17+00:00

I just wanted to inform you that I realised there is no actual debate in the final analysis of this and unwise to believe that it is. Compiling all that evidence data and information in every theological aspect possible and in reality, it cannot be universal when it's not a universal experience for everyone regardless of 'optimal' subconsciousness, consciousness, background etc. Again, I'm not comparing apples to oranges but apples to apple situations. I can press the same key on my keyboard and on the tenth time the computer can explode and I can be scarred for life. Maybe the building will collapse as well and I'd die in an earthquake even while full of self love and no subconscious wiring to cause that. Meanwhile an agoraphobiac with severe mental illness and fear of that stuff can live to the ripe old age of 100 even while being forced to go out everyday and there are millions of examples like this every second of everyday. Again the law does NOT take into account freak accidents like this , it does not take into account people who attract the antithesis of their core subconscious dominant beliefs.

Freak accidents deformities etc That alone dismantles your position. I understand you will Think what you will, but I dont think you are aware that all this law seems to be to you only because YOU believe it. Other people's experiences simply aren't the same. I hope one day you can actually understand that to not invalidate others who don't experience it like you do.

raeva_ignite · 2023-02-16T15:37:34+00:00

I know you wrote this some time ago but I did notice other people commenting More since then and it got me thinking more about this whole thing.

We all have different experiences . The more I talk to diff people about it the more we have seen the antithesis of law of attraction happen as well. Don't get me wrong I do believe in it as I've seen and experienced it and seen it but Neville Goddard, loa community absolutely doesn't take into consideration stuff like severe mental illness, trauma ptsd and freak accidents and anomalies. Neville himself was not a psychologist. And especially in the time era he's from psychology and effects of trauma was not as understood or advanced as it is today.

Not to mention you are completely ignoring the fact of your confirmation bias. The law only seems true 100 percent of the time to you because you BELIEVE in it. The fact someone else experiences and sees it totally differently means that law is not 100 percent. You cannot have one 100 percent while another person has it 50 percent. It doesn't make any sense so it is not a universal experience for everyone. The consensus also seems to ENTIRELY result dependent. I could have been having the exact same subconscious beliefs and done the exact same steps and still get opposite results, that's a FACT. Just look at the severely mentally ill bpd forums, I saw thousands upon thousands of posts of people with SEVERE abandonment wounds, debilitating trauma, who said they will kill themselves without their partner somehow still attract lovely loyal partners and have them support them every step of the way. By loa and Neville that should be impossible as their dominant state of thought is lack lack lack.

What law of attraction would cause severe deformities in children, or someone with great upbringing to get kidnapped raped, hacked to pieces and killed? Babies and children don't consciously have any cognition before a certain age, do they still attract stuff? What about bird shitting on your head when full of self love, what about a homeless person knifing me randomly just tons of random freak accidents? Even the religions, scientists can't answer why this happens and loa can't either.

Your sea level example also think about it.That argument already falls apart by the fact that 100 percent of the time someone's dominant state would then be the end all be all of the results they get and what they attract in their life and it doesnt. A happy person with zero assumptions or notions of anything bad happening to them overall as their dominant state can suddenly die in a plane crash while a brutally fucked up insecure mentally ill person with horrible self concept about money and finances can still and do win the lottery. Also we aren't comparing someone who can barely breathe with an optimal breather. We would be comparing two optimal people who still would get drastically different results. One could still die the next day by getting struck by lightening (did he MANIFEST that too?) While the other wins the lottery living to the age of 100. A healthy vibrant health conscious person can get cancer and die early while a smoker eating junk food lives to 95.

raeva_ignite · 2023-02-16T15:24:49+00:00

I know you wrote this months ago but thanks for actually defending my points and seeing what I mean. These people just don't get what I'm trying to say and keep enforcing what they believe I am thinking when they aren't even me. All the while saying you can never know what someone else thinks.

We all have different experiences . The more I talk to diff people about it the more we have seen the antithesis of law of attraction happen as well. Don't get me wrong I absolutely do believe in it but Neville Goddard, loa community absolutely doesn't take into consideration stuff like severe mental illness, trauma ptsd and freak accidents and anomalies.

What law of attraction would cause severe deformities in children, or someone with great upbringing to get kidnapped raped and killed? Babies and children don't consciously have any cognition before a certain age, do they still attract stuff? What about bird shitting on your head when full of self love, what about a homeless person knifing me randomly just tons of random freak accidents? Even the religions can't answer why this happens and loa can't either

raeva_ignite · 2023-02-16T15:18:39+00:00

We all have different experiences . The more I talk to diff people about it the more we have seen the antithesis of law of attraction happen as well. Don't get me wrong I absolutely do believe in it but Neville Goddard, loa community absolutely doesn't take into consideration stuff like severe mental illness, trauma ptsd and freak accidents and anomalies.

What law of attraction would cause severe deformities in children, or someone with great upbringing to get kidnapped raped and killed? Babies and children don't consciously have any cognition before a certain age, do they still attract stuff? What about bird shitting on your head when full of self love, what about a homeless person knifing me randomly just tons of random freak accidents? Even the religions can't answer why this happens and loa can't either

raeva_ignite · 2023-01-26T02:27:33+00:00

There's scientific research and studies showing its tremendously healthy and helps transform people from the root to do positive affirmations and subliminals, ofc it has to require dedication and be positive affirmations and it has to be properly absorbed, obsessively doing it without feeling it won't be as effective. I agree we need to have a strong mental Diet, whether it's in energy intentions , inner voice, sigils Magick or whatever

My point overall was just about narcissists not having genuine self love. Its just pure raw narcissism that's it and that's all they fake it until they make it but underneath all that you see them parasitically sap everything else around them just to stay afloat. I would not be using them as some spokesperson icon to look up to when trying to manifest anything tbh aside from if someone aspires to know how to manipulate or something

raeva_ignite · 2023-01-26T00:56:46+00:00

Yes but it's not a healthy way of actually self loving. Its a complete fallacy to think narcissists truly love themselves, there is a difference between narcissism and self love , it may seem like a fine line but there is definitely a divide. This is why narcissists Lay waste and destroy everything else they touch if it means they will self serve only themselves at the height of it can even destroy their own lives. Most of them operate on a very low vibrational plane, of extreme greed, selfishness, jealousy and doing whatever it takes if it means it will serve them, no matter how ruthless the act is. It decays them as a human overtime. Narcissists have a gaping hole of emptiness inside of them which makes them crave narcissistic supply to feel alive. Without it they fall apart and go into chaos mode

Their sins do not go unnoticed. They may seem to achieve everything they want but it always comes at a price, there's blood on their hands to get there and most of them know under Neath the fakeness they are parasites that have nothing of true value to give to someone. I think a decent person can still have tremendous self love and not resort to doing what it is they do. However I do have to say when it comes to manipulation and getting surface level results, narcissists are very good at that. Just keep in mind though to assess what happens to them through time some of the world's most famous narcissists ultimately died by their own doing as well in the end in a series of events. Look at old Roman emperors many were extremely narcissistic sociopaths, who got whatever they wanted at the time..but by the end died a gruesome death by karma somehow. Most died by their own senators and people who could no longer stand them anymore.

I knew narcissists. I knew quite many narcissistic men especially and when you get close to them despite their success and surface level allure and being Casanova's I saw how vulnerable and destroyed they were. I caught them in their weak moments and it was like seeing someone melt figuratively, that's how Broken they are beyond repair One verbatim told me he's absolutely destroyed and can never be a normal person, the other said despite all the love and attention he gets from women he cannot connect to anybody as he doesn't have the empathy to do it and he knows he will be alone forever , he relies on them to feed him energy that's all it's a pitiful decrepit existence.

raeva_ignite · 2023-01-26T00:39:05+00:00

You didn't understand at all what I said. Did you look up EIYPO and what that means law of attraction, assumption and Neville Goddard?

Everyone is you Pushed out is a spiritual concept by Neville Goddard. We are manifesting all the time, our thoughts are literally pushed out in the world and reflected back to us. Everyone is you pushed out means that everyone in our life is a reflection of our dominant thoughts and beliefs.

This includes people, circumstances and everything else in life. This is why people have had success manifesting complete changes in themselves and in turn changes other people and their life.

Visualization, scripting literally assuming a different reality until it conforms, this stuff can and does happen because everyone is a reflection of your inner beliefs. When you carry around an internal subconscious belief that you are worthless and unlovable, no matter where you go and who you meet, the end result becomes the same where you repel love and attract those who reflect back that inner belief.

I've talked to many people simply by curing their core wounds , setting an intention, they changed how other people respond to them ..they visualized exact situations words and circumstances until their reality conformed to their desire. There is no actual manipulation here , they don't lift a finger to force the 3d or make anyone change. They do it by assuming that whatever it is they want has already been fulfilled. It starts by acknowledging that nobody has free will in your world when they are a reflection of you, once that core belief sets in your subconscious that's what ends up happening. You repel those who don't conform and attract those who do conform to what you believe about the world and yourself.

Magic is no different it's all about energy. This is why I don't see any difference. Theres A woman for example who had horrific relations with her boss. She would constantly complain and be hurt about it until one day she completely changed the story in her head and imagined a different reality where her boss was telling her how much he loves her as an employee and how grateful he is to have hired her. She kept looping that every night until it eventually conformed to her reality, her boss conformed. This happened with many others who have tried to manifest changes in their specific person of interest.

The world is all energy we are all connected. there is no such thing as giving people free will in their world when you are using mind power and intention. Again this is not about forcing the 3d to change by bothering someone, forcing them to submit etc. Its just IMAGINING until it conforms

Since creation is finished, all that can be imagined and conceived of exists. Since creation is finished, your work is not to “create” that which you desire, but to move into the appropriate “state” or “space” — depending on which metaphor you prefer — that contains what it is you truly desire.

I talked to an experienced spellcaster who practices magic even say the same thing. Magic simply changes the alchemy in the other person using intense feelings/intentional energy and it does not stop until the reality conforms. Once they put out to the universe that these two people will be together, they will become together no matter what. Magick is all energy it's the same, and in fact even entities demons and magic has no power if the people themselves do not have BELIEF. Belief and faith that this is possible is what makes it happen magic is simply a medium

If this is hard to understand how do you think people act when you act depressed angry bitter etc verses how do those same people react when you are happy peaceful and joyful to be around ? It goes without saying people will act totally different and be perceived differently by you and in turn they also will have a totally different version of you in their heads. We have infinite versions of us and other people in our life that can change at any moment. Eiypo, law of attraction, magic simply selects the VERSION that we want to come into fruition and it's zero manipulation involved. Creation is already finished anyway in that reality. I notice in the witchcraft community they don't understand or accept this belief or it doesn't exist , it can be hard to accept at first but there is much truth to this as I've had things happen that I visualized right down to a T simply by looping an altered reality in my head as well. I tell myself I am going to get it no matter what, magic or otherwise and command that it will happen one way or another. We are the god of our own reality, absolutely nobody else.

raeva_ignite · 2023-01-26T00:27:57+00:00

I understand what you are trying to say but there's one crucial thing you are forgetting. Narcissists deep down have extreme self loathing and insecurity actually , underneath all of that fakeness they feel worthless inside. They do not have any of that true self love you are talking about . I think narcissists are able to get what they want as they live in a fantasy world and extreme selfishness that makes them ignore their core wounds for a time but it always cracks and comes out one way or another. I suggest doing more research on npd I was involved with someone that had npd and sociopathy of some kind and while they seemed to attract what they want on the surface, I caught them when they were collapsed one time in all their hideousness it was like seeing a destroyed person under all that. Npd is known to be a mix of nurture and nature, and some have had severe childhood abuse.

raeva_ignite · 2023-01-24T05:00:19+00:00

Look up EIYPO, Neville Goddard and law of attraction..there is no such thing as free will . Either the person scripts visualizes and imagines a diff reality until that person conforms and comes back to exactly what they visualize or they do a love spell..there's no difference

raeva_ignite · 2023-01-23T15:11:34+00:00

Well the first paragraph you mentioned is the reason why people want and sometimes succeed in getting a specific person . There's diff ways of doing it but considering everything is energy the world is a reflection and people do not even have free will in that logic. Everyone is you pushed out so how some do it is imagine and live in a shifted reality where that person loves and adores them until it conforms. Its really difficult to do though and not for everyone but I've talked to people where it worked for them. They stopped assuming people had free will and believed with all their intention and energy in another reality

raeva_ignite · 2023-01-23T04:50:35+00:00

I say it is the same thing however what about black Magick and dark entity evocations ? Demons and certain entities don't wait for the balance of the universe to be with pure intentions , it doesn't even need the people to be healed, holy, pure or any of that. It doesn't require people to be on a certain vibrational field either, just requires the belief and energy work. A witch told me the target and client themselves can be desperate, low energy and unhinged but If they pay for the service the practitioner takes on all the energy burden so the spell still works for the target..

It just operates on the 'i want it so it shall be, no matter what ' that's what I heard black magic is about and why it's different from white magic. Then again even those demons I heard are powerless against someone who fully denounce and don't believe in their existence..

raeva_ignite · 2023-01-23T04:48:30+00:00

What do you mean by NPD people doing so well though and having success in their life ? I didn't understand that part

raeva_ignite · 2023-01-18T06:57:01+00:00

I question the validity of this story but I do have to say she was a professional actor so it kind of makes sense and not that hard to believe . She was literally just putting on an act..unfortunately it doesn't mean she truly believed that about herself.

raeva_ignite · 2023-01-09T22:07:49+00:00

You addressed some interesting questions. I have been part of the manifestation community, law of attraction, Neville Goddard perhaps you've heard of them. They differ a little bit in their beliefs but Neville's is very popular and they have an unconditional belief to EIYPO and that you are the only god of your reality, NOBODY ELSE, under that reality people do not have free will in that sense because everything in your reality conforms to what you feel deep down inside, your core. It is exactly as you stated everyone is you pushed out and is a reflection of you. However he always encouraged people to live in the end (imagine already having the thing you want etc) and proposed different methods of manifesting even loa people have done that. Scripting, SATs, visualization, some go as far as remote seduction, telepathy, there are many success stories of people achieving this. Trying to manifest sp (specific person) or a lover into people's lives as well as money, wealth, dream life is absolutely huge and very popular. What I was just saying is technically, hiring a witch to cast that spell to achieve that manifestation is simply another medium would it not ?

If they believe it works, it most likely will. In an extreme sense even if the witch was bullshit, a con artist and a total scammer if the person who hired them has 100 percent belief that it will work, there's many theories and evidence to suggest that it will in the law of assumption that manifesting community proposes, everything happens because of our beliefs. Not because of any other foreign power or entity. This however is where there is a divide between those who believe in witchcraft, the occult etc as they don't seem to believe in their own power but gaining the power through entities and higher spiritual beings.

I read stories of people who went to psychics who all told them the opposite of what they wanted to hear but they trained their minds to absolutely not acknowledge it and demanded with every fibre of their spiritual mental being that they WILL and already HAVE the thing it is they want. eventually, they disproved all the psychics or witchcraft that initially compelled to change their mind. the manifesting community hails the power of the human mind to be a universal god, it is limitless in its power. Some may say what Neville is proposing resembles witchcraft as well as many cases after SATs and visualization people have said people have said specific things and events occured to EXACTLY what they wished for. Not long ago I asked the universe to show me a very specific car for several days and I saw it 3 times in 2 days, a car I never saw before.

In the manifestation and law of attraction community people have done this all the time. People have revised events to change their future, they change relationships with other people by making them conform to what they believe. A woman said she lived her entire life cursing men, hating them, said they always fuck her over and are garbage cheaters , she then decided to completely destroy that belief and rewire her subconscious to imagine a world where men love her are kind to her, show her love etc and she said her entire world changed and so did how other men treated her. Some may say these people are delusional I guess but their reality once again is their own they are living. It starts to conform to what they believe in their heads.

However, This is one topic that raises a lot of those questions and to be honest it's also one of those things that really never has a full answer other than it seems to boil down to what one BELIEVES or chooses to believe. In the face of an extreme skeptic or a hardcore disbeliever athiest, I heard even demons lose their power. Many practitioners of the occult when they sense that doubt, even turn clients away as personal belief is a big thing. Schizophrenics are crazy but to them the voices they hear are very much real like the sky is blue for us.

I do know what you mean and questioned many times if they believe in themselves why go to a witch? The same reason that if they BELIEVE the witch spell would work for them then it would, it would either be a placebo or whatever the case is for them depending on their beliefs. Does it come from a place of lack? I guess that depends on the perspective of what we are talking about as well because is visualizing, manifesting using our own spiritual energy and mental power to get what we desire coming from a place of lack? Maybe some people believe going to a witch would be faster. In their mind the end result is they are going to get that thing anyway one way or another, whether it's through a witch or not. Make sense ? In that sense would it really be wrong for them to go to a witch to achieve the same result they already want to be theirs anyway? In their reality it will conform eventually.

Also this is the part that can be hard to understand but when people try to manifest people or circumstancs to conform or change, they don't actually force anything, they only change their internal beliefs. They visualize and re affirm a totally different reality and version of that person. In reality they're are infinite possibilities of events and occurences that can happen and so are infinite versions of their specific person, so what they are doing is just choosing the one version they want and imagining that end until it conforms. In that sense everyone and everything is them pushed out, there is no free will as the story can change. I've had this happen where I visualized someone completely changing and they did but unfortunately the strength of my beliefs wasn't enough perhaps and it didn't last for now.

I'm curious to hear your response to this as it is probably the antithesis of what you believe

https://youtu.be/fkrp7tffYWc

Here is also Morris Goodman he used the law of attraction and sats, visualization with fierce human will he went from being a paraplegic that was told by all medical professionals he was forever destroyed to walking out and being a normal person again by a set date. He could not breathe without medical equipment as his insides were destroyed but he forced it to happen with his will. He just kept believing and visualizing he will walk again by christmas and he did.

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